Tolstoy said: Happy families are generally similar, while unhappy families are unhappy in their own way. Two people who have never been related, because they love each other, decided to live together from now on. From then on, eating and drinking Lazar, both of them need to adapt to each other and get used to each other. What kind of married life is happiness?

a marriage with flavor is happiness.

Writer Lin Qingxuan said: If life is a banquet, sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty are all kinds of flavors in life, and there are different kinds of marriages, so they have different flavors. In this book, wedding activities are also full of rich flavors. With the delicious dishes, everyone's life has undergone different changes: cod seed salad, French salty pie, tea rice, sardine egg rolls in high soup, iced tomatoes cooked in Guandong, oysters cooked in curry ... Readers who like delicious food can come and see this book-Wedding Living Canteen.

"Marriage" was first put forward by Japanese sociologist Masahiro Yamada. "Marriage activity" refers to all activities for the purpose of marriage. For example, in order to find your favorite spouse, learn some unilateral self-improvement courses, such as makeup and fitness; Or take the initiative to participate in parties such as blind date and friendship. Therefore, in a sense, "marriage" is a positive attitude towards life.

The story "Married Dining Hall" takes place in a small Guandong cooking shop in Tokyo, Japan. Meigumi canteen is mainly engaged in Guandong cooking. The proprietress Yusaka Hui could have continued to make a name for herself in the divination industry, but suddenly she lost her ability to foresee the future because of her marriage, so she had to give up this industry and became the proprietress of Sashido from a popular fortune teller. Some people who are troubled by work, marriage and life problems come here by coincidence. Opened this Guandong cooking shop, served delicious Guandong cooking to the guests, and at the same time, Hui also solved different troubles for the guests.

1 warm-hearted Guandong cooking

The guests who came to Meigumi canteen were attracted by the delicious Guandong cooking here.

darling daughter Qianbo, who is divorced and lives back in her mother's house, Maozi, a shop assistant who is always worried about her daughter's marriage, and Jinping, who is cheerful and honest, stable and mature, everyone loves Guandong cooking here, because it is the taste of mother and home.

Yu, the teacher who led Hui into divination, always lived alone, and no family or relatives came to attend the funeral when he died. Hui once felt guilty for not divining the teacher's death. I happened to meet this soon-to-be-transferred Guandong cooking shop. Presumably, this light Guandong cooking, which is full of Muyu flower soup, not only warms Hui's body, but also warms her heart.

When Hui was immersed in the changes brought about by her marriage, she felt worried and scared, and when she was immersed in the pain brought to her by the death of her teacher, her friend Zhenxingsi woke Hui up with a word: love, lust, lust, etc., the stronger the emotion, the easier it is to hinder her vision.

this sentence is equally applicable to marriage. Take Qianbo, a divorced rich woman, as an example. She wants to find someone who is not interested in her family, but willing to stay with her for life. When she meets Xingu, a band singer who can make her feel excited, Qianbo thinks that she can fall in love with Xingu forever. At that time, she seemed to be firmly trapped by magic, until Qianbo's father took the initiative to find out that Xingu has a family and took out a sum of money.

Later, Qianbo met Dr. Baojing, and was willing to give up her luxurious life and go to Kenya with Dr. Baojing. Although the material conditions between the two people were very different, Qianbo let go of her desire for material things, because in her view of love, she would definitely try her best to make the other person happy, and she would feel her own life value from it, so that she could feel happy.

2 refreshing draft beer

In addition to Guandong cooking, guests who come to the canteen usually ask for a draft beer after ordering Guandong cooking and side dishes. This cup of draft beer looks ordinary, but it sweeps away the troubles for the guests with a little hesitation and anxiety, bringing comfort and courage.

Mao Zi's daughter is very introverted, and she is not good at making friends and expressing emotions. Mao Zi is worried that her daughter will be left alone, and always wants to give her to a reliable person while she is still alive.

Hui asked a friend, Zhenxing Temple, to help find a social place for Mao Zi's daughter, Yan Zi, to work as a short-term worker. Here, Yan Zi really overcame her social phobia and successfully started blind date and dating, which made Mao Zi feel at ease.

Unexpectedly, Mao Zi was surprised by the marriage partner that Yan Zi finally chose. It turned out to be a widowed middle-aged man Suzuki with two children. What they need is such simple feelings, just as what they want at the dinner table is not expensive roast beef, but simple fried pork slices with vegetables.

In this way, the proprietress Hui runs this simple Sashido. Although she spent a short time with her guests, it gave everyone spiritual comfort. In this Sashido, Hui witnessed the wedding activities of the guests and worried about them; Happy for them; Be thankful for them. In fact, you don't have to get married to be happy. As long as you choose the way you like, this is happiness.

? Although Sashido was unfortunately caught in a fire at the end of the story, it was for this reason that Hui suddenly understood that although she found herself unable to recover her ability to foresee the future, God gave her a new strength-this ability, though small and weak, could come when she wished others happiness. This is a very kind, gentle and important force; This is the ability to make people feel lonely and happy.

Marriage, like food, represents an attitude towards life. There is another reason to recommend this book: at the end of the book, there is a menu of "Marriage canteen". You love food, come and have a look!

at any time, don't give up your choice, choose the lifestyle that suits you best, and go on unswervingly.