Relaxed, comfortable, happy.

When you are not working overtime, go home as soon as possible to accompany your wife and children, do some housework, or read a book.

When I go to work every day, I think about working hard for my wife and children, which makes me more courageous.

Don’t worry when you work overtime, my wife will take care of the housework, Dabao’s homework, bathe and put Xiaobao to sleep.

Every day is tiring and fulfilling, ordinary and happy.

We have been together for almost fifteen years, and we have almost never had any quarrels. The occasional quarrel never lasted more than three sentences. Either I stopped talking, or she stopped talking.

There are never any differences of principle. When commenting on something, they often blurt out the words almost at the same time, only to find that they have similar opinions and smile at each other.

We are an old couple, and we often hold hands when we go out.

The two families have similar backgrounds, they are common people, and our parents love each other. We go to each other's house, relax and feel at ease. We can be lazy when we want, lie down when we want, play when we want, and do whatever makes us feel comfortable. We often chat with our parents and listen to our father.

Talk about the revolutionary past and listen to my mother's ramblings.

My family of four all depends on my salary to support them.

Naturally, the income cannot be compared with the Zhihu average.

Fortunately, neither of us has strong materialistic desires, rarely contributes to Double Eleven, and even enjoy simple meals.

I don't eat meat, and my favorite is cabbage and tofu.

My wife and son are happy if they have meat, but my wife prefers to cook. If she goes out to eat, she will cook up her own food when she comes back. According to her son’s comments, they are all better than original ones, such as kebabs, sizzling beef, mutton soup, and salt and pepper pork ribs.

They all look alike and are well received by my son.

We have sufficient knowledge about children's education and growth. We hope that they will be healthy, kind, and able to support themselves, and we do not expect them to become successful.

Respect children to the greatest extent and give them tolerance, love and freedom.

Children are involved in family decision-making from an early age.

Try not to compare yourself to others.

Occasionally, I envy other people's children, and they will comfort each other and not put pressure on the children.

There are books everywhere at home. I read when I have free time, hoping to educate my children. They also love reading, but their favorite books are not the same as mine, and I don’t care.

The children like video games, so we equipped them with mobile phones and tablets and asked them to set their own time.

From Dabao's point of view, he ranks in the middle of the pack in studies, gets along well with classmates and teachers, is kind, independent-minded, and has strong self-care ability.

I am very proud of Dabao.

Xiaobao is healthy, lively and loves to laugh.

He's not old enough to go to school yet, I hope he grows up healthy and happy.

My abilities are limited, but my wife and children don’t mind me.

In your spare time, you can also read and hike.

Nor did he give up on his dream.

Be calm and practical every day.

I am so grateful to have met my wife.

I am very lucky to be born as a human being; I am very lucky to be born in this era; I am even more lucky to have parents, wife and children who love me.

grateful!

To add: My wife and I each have our own ways to relieve stress.

I mainly read, climb mountains and write poetry.

My wife mainly watches TV dramas, does puzzles, and paints.

We also have our own special skills in raising children: My special skill is storytelling. I once told a series of stories for Dabao using a gourd baby for six years (spanning the entire elementary school). I used science fiction and time travel, and used the science I know,

Geography, history, Tang poetry and Song poetry, human relationships and incidents are all integrated into it.

In order to listen to stories, my son would rather walk to school with me in the morning than take his mother's car (shame! I can't ride a bicycle).

One of his classmates often participated in our garden tours, hikes, and mountain hikes in order to follow him and listen to stories.

My wife's special skill is assembling toys, puzzles or Lego. She plays with great interest, and the children naturally enjoy it.

There are also delicious temptations that firmly capture the stomachs of the two young men.

Share a few limericks: Send Dabao to play football. The east wind is warm, the magnolias are blooming, and the young man is flying on the green field.

On the way home, he fought against Feihua Ling and sang loudly all the way back.

I went hiking with Dabao in light clothes when the weather was warm, and the father and son hiked to Xiangbala.

There are apricot flowers in front of the mountain and snow in the back, and white clouds and green leaves.

In the summer, I played with my little baby under the pergola in the sunset. The little baby was barefoot.

Run away from the sun and come back to see the lotus flowers.

After working overtime on weekends, I would play with Xiaobao and sit in silence for a long time. I had a bilingual contract with two schools.

What fun is there in returning home after a busy day? There are lumps on my back in the glow of the glow.

After dinner in the summer, I went to the park with my wife to enjoy the psychological dishes. A glass of rice wine was not very strong.

After drinking, we went to the park to enjoy the cool air, and then walked hand in hand around the lake and returned slowly.

My wife took her son to install a shoe cabinet with a screwdriver, hammer, and blueprints, and the woman assembled her own shoe cabinet.

Don't let the scholar be so useless that he just blurts out hymns.

Go hiking by yourself for a hectic and leisurely week, and explore the east wind on Fenghuang Ridge.

The sunshine melts into the red apricot blossoms, smiling into the boundless spring scenery.

Go to see the sea by yourself. Climb up to the sea-viewing platform and watch the sea breeze bring the tide.

Traveling thousands of miles, the ambition is still there, and half of my life has been wasted.