Soldiers have a unique temper, and it is understandable that they live in an imperative environment where superiors obey subordinates for a long time. Now, when we return to social and family life, we should conduct good self-reflection and self-summary, and make up our minds to change our shortcomings. Only in this way can we create a harmonious family environment and take good care of them. I suggest going to the bookstore to buy more books about family and some social books. If you have nothing to do, you can learn tea ceremony, drink kungfu tea and cook delicious food. Change yourself and everything will be fine!