If a relationship makes you feel very tired, I think once you feel tired in a relationship, basically your inner balance has made a choice, that is, you want to end the relationship. . But because of my dependence and habit on this relationship, I wanted to let it go but couldn't.

So what should we do if a relationship makes us very tired and we want to let go but can’t? Let me talk about some of my thoughts below, for reference only:

1. Don’t think about the relationship first, give yourself a holiday, take some time off, and think about what happened in this relationship. question.

When a man and a woman in love have a harmonious relationship and have a relationship crisis, one party will always fall into pain and sadness. If the emotional conflicts between two people accumulate over time, both of them will feel very tired, and it will be difficult to maintain the relationship. The two parties will no longer be gentle towards each other, but will torture each other more.

So when there are problems in our relationship, we should not let ourselves continue to be entangled in this relationship, but give each other time and space. Only when you calm down can you reflect carefully on what went wrong that caused your current relationship to be different from before.

2. After finding the problem, talk to the other party about your ideas and requirements calmly and see the other party’s attitude and thoughts.

After a period of calmness and reflection, and after discovering the problems in the relationship, we need to talk to the other party. Regardless of the final outcome, we all hope to give this relationship a chance. After all, the two of them once loved each other and had so many wonderful moments together.

If the other party feels your troubles and pain, is willing to change with you, and can be considerate and considerate of your pain, I think this will give each other a chance to start over. If the final communication and changes cannot change your feeling of being tired, then you should be more decisive and end the relationship in a timely manner without causing internal friction.

3. No matter how ups and downs your relationship may be, you must have things you like and don’t be knocked down by emotional things.

Even if the outcome of this relationship is not so good, don’t let yourself be immersed in pain for a long time and be unable to recover. In addition to feelings, there are many meaningful things we can do. At this time, it becomes very important to have something you like, such as sports, food, side jobs, etc., so that your life will not be controlled by emotional matters. We are the masters of our own lives.

On the road of love, no one can go smoothly. Some betrayed, some abandoned, but some persisted. No matter what, follow your heart and don't be bound by emotional matters. Feelings should make you physically and mentally happy, not physically and mentally exhausted.