1. During the reign of Emperor Kangxi of the Qing Dynasty, there was a university student named Zhang Ying. One day, Zhang Ying received a letter from home, saying that her family had a dispute with her neighbor in order to fight for a three-foot-wide homestead, and asked him to use his authority to smooth the relationship and win the lawsuit.

Zhang Ying smiled calmly after reading the letter, and wrote a letter with a pen, and attached a poem: A thousand miles to write a book is just for the wall, so what's the harm of letting him be three feet? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still here today, but I don't see Qin Shihuang. After the family received the letter, they gave up three feet of homestead.

when the neighbors met, they also gave way to the three-foot homestead. As a result, it became Liuchi Lane, and this story of turning hostilities into friendship has been passed down to this day.

Hehe, tell us to have an open mind and maintain a harmonious interpersonal relationship between people.

2. During the Warring States Period, Lin Xiangru, the Scheerer of the State of Zhao, was ordered to go to the State of Qin, and returned to Zhao without disgrace. He also sent Zhao Wang to the Mianchi meeting set up by Qin Wang, so that Zhao Wang was not blindsided. In order to reward Lin Xiangru's meritorious deeds, the Prince of Zhao named Lin Xiangru as Prime Minister.

Lian Po, a veteran, prides himself on taking credit for this, but refuses to accept it. He deliberately provokes many times, and Lin Xiangru puts national affairs first and always endures it. After Lian Po finally woke up, he offered a humble apology to Lin Xiangru. Make peace with each other, * * * with the auxiliary country, and the country is safe.

3. A single girls just moved, and she found a poor family living next door, a mother with two children. One night, there was a sudden power failure in that area, so the girl had to light the candles herself. After a while, I suddenly heard someone knocking at the door. It turned out to be the child of the next-door neighbor. In the dark, he flashed his bright eyes and asked, "Sister, do you have any candles at home?"

The girl thought, "Is their family so poor that they don't even have candles? Don't lend them, lest they rely on you! So, yell at the child and say, "No"! Just as she was about to close the door, the poor child spread a caring smile and said, "I knew there must be no one in your house!" "

After that, she took a candle out of her arms and said, "Mom and I were afraid that you would live alone and there was no candle, so we brought one for you.". At this moment, the girl blamed herself and was moved to tears, holding the child tightly in her arms.

4. Disciple asked, "How can we purify the world?" ?

The master of the method of purifying the world answered, "Once upon a time, there was a Sheikh in Damascus. People respected him because he was full of wisdom, but no one knew whether he was a good man or not. ?

"One afternoon, a building accident caused the house where the Sheikh and his wife lived to collapse. Neighbors desperately began to dig in the ruins, and they finally found the chief's wife. ?

"The chief's wife said,' Leave me alone. Please go and save my husband, who was sitting there. '?

"According to her instructions, the neighbors removed the broken bricks in that place and found the chief. The chief said,' Leave me alone. Please go and save my wife first. She was lying there. ‘?

"If a person does things according to this couple's way, then he is purifying the world."

5. In a big mountain, there lived a sparrow and a family. Sparrows make a living by picking up rice grains that farmers have fallen to the ground, but they also have no worries. But the arrival of voles broke this calm.

Because there are fewer mice than rice, when it's sparrow's turn to get up, there are almost only crumbs left. Sparrows are very angry. In order to grab food, they get up in the middle of the night several times, but they still can't compete with the quick-eyed vole. The sparrow thought, we must find a chance to get rid of these eyesores. ?

The chance of being hurt by delicious food finally came. A hungry cobra crawled over and the voles began to feel uneasy all day. This day, just before dawn, cobra climbed to the edge of vole's nest, looked at it, didn't find the target, and looked at the tree. The sparrow, who thought it was carefree, didn't know the danger was approaching. Just when the cobra opened its mouth, the vole gave an alarm in time to let it escape from the danger. ?

So, in order to survive, sparrows and voles began to cooperate. Sparrows patrolled in the air and were responsible for alerting the sleeping voles, and voles also left considerable grains of rice for sparrows. ?

As the sparrow grew up, its appetite became bigger and bigger, and it began to be dissatisfied. It asked to share half of the grain, but it was rejected because the vole family had two more children and needed a lot of food. The sparrow with hatred began to think, wouldn't it be the best of both worlds if the vole was solved and food and clothing were guaranteed in the future? ?

On a sunny afternoon, voles climbed out to bask in the sun, sparrows volunteered to be on guard, and the paralyzed voles fell asleep happily. The cobra rushed at the vole family like an arrow. The sparrow hovering in the air found it. It opened its mouth, but held back. ?

The unfortunate voles became the delicacies of cobras, and the sparrows also enjoyed the rice grains that belonged to them. Because he was so full, when the cobra climbed up to eat it, it only flapped its wings a few times and died. ?

Many times, opponents and friends are only in one mind. If they live in peace, opponents can become friends. Helping opponents is to protect themselves. And absolutizing the concept, even taking excessive actions, can only be a kind of harm to each other.