My girlfriend Xiaoan, when she was a girl, she kept saying that she wanted to find an intellectual husband who was elegant, humorous, and knowledgeable, preferably a university professor or the like. She has been in love several times, always with bespectacled, elegant and bookish boyfriends, which is in line with her aesthetic ideals.

The problem is, she ended up marrying an athletic man. The woman who once ridiculed the boys in the sports department for their well-developed limbs and simple minds was gone. She was less than 1.6 meters tall and stood next to the 1.8-meter tall handsome man, smiling like a bird with a happy smile that was both real and illusory. I asked her if she doesn’t like scholars? How could you go against your original intention, change your "taste", and fall in love with a man with an alternative temperament? She said that love cannot be explained or understood. When she was with a gentle man, she found that they lacked the vitality of the athletic man and his persistent pursuit of her.

As a result, I was gradually attracted by my current husband’s simple and simple life philosophy and his sunny spirit with enthusiasm for life. The key point is that I am devoted to her, and I wish to hold my son’s hand and live with my son. "We grow old together."

We become attached to a certain food or a certain person, just like falling in love. Falling in love at first sight depends on beauty and stunningness, but the intense heat of cooking oil in the fire has faded as time goes by. It’s the hardest to maintain.

You may feel displeased or indifferent at first, but then gradually become attracted and conquered.

This slow process is more like an old-fashioned love. Or warm the fire and simmer the soup, and slowly see the goodness of the other person.

After falling in love, you will never regret it, and you will never get tired of being entangled for a lifetime.