Xiaojia Village is now called "Democracy Village". You should start from Dancheng Town. Take the minibus from Dancheng to Qiancang at Dancheng's East Gate Station. You tell the conductor on the bus that you are going to "Xiaojia Village".
That's it. He will stop for you on the road. There is a newly built road to "Xiao's House", but you have to walk up it. It takes about 15 minutes. You can also take a taxi in Dancheng.
, the cost is probably around 40-50.