Canadian writer Neil said: The best things in life are free. True happiness is not an earth-shattering event, but knowing how to discover the little beauty in life and live the life you want.
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My friend gave me a big bag of alfalfa, and I asked my husband how to eat it.
Mr. Wang said, whatever you want, you can eat whatever you want.
The alfalfa meal for two days in a row brought us the taste of spring, and also brought us a lot of warmth and happiness.
Some steamed wheat rice, some cooked chicken soup, and some wrapped jiaozi.
Alfalfa-wheat rice is mixed with pepper oil, sesame oil, soy sauce, sugar, vinegar and garlic, and it tastes very green, very peasant and very original.
Alfalfa is put in the stewed chicken soup, which is visually green and refreshing, and the taste is extremely delicious.
jiaozi with alfalfa stuffing is our first attempt. My husband cooked the chopped stuffing, and I mixed the noodles and mixed the stuffing.
I am in charge of wrapping jiaozi, and he rolls the skin and cooks jiaozi.
Mr. Wang is conscientious and disciplined in his work, and the rolled dumpling skin is always quite standard. The rolled dumpling skin is round and concave in the middle and rolled around like a small bowl.
I praised him for his ability, and he said I was amazing. He said: I am a coolie and you are a chef, and you are the finishing touch.
Cooking together is always pleasant. Praise and mutual praise, flatter and flatter, thank and thank each other ... except tacit understanding, it is tacit understanding.
The wonderful food makes people feel that life is really beautiful.
tasting jiaozi with the unique fragrance of alfalfa, Mr. Wang said: Xiang, it's delicious, it's delicious. Thank you. I couldn't eat such delicious jiaozi without you. You are worthy of being an expert in stuffing.
"Stuffing expert" is a title praised by my parents-in-law. When I mix dumplings, I usually put a variety of vegetables, rarely use one alone, try to be nutritious and make use of the different tastes of ingredients to make a unique flavor. Mr. Wang always praises me for my creativity, saying that jiaozi who can eat my bag is very happy.
The next morning, my husband asked me: There is still some noodles left in Bao jiaozi. How can I eat them? Is it rubbing sesame food or pancakes?
I'm concentrating on the code word, saying, bake scallion cakes, and I'll do it when I finish writing this paragraph.
I didn't expect Mr. Wang to bake the scallion cake and bring it to me to eat. It's so well baked.
I was surprised to praise: You are really something, you can bake scallion cakes.
He laughed and said, This is a boy's skill. I could do it when I was a child. You did it before, so I didn't have a chance.
I said, it's good to have you. Thank you for being so kind to me. I'm going to waste your care.
Mr. Wang said: How wonderful! Only in this way can I show my value and show that I am useful.
I was moved again and said, where are you useful? You are overqualified, and you are too useful. Without you, there would be no me.
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Some people say that the temperature in the kitchen is the temperature in the home. Preparing meals carefully for your family and taking every meal seriously convey your love and cherish for your family.
Some people say that the chef at home is usually the pillar of the family and the backbone of the family.
We have truly experienced all these, and we are grateful for the beauty of all this.
the deepest love is to be able to hold you up when you need it, accompany you around, and share the fate. In addition to love, this feeling also has the loyalty of treating each other with sincerity, the tacit understanding of never giving up, the unforgettable kindness, the generosity of life and death, and the theory of talking with Zicheng.
2
Mr. Wang's book is out of print.
On the weekend, the publisher invited him to take photos for publicity and have a lunch party to celebrate.
when he was about to go out, I said, I'll go with you. It's a two-hour drive back and forth. I want to be with you. I won't attend the party and I won't disturb your activities.
he said, then how hard you worked. What did you do for several hours?
I said: read books and exercise.
So, I set off with him with my book.
when he arrived at his destination, it was after ten o'clock in the morning, and he was expected to be busy until two or three o'clock in the afternoon.
how do you spend these hours? I suddenly got the idea of feeling the spring, challenging myself and walking around the city wall.
he said worriedly, how can that work? How hard it is! I'll go with you later.
I said, how can you walk down with your small body? If you walk this circle, it may be scrapped. I forgot that your leg was so painful that I almost couldn't get off the wall last time. Ha ... Don't worry, I can do it. You don't know that I am brave and independent.
Mr. Wang is still very worried and says, then pay attention to safety. If you can't walk any further, take the bus.
I reassured my husband, loaded a bottle of water and a roll of biscuits, slung my bag sideways, turned on the step-recording software, rolled up my sleeves, and set off alone in high spirits, feeling very courageous and powerful.
I have a strong heart, and I can be very high when I am alone. I didn't invite friends to go with me. First, I thought that everyone had their own life on weekends, and family members needed to accompany me, so I couldn't disturb others to cooperate with my whim. Second, because the intensity of this kind of exercise is beyond the ordinary people's endurance, I still have some basic skills as an athlete, and I regard it as a challenge, a test of being unwilling to accept my old age and a test of perseverance.
From the east gate of the school, when we arrived at the south gate along the moat, at the entrance of the underpass crossing the street, a young foreign woman with a backpack said hello to passers-by timidly, and everyone hurried without stopping, so I ran over without saying hello.
After running down the stairs, I suddenly realized whether she needed help or not, so I went back to ask her if she needed help. She looked grateful and gestured to me in English that she didn't know how to get to the wall, so I took her to the entrance from the underground passage to the wall.
At this moment, I really realized that smile is the universal language of human beings. When we smiled at each other and waved goodbye to her, we also passed on a warmth and friendship to each other.
I was desperate to get back because I was afraid that Mr. Wang's activity would end early and the car keys were in my hand. Along the way, run when you are energetic, walk when you are tired, walk and run, empty yourself and be hearty.
On the way, I passed through Huancheng Park, Shuyuan Gate, Yongxingfang and Railway Station ... Finally, I returned from the west gate of the school. The whole journey was 19.6 kilometers, and it took me nearly three hours without eating or drinking.
When I came back, I was so tired that my head ached. I said to my husband, Do you know how I died? I'm exhausted, ha ...
Mr. Wang said, silly boy, how can you not eat or drink? What do you want to eat now? I'll invite you to dinner.
I said: I am tired, I am not hungry at all, and I don't want to eat anything.
Mr. Wang said: You must eat.
Later, he took me from restaurant to restaurant.
he asked, do you want to eat fish wrapped in paper?
I answer: no.
he asked, do you want to eat hot pot?
I answer: no.
he asked, do you want to eat stir-fried dishes?
I answer: no.
he asked, would you like a barbecue?
I answer: no.
he asked, what would you like to eat?
I answered: I don't know.
Finally, I stopped at the gate of a Beijing roast duck restaurant and asked: Do you want to eat roast duck?
I said, this is ok. It seems that I haven't eaten this bite for a long time.
Because he had eaten, he took care of me and helped me roll cakes for me to eat alone. People who don't know the situation will think that he is reluctant to give it to me. I said: You should eat a little, too. You can't be like this. You make me feel like Empress Dowager Cixi. You are a small doormat, and others will think that I bully you.
He laughed: It doesn't matter. I am willing to be bullied by you. I am used to being bullied. Ha ...
I think of a sentence. A capable man never tries to be brave to his woman, because he loves you, is willing to show weakness, and is willing to yield to you and spoil you all the time.
I unwittingly rolled more than a dozen cakes and ate more than half of the ducks. Looking at the way I enjoyed them, he looked distressed and full of love. He said, It seems that he is really exhausted and really hungry. You can't run like this in the future. You are stupid.
I feel quite good myself. Life is like this. There are many surprises and many unexpected pleasures. Today is finally half the experience.
Although it is a person's journey, my husband has never left in my heart along the way. Love has always accompanied me in my body and blood, warming me, giving me courage and strength.
In this life, we must cherish the people who are kind to us, cherish every day together, leave fewer regrets and more beautiful memories.
Love each day as the last day, and give the best of yourself to the person you love the most.
3
Because of love, we are rich. Accustomed to quiet, we like reading, cooking and accompanying each other quietly at home in leisure, and it is fun to explore only nearby.
On the afternoon of the Qingming small holiday, I walked with my husband on the hillside, facing the sunshine.
It's hot early this year, and the sun is scorching in early April.
I held an umbrella to help him keep out the sun. He said, No, no, men are afraid of basking in the sun. I said: it's not a tanning problem. Such strong light will burn your skin, or you can walk backwards. I'll watch the road for you, and you can sunbathe your back, which is good for your lumbar spine.
Mr. Wang said: OK.
When he turned his back, he immediately exclaimed, How beautiful!
I turned around and looked. It was really beautiful.
Blue sky, green hills, green trees, red and yellow streets, our long figure ... seems to be a strong oil painting, so beautiful, so beautiful ...
We put our hearts into nature like children, put a big V, and hold hands with joy ... May we always be gentle, warm and everlasting in this life.
Many good things in life are free. Many good things in life are inadvertently, on the same road with people who know each other and love each other, in a moment, in a turn, in the sun ...
If you really have happiness, you can realize that happiness is your own and has nothing to do with others. In the world of love, only by being the best of yourself can you meet the best of him.
Postscript:
Two days ago, my husband saw me writing and asked me: What are you writing?
I said: Write that you baked scallion cakes.
He asked: What is there to write about pancakes?
I answered: Because you baked the cake.
after I finished writing it for my husband, he said emotionally, I'm so touched, I'm moved to tears.
I asked: why?
He said: Because of your understanding, your care and observation of feelings, your perception of beauty and your care ... bake a cake, but you write such an ordinary thing with such poetry and emotion.
Actually, everything can't go well in life. What matters is our attitude towards life, and what mood and perspective we use to look at life. Writer Yu Hua said: Only clean eyes can see the soul. Only with clean eyes can you see beautiful scenery; Only with a clean heart can you have pure feelings.
Bai Luomei, a talented woman in seclusion, said that we are all just passers-by in this floating world, and we can't decide what we gain or lose. Even so, I still long for a bosom friend.
The blessing of life is to know yourself without saying a word, to know each other and cherish each other, to walk through the prosperity of the world together, to indulge in pastoral poetry, not to be afraid of the wind and sand of the years, and to stay with each other all over the world.
the most practical and warm emotion is that I know you and have me, and I am willing to be better because I cherish each other.
For this understanding, it is worth writing, even if there is only one reader, just to be able to sit in a rocking chair together and slowly relive the beauty that * * * has gone through together ...