My name is Dabin, and I come from Shiheyan Village. When I was 6 years old, my father went to the mines to dig coal with people from the same village. Because at that time, the family was relatively poor. My father heard that mining coal could make money. Unexpectedly, the coal mine collapsed.

, my father never came back.

I was still young at the time, and my mother went there alone to pick up my father’s ashes. The owner of the mine threatened her and offered her 50,000 yuan. If she didn’t want it, she wouldn’t get a penny. Looking at the burly man behind him,

My mother's skinny frame seemed dwarfed.

Just like that, my mother came back holding the ashes and 50,000 yuan.

Under the control of my second uncle, my father was laid to rest. Not half a year after his death, my second uncle, at the instigation of my second aunt, paid attention to the 50,000 yuan. At that time, my mother did not agree, saying that it was left to

At that time, my second uncle was so angry that I paid for my schooling and even beat my mother.

Later, my mother never used the 50,000 yuan. She did farm work every day during the day, got some clothes from a nearby garment factory at night, and sewed clothes for others, so that I could go to high school little by little.

When I was a sophomore in high school, it was still snowing heavily. I carried my schoolbag and a change of clothes to school. Since the snow was heavy, I bundled up tightly and walked along the road. A car behind me hit me.

Flying, I fell to the ground and saw that the car did not stop and accelerated. I felt black in front of my eyes. When I woke up, I was already lying in the hospital, my head was wrapped with gauze, and my left foot was also injured.

After the cast was put on, my mother sat next to me, already crying into tears.

When I woke up, I realized that the driver who hit me ran away. Fortunately, a kind person saw him and called 120. Otherwise, I might have died from excessive blood loss. The doctor said that my left calf was comminutedly fractured.

The operation needed to be done as soon as possible, so my mother had to go through the hospitalization procedures and pay the operation fee quickly, which cost more than 100,000 yuan a day.

My mother asked me to stay in the hospital with peace of mind while she went back to raise money. My mother used all the family's savings and my father's pension, and together they only raised 100,000, but there was still a shortfall of 30,000.

Her mother borrowed it from all the neighbors, and finally she had to go to her second uncle's house.

Because the second uncle owned a restaurant in the town, he had money in his hands. When my mother came to his house, he and the second aunt heard that mother had borrowed money. At that time, the second uncle was about to evict the mother. At that time,

In order to borrow money, my mother actually knelt down to her second uncle and the others, but they remained indifferent. The second uncle and the second aunt murmured for a while, and the second uncle said: I can give you 30,000 yuan, and you don’t have to pay it back, but...

You have to give me the house you live in now.

My mother said, I gave you the house, where should we live? My second uncle said, I don’t care, you can go to the fields and build it again, otherwise, I won’t borrow a penny.

Thinking of me lying on the hospital bed, my mother agreed with tears in her eyes. Then my uncle gave the money to my mother. Just like that, I had the operation. But later, my mother and I had to move to the fields at the east end of the village.

, with the help of neighbors, we built two houses with asbestos tiles.

I always thought that my second uncle just took the opportunity to leave the house. I didn’t expect that my mother would kneel down to my second uncle. I felt very guilty at that time. I secretly swore to myself that I must work hard and take good care of my mother. I also hated my second uncle.

Gritting my teeth, I am his nephew, and he actually treated us, mother and son, like this.

After I graduated from college, I found a stable job based on my excellent performance in school and my own professional skills. Later, I and several like-minded classmates agreed that the Internet has great potential, so we jointly opened an Internet company.

Now the company is slowly getting back on track.

My savings had already reached 7 figures. I wanted to bring my mother to live there, but my mother said she was not used to life in the city, so I had to build a new house and go back to see her every weekend.

That day, she called me and said: My second uncle came to see her and wanted to borrow 100,000 yuan from me. He said that my second aunt had a tumor and needed surgery, but the cost was too high and the money was not enough.

In fact, 100,000 is nothing to me, but when I think about the time when he made my mother kneel down and forced us to be homeless, I no longer have any affection for them, only hatred.

In the end, I still couldn't defeat my mother and lent the money to my second uncle. Every time I went back to my hometown to see my mother, he would always call me, but I never ignored him because I couldn't forgive him for who he was back then.

You say, how should I forgive?