Zhang Xiaoxian said: Where there is hope, there is disappointment.

When you grow up, you learn to understand that there will always be countless small disappointments in life, which are for others and for yourself.

Anyway, don't let these tiny disappointments ruin my hopes, and don't be too hard on yourself. Don't be too hard on people who love you so much. Like you, he is a mortal.

Come on, let's talk about the case.

Case: My husband owed a gambling debt, but told me it was to give me the life I wanted.

Not long ago, Han Xiao came to me and said, "Teacher, I am so disappointed in my husband. I feel that he has no sense of responsibility and responsibility as a man.

Later, I learned that Han Xiao and her husband A Chao met on a blind date. They have been in love for two years, married for five years, and their child is four years old this year. Last year, A Chao was temporarily transferred and the two separated. After living in a different place for half a year, A Chao went home, but Han Xiao found that A Chao often hid and didn't play with his mobile phone, often sighing and listless.

Han Xiao thought her husband was cheating on her and forced her to do so many times. Finally, her husband told her the truth. It turned out that during the six months in different places, A Chao learned to speculate in futures with his colleagues in the unit. He not only lost all the money for buying a car, but also owed more than 300 thousand foreign debts. This is the total income of this family for two years without eating or drinking.

In the face of possessed Chao, Han Xiao and Chao had a quarrel. Han Xiao bitterly accused A Chao: "When you did this, did you think about our young son, your elderly parents and me?" Unexpectedly, Chao did not apologize after hearing Han Xiao's words, but turned and ran to the sky platform.

On the rooftop, A Chao said to Han Xiao, "If you don't always say that your brothers and sisters will buy a house today and a car the day after tomorrow, will I gamble?" I'm not doing this to give you the life you want! "

Han Xiao said that this is actually not the first time that A Chao has been confused. When the child just turned one year old, A Chao and his colleagues gambled online and lost 60,000 to 70,000 yuan. Finally, Han Xiao used his dowry money to help him fill the hole. On that occasion, Chao's reasons were exactly the same as this one.

"I thought he would learn from his mistakes. I thought this was the first time and the last time. I didn't expect forgiveness to become like this. "

Analysis: Leaves don't turn yellow in a day, and people don't get cold overnight.

Xiao Han forgave Achao for the first time because he believed Achao's rhetoric and foolishly took the responsibility on himself. I think it was because I put too much pressure on him that he chose to take risks.

However, the reality once again gave Han Xiao a blow and made Han Xiao wake up. Now, she is afraid to expect a little from her husband, Chao.

When are girls most likely to be super disappointed in their husbands?

First of all: I can't see the future and lose hope.

Marry the man I love happily, and I find this man: lazy and enterprising; Never keep your promise; No responsibility, no sense of responsibility, single-minded only about their own enjoyment, but regardless of family integrity or family management.