1. The golden key to making life better is not in the hands of others. If we give up our resentment and sighs, a better life will be within easy reach. We subjectively want to live a good life, but objectively we do not have a good life. The reason is that we always want to wait for others to improve our lives, do not expect to change others, and be the masters of our own lives.

2. Life is the process of living. How can there be no wind and no rain? It is precisely because of the baptism of wind and rain that we can see the colorful rainbow; it is because of the pain of failure that we can taste the joy of success.

3. Life is like a bowl, which can bear everything. It can bear delicacies from mountains and seas, as well as wild vegetables and whole grains. It can hold thousands of years of wine, and drink plain cold water. Life is like a bowl. If you fill it with enough water, it will overflow. If you fill it with water just above the bottom of the bowl, the bowl will be filled, but if it overflows the mouth of the bowl, the bowl will be discarded. Life should be like a bowl, open and open, with nothing hidden. You use it to hold gold and silver beans, and the bowl only keeps them for you. When you need them, it will give them to you without leaving a single particle. The bowl will inevitably bump and bump, there will inevitably be cracks, people will inevitably suffer setbacks, and there will inevitably be shortcomings. There is no perfect bowl, and there is no perfect person. Rich or poor, just be happy!

4. You must have "three gains" in life: one is to be able to keep calm, the other is to be able to bend down, and the third is to be able to hold one's head up. Being able to remain calm is a manifestation of wisdom, the precipitation of reason, and a sign of maturity. To be able to bend down means to be low-key and humble, tolerant of all rivers, and able to bend and stretch. Keep your head high and maintain an optimistic and enterprising attitude no matter in adversity or good times.

5. People are really strange. When happiness is in front of us, we rarely cherish it, but wait until it disappears before we can appreciate it.

6. The time of a young man is like wandering. He spends a lot of time wandering and only uses a few moments to grow.

7. The value of life does not depend on what we do or the people we associate with; it depends on who we are.

8. The meaning of life is a question that everyone thinks about, and it is also an experience that everyone lives. We pass by stories every day, and where is the beauty of life? Ask yourself, from isolation to understanding, from isolation to warmth, each of us is part of this meaning.

9. It is better to live up to expectations than to be angry. Stupid people only get angry, smart people know how to fight for it. In life, there is "qi" everywhere, and there is "qi" in everything. Life without "qi" is not life, it is a "utopia" in fantasy.

10. Time is like a horse. Inadvertently, it runs by quietly. People who value time can do a lot of things in a short period of time. It's up to you to fight for it.

11. When you are young, you always have to prove this and that, proving right and wrong. The eternal conclusion is that others are wrong and you are right. If someone makes progress, it's because he crawls like a dog. If someone is enjoying himself a little, that's because he's corrupt and degenerate, and he's finally complacent.

12. In fact, for some things, if you gently let go, it may not be easy; for some people, if you remember deeply, it may not be happiness; if you look away from some pain, it may not be experience. Only by being content can you always be happy, and only by cherishing it can you be happy. Many pains in life are caused by the inability to distinguish between needs and desires. The less you need, the easier it is to satisfy; the more you desire, the more disappointment you will have.

Thirteen. A pleasant day is very simple. A song, a short article, a cup of tea and a ray of warm sunshine are enough. Some people always feel that life is tiring. In fact, life is not tiring, but the heart is tiring. If you let go, you may be relieved.

14. Familiar habits, familiar routes, familiar days, no miracle will ever happen. Changing your thinking, changing your habits, and changing your way of living will often lead to unlimited creations and unlimited scenery!

15. Escape does not necessarily mean you can escape; facing does not necessarily mean the most uncomfortable; being alone does not necessarily mean you are unhappy; gaining does not necessarily last long; losing does not necessarily mean you will no longer have it; turning around, Not necessarily the weakest. Don't rush to say that you have no choice, thinking that there are only right and wrong in the world. There is not only one answer to many things, so we always have a way to go.

16. Only when there is scenery in your heart can spring flowers bloom; only when you have wishes in your heart can you achieve your career; only when you have reason in your heart can you travel around the world; only when you have virtue in your heart can you tolerate all things; Only by following the Tao can you have everything; only by having dreams in your heart can you have hope; only by having responsibilities in your heart can you make a difference; only by having happiness in your heart can you discover beauty; only by having hope in your heart can you see the light.

Seventeen. Some feelings slowly melt away over the years and are no longer unforgettable; some people slowly drift away from each other as they interact with each other, as if without a trace; some things slowly fade away over time. Be slow and calm, and never be tempted again.

18. One day when others are not nice to you, you will feel resentful. In fact, it is not that others are not nice, but that our original requirements have changed. We are always used to getting, but forget to be grateful. .

19. When you are in the beginning, don’t take others as a child to bully; in the twilight of a person, don’t take others as a weak insult; before others, don’t use yourself in public; after you become a person, don’t use others as a humiliation. People should be slandered; when you are above others, don't treat others as others; when you are below others, don't treat yourself as someone else.

20. Find the mission of your life and listen to your inner voice, which is far better than the eyes and expectations of others. Return to your own soul now, understand yourself, listen to your inner needs, and be the person you want to be. People live to be their own masters.