No matter which "process" is missing, "product" will have defects. For each of us, family education, school education and social education can also be compared to an "assembly line" for producing products, and each link has "overall significance". No matter which link goes wrong, it is impossible to produce high-quality "products"
Family is the place where people are born and the initial living and living environment. Family education is the education at the beginning of life, and parents are the first teachers. Parents teach us to learn the first sentence, lead us to take the first step in life and guide us to understand society and life. There is an idiom in China called "preconceptions", which means that what you see and hear first plays a leading role.
Often reject what you see and hear differently. The education received at home is like the "background color" of people's thoughts and behaviors, which is difficult to change. As Confucius said, "Less is nature, and habit is nature." It can affect a person's life.
The relationship between educators and educatees in family education is naturally formed. Parents and children are not only the relationship between education and education, but also the "parent-child relationship" with the closest relationship and the closest feelings. Family education has natural advantages. Yan Zhitui said: "Believe in your words and believe in your relatives; Walk with the same life and do what you serve.
It is not as good as Fu Maid's order to ban the boy's tyranny. The struggle between mortals is the way of Yao and Shun, not as good as the teaching of a wife. "The teachings of people with close relationships and close feelings are the easiest to understand and accept. Therefore, parents' education is the most convincing to children.
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1. Parents should fully trust their children. Only by trusting children can children let go of what they think they like, and in such trust, children can do better.
Parents are too worried if they have too many assumptions. In fact, no one knows what the future looks like, so why not let the children go to the future by themselves?
3, children have to grow up by themselves, and many things have to be experienced by themselves to understand what is going on, so parents may wish to let go.
Most parents want their children to surpass themselves, but it is difficult for children who listen to adults to surpass them. Therefore, if children want to surpass themselves, parents should listen to their voices and encourage them to boldly realize their dreams.