Cooking Snow - Lin Qingxuan (original text) Legend has it that people in the Arctic turned into ice and snow as soon as they spoke because of the freezing weather. The other party could not hear them, so they had to go home and bake them slowly to listen... This is an extremely romantic legend, I think.

It was made up by sentimental southerners.

However, it is quite difficult for us to assume that talking about freezing is a real thing. Just think about it: What kind of fire should we use when we go home to bake snow and boil it?

Because people's speech is emotional, cooking it too slowly or too fast is not enough to express the emotion of speaking.

If I were born in the Arctic, I might have to worry about cooking for a long time. When I talk to an impatient person, I have to cook it over a high fire when I get home. When I talk to a warm-tempered person, I have to use a slow fire when I get home.

What if you quarrel with someone?

You must light a fire when you go home so that you can hear the roar of the fire.

When you are in love, you have to carefully brew the atmosphere when you go home. First, cut the ice with love poems and love words, cut it into thin pieces, add a little wine to cook it, then it will be cooked

Make people tipsy.

If the love is strong, you can't use a stove fire, but use candlelight and a cup of coffee, so that you won't get too drunk and can still stay awake.

If you meet someone who doesn't like it, it's easy to deal with it. Just throw away the ice that has formed.

If you like it, you can cook half of it and leave the other half to savor it later. People who live in the Arctic are so happy.

But happiness does not last forever. Sometimes the weather is too cold and the fire cannot be lit, which makes people anxious. So I have to hold the ice and snow and slowly let it melt with my hands, listening while it melts.

If you encounter an impatient person, you may throw snow against the wall. If you throw it too hard, you will not be able to hear it. If you throw it hard, the sound will shake the tiles and cause noise.

I yearn for the romantic world where the Arctic speaks. It is a peaceful and peaceful world where you can make your own life. In our era where noise is everywhere, sometimes I hope that everyone’s words will turn into ice and snow. How to deal with it when you go home is up to you.

No one can care about the matter.

Especially when there are many people and boring meetings, you can throw that noisy big snowball in the gutter in front of your house so that it will never see the light of day.

At this time and place, cooking snow may become a kind of knowledge. People with rich life experience can make a living by cooking snow for people according to the size and quality of the snow; because cooking it just right is the same as speaking just right. Indeed,

Not easy.

Young lovers can borrow other people's "love snow" and borrow other people's snow to pour over the stronghold in their hearts.

If you fall in love, before the ice and snow melt, you can set a fire to burn the snow and create another spring.

Personal analysis: This beautiful article is started by borrowing a joking joke to imitate "speaking", an invisible and vocal thing, into another tangible and vocal thing, or in other words, another form.

If what people say can really be frozen, and then you can choose how to bake it, then "obedience" will also become an art.

It is not difficult to see that this is the author using a romantic and humorous way to interpret various speech conversations, and we can all choose different ways of listening.

Impatient remarks will make the listener feel irritable and uneasy; warm words will make the listener feel comfortable and warm; when there is a quarrel, the listener will be anxious and unable to control himself.

Talking about love has become a delicacy in the author's writing, with many exquisite ingredients and decorations to embellish the atmosphere and make people endlessly memorable.

If you don't like to hear the words, just turn a deaf ear. If you like to hear the words, write them down slowly and often reflect on them in your heart.

I would rather believe that the human heart is the fire that can melt words in the ice. In response to all kinds of comments from the outside, you can choose the size and intensity of the flame to enjoy it, get angry, or fight back.

Then if the fire in your heart cannot be ignited and cannot melt the words of those who come, what is the explanation if you hold the ice in your hands and listen to it while melting?

Maybe this means that sometimes it’s not enough to feel the other person’s words with your heart. Sometimes you have to use your hands and body language to respond and feel.

When facing an impatient person, trying to comfort him with your hands will be too little and will not be enough to soothe him, while too much strength will be counterproductive.

Today is a noisy world. How many words between people are baked in the heart before being considered for export?

There is a lot of noise, nonsense, perfunctory, flattery, flattery, empty words, big words, lies, and other untrue voices that sometimes make people lose their interest in judgment and listening, not to mention the use of inner fire, maybe only with the body.

There are more and more people who don’t speak and obey in their hearts, so the author yearns for the kind of romantic and quiet listening. Let’s talk about the way, you can choose to listen, choose the time, choose the place, choose the method; for precious words, you can

Have time to think, taste and consider; you can abandon, filter and eliminate unnecessary noise.

Perhaps in this way, a lot of conflicts can be reduced and personal qualities improved.

However, reality is reality. Those skills of cooking snow are, in the final analysis, still the art of language. They use their inner fire to cook language, feelings, and their own spiritual pursuits.