When not working overtime, go home as soon as possible, accompany your wife and children, do some housework, or read books.

When I go to work every day, I think about working hard for my wife and children, and my courage doubles.

Don't worry when you work overtime. My wife will take care of the housework, Dabao's homework, Xiaobao's bath and bedtime.

Tired and full every day, ordinary and happy.

We have been together for almost fifteen years, and we have hardly quarreled, and occasionally quarreled, and it will not exceed three sentences. Either I will stop talking or she will stop talking. Never disagree on principles. When I often comment on something, I blurt it out almost at the same time, only to find that what I see is similar and smile at each other. An old married couple often hold hands when going out. The two families are similar, ordinary people, and parents love each other. We go to each other's home to relax and be comfortable. We can lie down whenever we want, and play whenever we want. We often chat with our parents, listen to my father's stories about the revolution, and listen to my mother's chatter.

A family of four lives on my salary. Income naturally cannot be compared with the Zhihu moving average. Fortunately, neither of us is materialistic, and we rarely contribute to the Double Eleven, and we also eat very delicious food. I don't eat meat, and I like cabbage and tofu best. My wife and children are unhappy without meat, but my wife prefers to cook and go out to eat. If there is anything delicious, she will cook it herself when she comes back. According to her son's comments, it is more original. The kebabs, sizzling beef, mutton soup and pork ribs with salt and pepper are all alike and well received by her son.

We have a full understanding of children's education and growth. We hope that they will be healthy, kind and self-reliant, and we don't expect success. Respect children to the maximum extent and give tolerance, love and freedom. Children participate in family decision-making from an early age. Try not to compare with others. Occasionally envy his children, they will comfort each other and will not put pressure on them. There are books everywhere in the house, so I have to study in my spare time, hoping to edify my children. They also love reading, but my favorite books are not consistent with mine, and I don't care. Children like video games, and we are equipped with mobile phones and tablets, which require us to set our own time. From Dabao's point of view, learning is in the middle reaches, getting along well with classmates and teachers, being kind, independent and self-caring. I am very proud of Dabao. Xiaobao is healthy and lively, and loves to laugh. He is not old enough to go to school. I hope he will grow up healthily and happily.

My ability is limited, and my wife and children are not disgusted. You can also read books and climb mountains in your spare time. I didn't give up my dream. Take it easy and steady every day. I am very grateful to meet my wife.

I am lucky to be born a man; I am lucky to be born in this era; I am even luckier to have parents, wives and children who love me and me. Grateful!

To add:

My wife and I have our own decompression methods. I mainly read books, climb mountains and write poems. My wife mainly pursues plays, puzzles and paints.

We also have our own stunts:

My stunt is storytelling. I once told a series of stories for Dabao with a gourd doll. I told them for six years (across the whole primary school). I used science fiction and time travel, and I incorporated what I knew about science, geography, history, Tang poetry and Song poetry, and human accidents. My son would rather walk to school with me in the morning than take her mother's car in order to listen to stories (shame! I can't ride a bike. One of his classmates often takes part in our garden, hiking and hiking in order to listen to stories with him.

My wife's stunt is assembling toys, puzzles or Legos. She is full of fun and the children are naturally happy. There is also the temptation of food, firmly grasping the stomachs of two little men.

Share a few limerick poems:

Send Dabao to play football.

The east wind is warm and the magnolia blossoms, and the teenagers fly on the pitch. Going home against the flying flower order, singing all the way back.

Go hiking with Dabao.

The weather is warm and the clothes are light, and the father and son are walking on foot. Apricot flowers in front of the mountain and snow behind the mountain, white clouds and green leaves.

Play with Xiaobao in summer.

Under the vine, the little baby is barefoot. Run away day by day and come back to see the lotus.

Play with Xiaobao after working overtime on weekends.

The days are long and lonely, and people are sitting around, and bilingual contracts have been passed in two schools. What are you happy about going home when you are busy?

Go to the park with my wife after dinner in summer.

Skillful hands love psychological dishes, and a glass of rice wine is weak. Go to the park to enjoy the cool after drinking, and slowly return around the lake hand in hand.

Wife takes son to install shoe cabinet.

Screw knife hammer plus drawings, self-loading shoe cabinet female man. Don't realize that a scholar is useless, just sing a hymn.

Go climbing by yourself.

Busy and calm for a week, explore the east wind on Phoenix Ridge. The sunshine is full of apricot blossoms and red flowers, laughing into the boundless spring scenery.

See the sea by yourself

Climb straight up to the sea platform and hunt for the sea breeze to bring the tide. Wan Li's ambition is still there, and he has wasted half his life.