In the last two days, the temperature has dropped, and there is no desire to go out. Looking at the gray weather outside, if you hold a cup of hot tea, plus a warm book, it could not be better.
Once in the microblogging there is a topic, one of the signs of people getting older is to like sweet things , warm hearts, so that older people feel ironed all over.
When I picked up this book, I immediately recognized the little person in the book who was twisted into a twisted rope and had a stubborn mouth.
She is the protagonist of the book N, but also is an ordinary person : on the road, you meet face to face but rub shoulders; company, sitting next to the colleagues; thrown into the pile of people, a glance can not be found. Just like you and me.
Author Choi Hyun-ting tells the sweet but crisis-ridden life of redhead N. Those stories involving the workplace, relationships, leftovers, and family, there is always one that will poke you in the heart and make you ****.
She is so similar to us: the person who thinks advertising is the hardest thing to get into, even though she has been working in an ad agency for more than 10 years; the person who says today that she really wants to quit and quit, but still goes out to work as usual tomorrow.
I once saw this question: when did you realize you were ordinary? The answer has hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of ordinary stories.
Some people say, it is their own hard work did not get good grades, but also by their parents that they do not try hard;
Some people say, it is their own sick, high fever to 38 degrees, but no one around the time of shushing;
Some people say, it is the first white hair and the first wrinkles appeared when ......
For me it's, the time when I realized the importance of money , and only after I bought a house did I realize that money is really important. For a square meter, you have to work for many days, but also to save money, thinking about how to manage money to save more.
Sometimes it is also negative to say: quit!
But for the average person, going to work is the best way to save money. And the secret to saving money is, as Redhead N says:
Every time you want to buy something, ask yourself three questions: Is there something similar? Is it desperately needed? Can we afford not to buy it?
When we were able to make the down payment on our own, we felt extraordinarily happy, and still look back at our previous saving mentality.
So yeah, if you're an ordinary person, managing your desires will lead to an unexpected life.
N is all about quitting as a mantra, feeling tired, but still going to work tomorrow with a backpack.
"At least the job is interesting now, so there's no way to quit now."
Most people sing the praises of their dreams, which are so beautiful, and which, for some, are an expansion and extension of life. But in reality, don't have some unrealistic ideas, what can be realized is a dream, otherwise it is just a thought.
There is a person described: adults, the heart is not old, the head has been white; eyes have not been spent, tears have been no; food is not lacking, tasteless; time is less, things are not exhaustive; on the old, not always accompanied by the left and right; under the small, can not accompany him to grow up; in the wife, relative to the grievances of the depth of speech; outside the friend, can not be drunk to eliminate the million sorrows.
A paragraph, written in the adult world of chaos, hard work is not easy.
The N in "N with Red Hair" reminds us that we all need to be realists and set up some achievable dreams.
Because then, accomplishing small dream after small dream might turn around and realize that you've achieved something really great without realizing it.
When I asked myself what my dream was, I always answered scientists and astronauts. But looking at myself now, studying science and working in a job that doesn't even come close to what I once dreamed of, it doesn't stop me from making new dreams.
Rob Schuler said he wanted to build a crystal cathedral in the United States when he didn't have a penny to his name, and after 12 years, he built a crystal cathedral that could hold 10,000 people.
As Rob Schuler said: Not everyone should build a crystal cathedral like me, but everyone should have their own dreams, design their own dreams, pursue their own dreams, and realize their own dreams.
To develop dreams that you can realize.
Many people are no strangers to the story of their mom's love of fish heads: when I was a kid, my family was poor and I couldn't eat meat more than a few times a month. Every time we ate fish, mom would always put the head into her bowl, clip the meat off, and then shave off the thorns and put it into the child's bowl.
Even if you haven't had the experience of a mom leaving the fish for the kids to eat, you've probably heard your mom nagging you that we've left the best for you, and how we're doing it for your sake, and then we'll be burdened with their sacrifices and spend our uneducated childhood.
As a child, I'm especially grateful for their parenting, for what they've done, but also for the stress.
Choi Hyun-jin turned out to feel the same way, and in "N with Red Hair," she, like most people, demanded that she go to college and get a good job in order to live up to that parental pride and not let her parents down.
But at the same time, it's also a great hope that they will stop sacrificing their lives for their own. If my parents did not live their lives for me, then the burden on my heart would be much lighter.
So, when we raise the next generation, don't just live for them, live for yourself too.
There should be more and more parents are aware of this problem, have their own business, care for children work both. They are happy, they give their children quality companionship, and their children are sunnier, choosing what they like.
If parents again only give themselves chicken legs, then tell them: I am now on a diet, to eat more chicken breast Oh ~
Charlie Chaplin said: life is a comedy from afar, close up is a tragedy. But even so, we still hard to live a chicken days, experience the sweet and sour life.