Editor/Han Xiao

Children affect the hearts of the whole family from the moment they are born, especially the older generation, who are full of love for them and dare not mistreat them. But now more and more post-90s parents appear, and their parenting style will be relatively "Buddhist", and some parents even become "bear parents".

Recently, a group of photos appeared on the Internet, which aroused people's heated discussion. The parents in the photo are also called "the most careless parents".

According to the netizens who shared this group of pictures, they met at a barbecue stall that they often went to after work that day. The couple didn't want to bring the children, but they did because the old people at home couldn't help.

The little guy was very excited at first, looking around all the time, and sometimes babbling, but soon he began to feel sleepy, and then he entered a sweet dream in his mother's arms.

Because I was in a hurry to go out, my mother went out with a bag and no cart, so at first my mother kept holding the child.

But holding the baby for a long time makes me tired, and it is not convenient to eat barbecue. My mother "used her quick wits" and focused on the big bag she brought out.

So there is such a set of photos. In front of a humble barbecue stall, three adults were comfortably eating barbecue and drinking beer, while the big bag on the side became the focus, and the children in the big bag curled up and fell asleep.

After seeing this group of photos, netizens have published their own comments:

Most people don't agree with their parents, but some people think that this "Buddhist" parenting style is conducive to caring for children's growth.

Children may become more independent.

Many children have problems of self-care ability and independence, largely because their parents care too much about everything, which hinders their growth in practice.

Free-range nanny means that children will get less help from their parents and will not be meticulous, which will make them exercise in some things and understand their own things more easily. In this way, children will be more independent, which will play a very important role in their future development.

2. Children's thinking is more active.

Many parents will make some plans for their children's future, and will add their own intervention in their children's growth process, which will limit their thinking to a certain extent.

However, parents who practice stocking generally do not interfere with their children's hobbies. They will respect children's inner pursuit and even give some encouragement, so that their thinking will be more active and innovative.

3. Parent-child relationship is more harmonious

Children who have been under the control of their parents for a long time will feel depressed and easily cause quarrels with their parents. Everyone likes freedom, and so do children. They can get their parents' care and needs at the same time in their parents' free-range care. Parents who practice free-range care will not be too strict with their children, but will respect their self-growth and self-awareness development.

Parents can respect their self-awareness, family quarrels will be reduced, and parent-child relationship will naturally become harmonious.