The need for both husband and wife to work together, especially the wife's participation in the treatment is very important. The psychological treatment of premature ejaculation is to obtain the cooperation of the patient's wife. Because the woman's misunderstanding or blame, will make the man's tension, anxiety rise, aggravate the psychological burden. The woman should be sympathetic, caring attitude, give words and behavioral comfort, relieve the tension of the man, help him to establish confidence in the cure.

The husband and wife should be informed: earlier is a relatively common problem, the husband and wife need to understand the necessity and possibility of rebuilding the Xiejin conditioned reflexes, to eliminate the patient's anxiety, uneasiness, sense of self-crime and other abnormal psychology, to establish confidence in curing the disease, as long as the two sides cooperate with the treatment, or can be cured.

2. Behavioral methods of guidance

Sexual concentration training therapy, its purpose is to embrace, caress, massage and other tactile stimulation means to teach patients to experience and enjoy sexual pleasure, to overcome psychological barriers. You can also pull the scrotum and testicles downward before orgasm, or squeeze the head of the boudoir with the thumb and finger to reduce sexual arousal, and the hardness of the erection can also be reduced by 10% to 25%. Long-term training and then to the female supreme position for sexual intercourse, still using the form of twitching - stop - and then twitching repeated training, and gradually improve the Xiejin stimulation threshold, so as to achieve a more satisfactory artificial control before Xiejin.

(1) Stop and start therapy. By the female side to stimulate the shade of gold to the soon to be Xiejin, the male side signal immediately stop stimulation, to Xiejin premonition completely disappeared, and then re-stimulation, and so on repeatedly, until the male side can accept a lot of stimulation, the party allowed to last Xiejin. This method can improve the threshold of Xiejin, after the success of the treatment, adhere to a weekly control training.

(2) the head of the yinjin squeeze method also known as tolerance training. In the female side to stimulate the shade of gold to the pre thanks to the imminent arrival of gold, the female side of the thumb thumb in the shade of gold tie parts, show finger and middle finger belly placed in the shade of gold on the other side of the coronal groove rim of the upper and lower, from the front to the back of the pressure, in order to be able to tolerate the degree of the male side, each time for about 3 to 4 seconds, can ease the sense of urgency of the thanks to the gold, adhere to the treatment of 3 to 6 months, can be obtained to obtain a long-lasting and stable effect.

3. Local medication

Mainly for the spray, can be applied to the head of the shade gold before intercourse, such as without a condom, wash the shade gold on the residual drug. It should be noted that, if you do not thoroughly wash the residual drug on the shade of gold before intercourse (without the use of condoms), reduce sexual pleasure.