First, the causes of sexual disharmony between men and women
1. Sexual impulse is not enough to maintain sex.
In sexual life, the feelings between men and women can be divided into four periods (honeymoon period or early marriage period), contradictory period (mutual adaptation period), transfer period (nurturing period) and deep period (returning to the world of two people). If normal sex hormones are the cornerstone to ensure a harmonious relationship, then a good mood is a fusion agent and an appropriate sexual fantasy is a catalyst.
2. Emotional transfer makes sex less exciting.
The situation of middle-aged people is different from that of young people. They spend most of their thoughts on raising children and fighting for their careers, and their emotions are in a transitional period, stable but lacking stimulation. At the same time, the approach of menopause will lead to a gradual decline in sex hormone levels. Body and mind are gradually moving away from sweetness, and this situation will be dangerous if it does not change.
3. Insufficient sex hormones lead to low levels.
Sex is a lifelong behavior, and sexual ability and sexual needs will not be lost after entering old age. However, with the further reduction of sex hormone levels, middle-aged and elderly people after 50 years old will have a series of sexual problems such as low sexual desire and sexual arousal disorder.
Second, bad habits that lead to disharmony between husband and wife.
1. Waiting to reach the wonderful peak together.
When waiting for her, if you insist on not filming yourself, the pleasure will be reduced. After a long time, men will not feel the freedom of sex. Some men satisfy their wives first, but as a result of waiting, he seldom reaches the peak with her at the same time.
2. Curiously use sex toys.
Sex tools are used when one party is absent for a long time or is not feeling well. However, some couples have become dependent after using it and are no longer interested in their lover's body. It will make people more lonely after using it, and there will be psychological problems after a long time.
3. Fast sex.
Fast sex foreplay is often very short, which will make the woman unprepared and both sides are very painful. If you don't get the fun you deserve, it will also damage your lower body. After a long time, if you don't feel the love, you will be cold.
4. The second start.
Sometimes, after a man has done it once, he wants to do it again in order to show his strength. Doing so will keep a man's body in a state of excitement, and erectile dysfunction will occur more often. Some couples who like the second sprint often realize after a few months that sex can't be arrogant for a while.
Third, the skills of harmonious sexual life between husband and wife
1. Love is sex first.
A woman must have love before having sex. This is very important, don't be misled by all kinds of TV novels, thinking that women will love you as long as they are pushed down, absolutely not. Don't force it legally through marriage. This kind of behavior makes women more and more disgusted, and gets nothing.
2. Learn to express love.
As a man, we must understand that a woman's love, whether loved or loved, will interest her. Therefore, we must learn how to express our love. We can often do some small gestures, such as a hug before going to work, watching TV at home and letting her look down at her lap, kissing and praising, and holding hands when shopping. All these are good ways to express our love.
3. Environment is very important
Women can only relax when the environment is very safe, so when making love, we must ensure that the environment will not be disturbed and absolutely safe, which can give women a certain romantic environment.