There are international conventions between countries to check and balance the relations between countries. Similarly, this method can also be used in the relationship between husband and wife to coordinate and balance their relationship. We can call it a husband-and-wife agreement or a quarrel agreement. Anyway, this is what couples use when they quarrel. The implementation of this convention will greatly reduce the consequences of your quarrel.

The reason why there is such a convention is that people nowadays are too self-centered. When husband and wife get along, they don't care much about the feelings of the people around them, but only pay attention to themselves, which greatly affects the quality of marriage.

Now let's look at the terms of the husband-and-wife agreement:

Clause 1: Don't quarrel in front of others.

This is very important. At home, don't quarrel in front of parents, relatives, children and neighbors, which will make friends and relatives look at jokes, especially in front of children. Don't quarrel in public places. First of all, don't wash your dirty clothes in public. Second, don't make yourself too ugly. Third, give each other face. When giving face, one party can twist the other's arm by hand to show face.

Rule 2: Be generous to women.

Husband and wife quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, as long as the woman makes up first and gently coaxes the man, the man can calm down immediately. Otherwise, the woman can't help crying when she sees the man. The woman must not be unreasonable, and the man has the right to remain silent until the woman stops losing her temper.

Clause 3: Don't leave.

Slamming the door after a quarrel is not a good way to solve the problem, and it is also very irrational. If you really can't hold back, try not to leave the community. No, don't leave your mobile phone, turn it off or don't answer the phone. Don't turn off your phone under any circumstances. If the man finds the woman, hug her affectionately. Don't be perfunctory in hugging. He should gently press the woman's head with the palm of one hand, and don't blame her.

Clause 4: No smashing.

Some people with bad temper often vent their anger by throwing things when quarreling. Don't you think it's a waste! If not, eat or hit the pillow. The man should eat more to prevent the woman from getting fat and feeling worse. The woman can take the man's card to buy some clothes to comfort her broken heart, and at the right time, she can buy a pair or two socks for the man.

Article 5: Don't quarrel all night.

As the saying goes, the quarrel between husband and wife is a quarrel at the head of the bed and a quarrel at the end of the bed. There is no big deal between husband and wife. Don't argue all night. When sleeping at night, the man must take the initiative to hug the woman. The woman is angry and pushes the man to give up, but not more than three times. If it is more than three times, the man can choose to give up, but the next day, neither side can mention it again. The man must not snore, so as not to wake up the woman's dream and lead to further contradictions.

Article 6: Don't hang up.

If two people quarrel on the phone, neither of them can hang up, which is disrespectful. If you hang up, call back immediately and apologize. If the woman hangs up in an argument, the man will try to call her within 1 minute. If the phone is blocked, you can't call her. In short, you can't be angry, but the woman has to give the man face. Hang up every time, no more than 3 times. For more than 3 times, the woman shall take full responsibility.

How much sadness can there be between husband and wife? Isn't it just some trivial things? There is no need to get angry, it hurts their feelings and family harmony.

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