Mr. Song: First of all, I think it is unnatural for a man who has an affair to spend money on his lover. After all, for a man, a lover is just a pastime when he is bored, and it can't really make him get unforgettable feelings. Even if a man is as good as a lover and says that he will love her all his life, these words are only perfunctory after all. Only when women believe this can they be with their lover. A man's love for his lover is usually superficial. If a man really has such qualities as loyalty or affection, how can he betray his wife? There was a lover with me before, just to get a lot of money from me. Two years ago, she hardly asked me for it. I spent less than 8000 yuan, and sometimes she even bought clothes for me out of her own pocket. It seems that this woman is really kind to me, but I know her purpose is only to convince me that she is not a greedy person. When I fall in love with her completely and can't live without her, she will ask me for money again, and I can't refuse him. But I want to say that she really has the wrong person. I'm not willing to part with this little money. How can I win her heart at a big price? Men are rational in extramarital affairs, and I deeply agree with this view, because I am such a person. I find a lover just for fun, so I don't need to take my own money. Mr. Zhao, I have been with my wife for more than five years, and I spent more than 1000 on her. When we first got together, I told her that if you want to be lovers, don't just ask me for money. This 1 000 yuan is not given to her directly in cash, but the amount spent on buying gifts for her in various festivals. It is a silly thing for a man to give his lover. A woman's willingness to be someone else's lover shows that she is not a childlike person. When you realize this, you won't be stupid enough to give your heart. If you really want to spend money for a woman, it is better to find someone who really loves you and is willing to accompany you for a lifetime, but men are not necessarily willing to be bound by heavy feelings. Conclusion Men are quite clear-headed when they are having extramarital affairs. Although they seem to have been addicted to their lover's gentle hometown, they have measured each other's efforts. Once the cost cannot be recovered, they will leave immediately and let go without nostalgia. Unfortunately, some women don't know this, thinking that they have firmly grasped this man's heart and eventually have nothing. Men who have extramarital affairs are unwilling to spend money. Teacher Dong: I think people who have extramarital affairs are reluctant to spend money on their lovers. Men only find "playmates" when they are lonely and bored. Even if they like you, it's only temporary. I once had a lover who had been together for almost two years and spent less than 5000 yuan. You will spend some money when you chase, but you won't spend so much when you catch it. Sometimes she gives me some money. I can see her purpose and know that I have money, so I want to cheat my money when I rely on her. She got the wrong person. I don't even want to give her a penny of pocket money. How pathetic is this woman? I am a very smart person. The colorful flags are fluttering outside, but the red flag at home does not fall. I will go home sooner or later. Giving her money is basically an act of going out without thinking. Mr. Wang: I have two lovers who are married. I don't look for single and unmarried people. I'm afraid that one day I can't get rid of them and destroy my family. Finding a married woman has two advantages. First of all, both of them have families, and they have grasped each other's weaknesses. Nobody dares to make a move. Secondly, everyone has their own needs and spends less money. But this kind of woman can only get along for three years at most. After a long time, the fox's tail is exposed. They will measure whether their efforts are directly proportional to their achievements. My first lover stayed with me for a year and a half and broke up with me on his own initiative. I haven't had enough addiction and don't want to let go. She asked me for money at once. Think about it. You can find a lover wherever you spend money. The second lover lived together for three years. She is separated from her husband. Everyone has his own small abacus. The first two years were pretty good. In the third year, I began to ask for small things, and later I asked for money. I just broke up. My money is only used for children and my wife, and my lover is just a condiment for my loneliness. I can't do it if I have to spend a lot of money on them. Mr. Zheng: I have been with my lover for more than five years and spent no more than 1 10,000. I told my lover, don't always mention money to me in the future, advance is too vulgar. The money seems to be used for a holiday. If a man spends a lot of money on his lover, this behavior is stupid. She can be your lover or someone else's. Think for yourself. I'm not stingy. What is the return on my investment in my lover? If you can't stay with me for a lifetime, I won't lose a lot. So you don't have to play with their true feelings, but you can have a lover without spending a penny. That's a real man. Conclusion: Men who have extramarital affairs are selfish. He loves neither his wife nor people. He only loves himself, and everything he does is for his own consideration. Lovers are the spice of their boring life. In order to meet his physical and mental needs and help him support the rear camp, his wife only cares about his own feelings. However, these lovers naively believe that as long as they pay true feelings to these men and spend more time with them, they will definitely touch these men. In case of difficulties, they will certainly help. Unfortunately, an extramarital man saw your every move. I know what you want. Do you think he will think so? No matter what men think about extramarital affairs. Betraying marriage is wrong. Your wife is busy at home, and you are selfish outside. Are you worthy of your wife? Then these women who regard men as lovers should wake up. If you are a married woman, please think of your children. What will happen if your husband finds out? Don't challenge the bottom line of divorce with ignorance. It is impossible to expect a man who has an affair to pay true love and money. They're not stupid. Those single women don't need to find a married man to enjoy "love" Just find a sunny boy to talk about love. If you insist on having an affair with an extramarital man, you will regret it one day. What is not "moral" will not be blessed, but will only be rejected by others Don't deceive yourself. Extramarital affairs men are reluctant to spend money. Mr. Li, aged 35, is a company employee. I had two lovers, both of whom broke up in less than three years. The first lover is a married lady, and everyone just wants what they want. Men are all the same. Who really wants to give money to others? A man has been walking in the palace of marriage for a long time, and he is tired of his wife's long-term difficulties. He has no passion for her. Changing to a fresh woman is the spice in my boring marriage life. But, ah, how to play outside, the wife and children will always be their own family, and the lover is just a pastime tool. Spend less if you can. If you can spend less, you'd better not spend money. Such a man has real skills. In fact, women are very easy to coax. All you have to do is sweet talk to her, really love her, eat dessert and say that she is beautiful, considerate and better than her wife. Many women will be willing to be nice to you, not to let you spend money, and even buy you gifts and give you money to spend. Isn't that what women do? They think talking about money will make her love vulgar, so they want to sue her. We are true love, don't talk about money, haha. My first lover offered to break up with me two years later, which is exactly what I want. Women just want to keep fresh. After more than two years, I began to get bored. Not long after we separated, I pursued my second lover. She is also a married woman. Her husband worked in another city for a month and rarely came back for two days. She is alone with her children, so it is inevitable that she will be empty and lonely, just like we both need what we want. But she offered to break up with me a year ago. At that time, I was thick-skinned and didn't want to keep her, but she asked me for money, saying that a man would only be willing to spend money for her to see if it was true feelings. Let me think about it. Why should I spend this money? This cost several hundred and one thousand yuan, and it broke even after playing for more than a year. If it costs a lot of money, why bother? If it costs a lot of money, it's better to find a yellow flower girl. Mr. Zhang, a 38-year-old middle-level cadre in an enterprise, has been married for many years. My wife and I have lost the original freshness of each other's bodies, so our eyes turned to the little girl outside. The delicacy of the little girl makes me feel very fresh and can satisfy many of my desires. So Xiaoqing, who just graduated, became my lover. Xiaoqing is pure and beautiful, and her personality and appearance are very similar. She is a pure beauty. After she became my lover, I wanted to give her money, but she took the initiative not to. She said she followed me, not for the money. Don't treat her as such a greedy woman. This is exactly what I want. In fact, although my relationship with my wife is not as stable as it was when I was in love, when it comes to the bottom, the cost of divorce and remarriage is too high, and it will also have an impact on my son. I won't think about it. I was just playing with Xiaoqing. Since she thinks so, I will play for free. Why not? Such a lovely and pure girl, let her remain pure. Don't defile her love with money, so Xiaoqing and I have been lovers for three years. I hardly spent much money. I only went out to eat occasionally and paid a little money. Xiaoqing often pays for it herself. I bought her flowers instead of expensive gifts for Valentine's Day and birthday. She is very happy, more and more dependent on me, more and more fascinated. Later, she slowly pestered me to divorce and marry her. I slowly found something was wrong, so I broke up with her, explained the reason to her, and told her that I had never loved her. I just want to play with her. This kind of love-oriented girl had better cheat. If you tell her that you love her, she can follow you without money, even if she has money. As long as you coax her, she will be dead set. When you want to get rid of her, tell her the truth and tell her that she always just wants to play and never takes it seriously. She felt that her feelings had been cheated and impure, and it was easy for her to take the initiative to leave sadly. Such a girl can use a little money to fall in love. So after dumping Xiaoqing, I found two same lovers and owned them at the same time. Ask Xiaomei today, ask Xiaolin tomorrow, and it's free. Sometimes silly girls will offer me money to spend. However, this situation can be easily overturned. After all, it is easy for them to find two lovers at the same time. That's how my second and third lovers were discovered and then separated, but it doesn't matter to me. I don't even bother to dump them myself. Anyway, there are many girls, and the little beauty with a love brain is easily moved by the image of a successful man of our age and easy to chase. It's good to change people from time to time. A buddy joked with me that I was so good? Live up to your conscience? I said my conscience is not wrong. These girls knew I was married and agreed to fall in love with me. How good can they be? They deserve to be cheated. I lied to them once, and then they came to their senses. I'm educating them! Conclusion Girls and women, wake up. Whether you are married or unmarried, having an affair with a married man will be despised by your lover first. Men are very rational. Unlike women, they don't value love very much. What they value is the physiological process, the freshness and sensory enjoyment you bring him. For a married man, the so-called love in your eyes is a lie he uses to make you happy. He looks down on you from the bottom of his heart, because you know he is married, but you take the initiative to be his lover, and he thinks you will not be a good woman. The essence of this kind of man is selfishness. He just wants to take advantage of himself, never considering the feelings of his wife and you. His wife is his rear area, the guarantee of his stable life, and you are the condiment in his boring life, which brings him joy in life. This is the nature of most men who have extramarital affairs. This kind of man, if his wife finds out that he has a lover outside, will immediately kick the lover away, beg his wife for mercy, and immediately return to the family. This kind of man never reveals his true feelings to his lover, and it is his purpose to keep looking for novelty. Therefore, it is time for women to wake up. Don't think that they have found their true feelings. In fact, they are trapped in their own dreams to deceive themselves and do things that will make themselves and the world revile in the future. Once you find that you have been cheated, you will completely blame yourself and leave sadly. For such a man, you wasted your youth, your feelings and your money, and this experience will become an indelible stain in your life, so, woman, please stay away from married men!