First, the cause, process and subsequent development of the incident. Although I have said so much, many friends may not know much about this matter. It happened in Nanxun, Huzhou, Zhejiang. A kind-hearted man found the lost iPad on the road. After taking a photo of the iPad, he put it in a circle of friends, chatted with local life groups, looked for the owner of the iPad and returned it to the owner.
This is a beautiful conversation about changing money, but in the end it is very unpleasant because of the host's "small mind". The owner himself was violently attacked by many netizens because of this incident, which had a great impact on his work and life. When the owner contacted the man, he did not find the iPad for the man and took the initiative to find the owner to express his gratitude. Instead, I saw that the iPad camera was damaged and I suspected it was a good person.
When I questioned the man's camera many times, I also asked him where his iPad went with capacitance pen. Kindly returned the iPad, but it was treated like this by the owner. The man's psychological depression at that time can be imagined. When you see the lost iPad, if you pretend not to see it, or take it for yourself, this will not happen.
Good-hearted men posted their experiences on the internet, and after being concerned by more netizens, they caused an uproar behind them. In order to prove his innocence, good-hearted men sent screenshots of friends and group chats to women, including their telephone recordings. It was this telephone recording that exposed this woman's purpose. During the conversation, the woman was very calm and purposeful. She wanted the man to admit that he was the one who broke the camera in disguise. In chatting, there are both routines and words. If you don't control your emotions and admit that you broke the camera, the follow-up situation may become troublesome.
Netizens speculated that the woman's practice was to let the good-hearted man admit that he had broken the camera. Then the woman recorded the phone and asked the man to compensate for the loss. Enthusiastic netizens, after learning about this incident, netizens pulled out the woman's personal account number, phone number and photo. Such behavior has brought great influence to her work and life.
Second, stealing chickens and wasting rice is not desirable. I was going to set up a good-hearted person. Who ever thought that men just didn't strike up a conversation? On the contrary, an automatic telephone recording function in a male mobile phone helped me prove my innocence and let netizens see the real purpose of women. This also made the woman unexpected. I'm thinking of using telephone recording to make that person pay for his loss. I didn't expect to be turned against the army in the end.
In this case, the man can be said to be very depressed and did good deeds with good intentions, but he got such an ending. If there is no evidence to prove his innocence, he will compensate the woman for the loss of iPad; In later life, men will think twice when they encounter lost items again.
The woman's approach is also irritating. The probability of losing the iPad is extremely small. When she met a kind person, she not only didn't appreciate each other, but also wanted to blame each other and let them bear the loss of her iPad. Her behavior aroused public outrage, otherwise netizens would not have done justice for men. After being attacked by the internet, the woman quickly came out to apologize, hoping that netizens could let her go one yard; Unfortunately, netizens didn't give her this opportunity. Although the store was closed and the personal account was closed to change information, it failed to resist the attack of netizens.
Third, cyber violence is terrible. It is a terrible thing to do things carefully. It is difficult for the parties in the whirlpool of public opinion to resist the pressure of cyber violence. Many things in the past have confirmed this. The feeling of being deprived of privacy makes people think. We live in a convenient Internet society, and we need to be careful about our words and deeds. Maybe a maverick will become a "new star" of tomorrow.
In the face of one person's accusation and abuse, we can still cope, but if thousands of netizens attack themselves at the same time, I think even if there are a hundred mouths, they can't beat many netizens. In this case, the man did justice, but the woman, as the master, failed miserably. I personally don't like cyber violence. In this way of safeguarding rights, one of the two sides will always get hurt, even the winner will not feel well.
Being attacked by the internet is a terrible thing. Today we are blaming others, and tomorrow it may be our turn. I hereby call on everyone to be civilized and rational when surfing the Internet. In the face of unfair things, keep your mouth shut and don't rush into it, causing serious harm to others.