When the girl's attitude is indifferent, many boys will choose to ignore this girl for a few days in order to balance their hearts, but after a few days, they find that this girl ignores herself. What should I do at this time?
This kind of thing most often occurs in long-distance lovers. Some time ago, a friend of mine chatted with a girl in a different place and found that the other person's attitude was very cold and he ignored his love. As long as he didn't take the initiative to find her, the girl would never take the initiative to find herself.
He was very uncomfortable inside, and felt that I was good to her. Why did he treat me like this? In order to fill the sense of balance in his heart, he began to deliberately ignore his sister, but after waiting for one day, another day, my sister still didn't come to find herself.
At this time, he began to panic, took the initiative to find his sister, and questioned her, saying: Why ignore yourself?
As you may guess, the ending is that my sister still hasn't replied to him, and even said that she blacked him out … ..
What did he do wrong?
You will say that he shouldn't deliberately ignore girls and test them, but I think that's not the problem. Girls are indifferent to you, and you express your dissatisfaction. It can be understood that you don't respect me and I express my emotions. This is not wrong in itself, but the problem is that this process lacks "consistency".
At first, boys talked to her with the purpose of chasing girls, and their social status was lower than that of girls.
It is reasonable for a girl to ignore you on her own initiative and not to look for you.
When you ignore girls, in girls' understanding:
I ignored you for a reason, which may make you feel uncomfortable. Maybe I didn't do well enough, but if you want to chase me, you must follow my emotions. If you can't do all this, don't talk about anything else.
A few days later, he came to ask the girl why she ignored herself.
This is what my sister will think:
You are so boring, don't you have any points in your heart? I just don't want you to question me. I just want me to admit my mistake. No way! Emotional intelligence is extremely low, straight man! +
When many brothers chat with their sisters, their response is not good. This is because your chat does not arouse girls' emotions, which makes girls feel that chatting with you is very boring, and slowly they will not return to you or even blacken you. I used to have this kind of situation, not to mention how depressed I was. Later, I found a small program on WeChat called "Stupid Boy Love Assistant". Whenever I chat with girls, I will open this small WeChat program and put what girls say into a search. It will tell me how to reply to girls, and there are a lot of chat cases and tutorials to learn. Now I chat with girls, and every time I talk with them, I can basically take them home smoothly, you know. With this artifact, it's easy to get a younger sister to take off a bill.
What is important in feelings is your feelings and my wishes, and there is no absolute right or wrong. Many people think that girls have paid a lot, clamoring for "Am I not good to you?" The other party still left, and some people also paid for girls, but the other party said, "I want nothing but to be with you."
The same is paying, why is the ending different?
In feelings, you never get as much as you pay. To win a girl's heart depends on your attraction!
Generally speaking, money, status and appearance refer to external attraction, while maturity, stability, thoughtfulness and humor refer to internal attraction.
Some people may think that external attraction is more important than internal attraction, but this view is extremely wrong!
You should know that most girls are creatures with emotional thinking. When you send a message to a girl and the other party doesn't reply to you for a long time, most of them are emotional. I feel that it's been so long and there is no need to reply to you. I feel that you are boring and don't want to reply to you. Generally speaking, you have failed to guide the girl's mood of wanting to chat with you.
Only if you can stimulate the girls' desire to chat in the chat, will girls be willing to chat with you, feel you are interesting and want to know more about you, so that you and girls can be consistent.
Therefore, when a girl ignores you, first think about whether your topic is not good enough or whether the girl is really busy. Don't rush to the conclusion that the girl doesn't like herself. Since you can't get rid of the fact that girls don't return your messages, then accept and correct it. As long as girls don't directly say that they are not suitable for you or blacken you, then you still have a chance.
Of course, there is a standard of consistency here, that is, "communication is consistent". You should know that chatting is originally a process of answering words. You need to bring out the topic and let the girls talk, and in this process, guide the girls to interact with you, show themselves in the interaction, and show their personal values, in order to achieve the purpose of attracting.
The attraction of chatting to girls is always carried out. If you feel that girls are not good enough for you, or you can't talk any longer, then there must be something wrong with your attraction.