Who's the truth? I really feel sad and have endless sympathy for my parents and children now. Including myself, because I also love chickens. Here are some of my personal feelings to share with you.

"Chicken Baby" is a popular word on the Internet, which refers to the behavior that parents give their children "chicken blood", constantly arrange studies and activities for their children so that they can study well and get good grades, and constantly let them fight hard. This kind of chick-baby education is not rare, and there are many parents around me who are constantly running around every day.

So what kind of parents love chickens more? Here are some parents I have summarized. If they are not comprehensive, please forgive me.

The first type is middle-class and knowledgeable parents

These parents have high academic qualifications and high literacy, and they are more successful than ordinary people in their careers, so they will have higher requirements for their children. My neighbor across the street is Shuangshuo. Both of them are teachers in college, which can be said to be the peak of their lives. As soon as the child was born, English classes started when he was three years old. At the same time, various tennis classes, fencing classes, art classes and Olympic math classes were all launched. I felt strange at that time, how a three-or four-year-old child responded to these classes that took a whistle.

These parents belong to the middle class, who have no social background and have achieved success on their own. In children's education, they are given more sustenance and hope that their children will become talents.

The second type is parents with a certain economic foundation.

The cultivation of chicks is not a casual perfunctory thing, but a real investment. For example, we live in a third-tier city, where English classes are about 12, a year, guzheng classes are about 2 a year, Olympiad classes are about 2 a year, piano classes are about 2 a year, and what other tennis classes and basketball classes are not all reported, which is also tens of thousands of expenses. However, families with strong economic foundation have nothing to do with this education and training, so it is not surprising to enroll in these courses.

I think the purpose of this kind of parents' reporting classes is more inclined to expand their children's knowledge. Because it is possible that these children will become fathers and children in the future.

The third kind of anxious parents

This kind is my type. Do you still remember the hit drama Tian Yulan? Do you feel love and hate when you watch it? In fact, the actors are really good. This is really the status quo of our parents. In the final analysis, what we are anxious about is whether our children will repeat their old ways in the future, whether they will not have a good job, whether their work will affect their limited mate selection, and whether they will live a miserable life without sufficient material foundation. These are all questions that we repeatedly ask our souls to torture ourselves.

The fourth transitional parent

This kind of parent, just like Tian Li in Xiao Shede, accepted their children's present situation wholeheartedly at first, but they were constantly influenced by the outside world, and their hearts began to stir. At the same time, their children were really not too good. Finally, this kind of parents also began to change, no longer satisfied with the mediocrity of their children, and rose to the army of chickens and babies.

The way and result of "Chicken Baby" are different, but "Chicken Baby" is a required action that parents must complete. Parents have different resource conditions, and the way of "chicken baby" is different, but the essence is the same. Then, what bad elastic effects will be brought by the way of chick education?

1. Only pay attention to moves. Let me explain, that is, I have enrolled my children in countless classes, but the children have not devoted themselves wholeheartedly, which has a lot to do with their interests. The child is accepted on the surface, but it is rejected in essence, so he only learns an empty shelf, and finally the child is extremely tired inside.

2. Ignore children's other abilities. Many children don't do well in class after signing up for various classes, because although children learn knowledge in advance, parents don't pay attention to the improvement of children's attention and ignore the growth in this area. It is necessary to know that learning is not only to master knowledge in advance, but also to have a good study habit, which is the magic weapon for a child to learn for a long time.

3. Parents only report without prior guidance. Some parents think that everything will be fine if they report their children to class, so they are relieved. You have to guide your interest in the early stage, dear. My child is 9 years old now, and I have started to learn junior high school physics for her, but my girl can accept it well, because I have already started enlightenment before teaching her physics, so that she can accept this subject little by little. Now my children are chasing after my ass for me to teach.

4. treat children as the object of comparison. This is a problem in many families. When asked what their children have learned, it is not a taste in their hearts, and they wonder if their children have been left behind by not learning.

I don't think there is anything wrong with chick education, and even think that this kind of education is beneficial to children for life. However, it must be emphasized that the chick-baby way should really think about how to make children accept these studies within an affordable range. This is all for her to take care of herself in the turbulent society in the future, and it's all worth it.

Then, the greatest flexibility of chick education is that parents give too much pressure, and children will collapse sooner or later. Parents will only reprimand their children, and children will feel inferior and find no self-identity, or even the value of their existence. How many children have sacrificed their health for their achievements, such as myopia, cervical and spinal diseases, lack of sleep, headaches and poor physical fitness. How many children have suffered from depression and hollow disease, and finally even their sound personality has been lost.

The following is my own personal experience of chicken baby, which is now an upgraded version. After experiencing children's emotional rebound before, it is necessary to correct yourself < P > with a calm mind. Please encourage your child to be a happy ordinary person. This is not to say that the child's mentality should be flat, but that both parents and children should be flat. First of all, you have to admit that you are an ordinary person. Although ordinary, you should work harder. Know who you are, and don't feel inferior or proud. This kind of peace of mind is very important for children's future development and their ability to handle things.

parents should study themselves. I graduated from a small language, and I don't know English at all. If it weren't for my children, I wouldn't even know English in my life, but I taught myself completely and took the IELTS test. I set an example to the children with iron and steel. Children are more interested in English than other children.

tap interest. Chickens should not be formulated according to social standards. You can travel all over the world not only by learning the number of words well. It is to provide nutrients and support for the baby on the road of ta dream. Guide ta to find the field that she loves and likes, let ta enjoy it, gradually deepen and constantly explore.

A person's life is very short, and only one thing can be done in a lifetime. This thing must be the field and major that Eva loves. Once such a field is discovered, encourage and support the baby to pursue bravely, keep moving forward and never waver. This is the emotional fulcrum and struggle significance of Wa's life.