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Mr. Lian Yue said: When people are alive, they will always meet bad people.

What do you look like, a bad guy?

Born evil, jealous, hateful, treacherous, bite the hand that feeds you, parasite. They will either hurt you or eat you. Let you live in pain and despair and lose happiness and happiness.

Mr. Lian Yue sincerely suggested that when you meet these bad guys, you should have the vision, ability and courage to be a bad guy. Otherwise, you will be trapped in it and never have a chance to meet other good people.

If you meet bad people, you will never meet good people again!

It's terrible.

Will this really happen?

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There are really bad people in the world.

Last year, the Minhang court in Shanghai tried a case.

A girl accused her ex-husband of harassing, abusing and beating her.

And took out the video on the spot, in which the girl was badly beaten. The girl explained: After the divorce, her ex-husband went to her house to beat her many times and asked her for money. She was forced to give her ex-husband more than 3 million yuan. But her ex-husband harassed her endlessly, so she had to install a camera at home to record the process of her being beaten and injured.

What did the man say?

The man admitted that he did hit each other that day, and the bank flow showed that he did get money from the girl. But only when there was a video, he hit the girl, and the girl instigated it herself.

The lawyer said that it is not excluded that the video was set by a girl in order to get her ex-husband's money back.

This man is the most typical bad guy.

He took the girl's 3 million, still pestering and hurting her, but it is so difficult for her to get rid of him.

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There is a story about Switzerland and England.

Diana, a Swiss girl, found that her husband Leon was behaving abnormally, so she logged into Leon's mailbox and went in to have a look. She was suddenly taken aback.

My husband has been cheating for a long time. Being with several people at the same time.

Angry Diana went to question Leon. Unexpectedly, Leon flew into a rage: if you dare to invade my privacy, I will make you pay!

As he spoke, Leon hurried to the court and accused his wife of invading his privacy.

The court opened the court and said to Diana: Your husband cheated, and the judge expressed deep sympathy. But this case can only be governed by Swiss law. According to the law, it is a crime to peek into other people's privacy. Therefore, you are found guilty and fined 9900 Swiss francs, and you need 4300 Swiss francs as compensation for the police in performing their duties.

The case caused angry condemnation from netizens, but it will not affect the verdict.

-This man is a bad man. He is better than you, more cunning than you, more cunning than you, more cruel than you, and even better at law than you. How do you play with him?

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The bad guy is a pit.

Once you meet it, you will sink in.

A friend who is doing psychological counseling in Zhihu told about the clients he met.

The client is a girl and asked her boyfriend if he should break up because of his habitual infidelity. And describe the process of her boyfriend's derailment several times.

Consultant: That's a must. Anyway, is this love rat reserved for the New Year?

But girl, I really left love rat for the Spring Festival.

After a while, the girl came again, gave her a detailed description of love rat's injury and begged for advice.

The counselor tried hard to persuade: This man is so shameless, why don't you break up with him?

All right. The girl pretended to promise.

After a while, the girl came again, detailing the escalation of her boyfriend's injury, which has made her on the verge of collapse, desperate and begging.

The counselor was anxious: I told you twice to share it with him, but you stubbornly refused to listen. You asked for it today. Are you blaming me?

Guess what the girl said?

The girl scolded the consultant: x your mother!

Lahei!

Why does a girl get hurt by bad people and speak ill of those who help her?

-poor people, there must be something hateful.

The evil of a bad man is that he deliberately wants to destroy you.

-Destroy your ego, your perception.

-Make you an ungrateful perpetrator, bow down like a lamb in front of the wicked, and be cruel and violent in front of the helpers.

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In several cases listed here, the victims are all girls.

-For the bad guys, women are the perfect prey in the world. They can cheat money and have sex. Moreover, since the bad guys want to do bad things, they will lay out the layout layer by layer, remove your psychological defense line step by step, destroy your self-esteem, disintegrate your self-confidence, and finally make you completely lose yourself and become an existence without will.

How did the bad guys do it?

-is to take advantage of the weaknesses of good people!

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Why are there bad people in the world?

This is a problem that most good people can't figure out.

I can't figure it out because good people lack understanding of themselves!

You must take yourself seriously from the perspective of a bad person. Look at you, a so-called good man. What's the problem? Let the bad guys line up to bully!

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A good man is a non-aggressive existence.

The biggest feature is cognitive occlusion!

For example, a Shanghai girl was scared by her ex-husband and was forced to transfer more than 3 million yuan!

Come on, girl, with this 3 million, 1 10,000, you can hire a person and 300 strong men, scaring your ex-husband!

-But that girl didn't expect it.

-because she is in a state of self-isolation. Obviously, I have a clear conscience, but I seem to have done something wrong, and I am afraid to open my social circle.

The second characteristic of good people is extreme emotion.

For example, Diana of Switzerland, when she got the evidence of her husband's infidelity, immediately fell into an emotional state and ran over to find fault. But the evidence is in hand, why ask? The other party admits, how do you deal with it? If you don't admit it, what will you do?

She didn't even think about these things!

If you don't want to use your head, you have to pay for your emotions!

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In this world, everything we say and do comes with a price.

-Your emotions need to be paid.

When we were young, our emotions were paid by our parents. Even if we are not worried, parents can only bite their teeth and swallow. Children born by themselves should grow up in tears.

When we grow up, we have to pay this bill ourselves.

-someone who loves you, or someone who is willing to pay for your feelings temporarily. But if the emotional bill is endless, the other person's psychological balance will be overdrawn sooner or later, and they can only pay for it themselves!

This is what happened to Diana. She vented her feelings on someone who didn't love her, and the other party asked him to pay the bill. And this bill is a fine in court!

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When a person is extremely autistic and emotional, she becomes the perfect prey.

As Mr. Lian Yue said, she will be trapped among the bad guys.

-because she will never meet a good person again!

Even if two good people meet, both sides are looking for someone to pay for their feelings. When two people with bad feelings meet, they fall together, smash together, make trouble together, and leave in half an hour at most.

Then find someone to pay for their feelings.

But this pile of bills is too thick and expensive. Even the door of the longitudinal wealth, also stay out of the way, dare not touch.

In the end, all they met were bad people.

Only bad people will sweet talk and pretend to satisfy your extremely naive mentality. When you take the bait, I will control your mind, destroy your self-esteem with humiliation, destroy your personality with violence, and then use your social lock-up to disintegrate your self, leaving you in constant harm and never coming out.

Then the other person took his time, picked up his knife and fork and began to taste your rare delicacy.

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Why are you a good person?

Because you are immature!

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Good people and bad people are all childhood cognition.

Adult society only talks about maturity.

Look at the pros and cons, talk less about right and wrong!

The pros and cons are adults' cognition. There used to be a TV series "To * * * and", and Empress Dowager Cixi would nag a constant line every time she appeared:

Everything has advantages, and there must be disadvantages!

The behavior of adults is to choose between difficulties.

The adult world is not without right and wrong. Most adults are not bad, at least cherish feathers, and don't hurt people whose psychological growth is seriously lagging behind. But they can only do this at most, and more is beyond their power. After all, no one can afford a baby weighing 300 pounds.

As an immature adult, you must turn to growth to protect yourself. Whenever you look forward to protection, most of what you hear is bad people.

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As Mr Lian Yue said, it takes courage to be a bad guy.

-This courage is to know yourself!

Good people are just young children with adult bodies. The body is delicious, but there is no corresponding intellectual protection. It's like a child walking at night with a big piece of gold. Even if there is only one bad guy in the world, he will come for you.

To protect yourself, you must first know yourself.

Martial arts practitioners go first. To learn martial arts, learn to be beaten first. The less faults you expose, the less harm you will get. When you have no flaws, you don't have to do it again.

Good people have five shortcomings: first, they are too autistic, second, they are too emotional, and third, they only talk about right and wrong. Fourth, too much beautification of reality, I do not know the advantages and disadvantages. The fifth is to refuse to grow up and fantasize about having a savior to support themselves. As long as you have these shortcomings, don't blame the bad guys for liking you.

A person's character is his destiny. Except for occasional small probability events, most of the injuries we suffer are only the price of immaturity. The more you refuse to mature, the higher the cost of life. Unless you are open to growth and willing to protect your delicious body. This is what Buddhists call turning back to the shore. In an instant, you will become extremely powerful. Only when you stop putting a moral label on yourself or others and get out of the baby cognition of good people and bad people can you do this.

Five Sacred Mountains

I often hear people say, why do I do good things, but I can't get good results?

This kind of exclamation is mostly a moaning without illness. On the one hand, many people's so-called good things are actually suspicious. The parties have other plans, but they think others can't see them. Secondly, even if it is really a good thing, it will be given to others. Never repay evil behavior with so-called good deeds, it is only to train the wicked for your own life.

If you want to win the favor of others, you may not be able to win the positive reaction of the other party. The best way is to let the other party invest in what you want.

"Why don't good people get what they deserve? Because you don't understand human nature! ! 》