Over the years, I have watched many plays about the same sex, both hot and unpopular men and women, all aiming at a theme: understanding love, understanding love and interpreting love.
I just finished watching this hit Thai drama "Interpreting My Love with Your Heart" in a hurry recently. Seriously, it is not the best I have ever seen, but it is the most delicate and accurate interpretation of feelings I have ever seen. Of course, there are TV plays in it. It takes a long time, and emotional bedding can be done step by step. However, the small eye movements in the interaction between two men and women are really commendable.
A while ago, I just watched the same-sex movie "The Name Carved in Your Heart" in Taiwan Province Province. I felt that the biggest shortcoming was that the feelings of two people came too fast, which led to some gaps and powerlessness in emotional interpretation, and then the feelings suddenly dissipated, which made people unprepared. Although the depth of feelings is not satisfactory, the overall impression is also moving. Up to now, I am still indignant at the ending of the two, and I hate that they didn't come together when they were young. I can only sigh when I think about it.
Later, when I watched Interpreting My Love with Your Heart, under the careful and gentle guidance of the director, I saw clearly the emotional context of a relationship from scratch to deep.
Germany and Europe have known each other since childhood, but it didn't take long. After a quarrel, they stopped talking until they grew up and went to college together and made up again. At this time, Germany's pursuit of a girl for two years has not been fruitful, and Europe has also fallen in love with another boy whose first step is too slow. They have their own love, but they are inadvertently affectionate in getting along again and again.
Ou found his mind and calmly conveyed it to Fred. Fred never knew that he liked Ou, and then he decided that he liked Ou, and then he struggled with himself who could not accept homosexuality.
And this question about whether homosexuality can be accepted by the public, families and themselves is always the only way for all homosexuals to ask themselves. Choose love, choose the world, there is no shortcut.
Cognitive love
At the earliest, Fred actually liked a girl, while Ou liked another boy. Both of them focus on getting close to their lover. But in-depth observation, in fact, we can see the director's careful thought of being buried. He interpreted the love of Germany and Europe for modern people very superficially. The two sides respect each other as guests, and even physical contact only stays in one-way contact, so love with a sense of distance is like pasted glass, which is opaque.
When Germany and Europe get along, they can see a lot of eye contact and physical contact, chasing each other and slapping each other, touching each other's legs with their own legs, and so on. At the same time, when they move towards the same goal, they help each other, encourage each other, understand each other and push their feelings to a higher level. Finally, they gradually understand that the feeling of wanting to be close to each other is only available when facing the person they love.
Understand love
With the deepening of Germany's affection for Europe, he has done more and more things for Europe, which is more and more touching.
After realizing this love, Fred experienced a long period of self-struggle, struggling in love and deviation, pushing Europe away again and again and finding Europe again and again, but he wanted to let go but could not.
Finally, in this back-and-forth torment, he is even more convinced that he can't lose Europe in this life, and even the unwritten rules of this world or everyone's eyes can't stop him.
He understands and embraces his feelings, and no longer dares to bury them in the corner of the deep sea, but blooms in the sun.
Interpret love
I remember hearing a sentence before, which impressed me deeply: the best way to interpret love is the mutual physical movements of both sides.
I want to touch each other because I love each other, and I want to be touched because I love each other.
Germany and Europe have many touching scenes, naughty and gentle attachment, and so on. Whether it is just the contact of friends at first, or the contact with love later, you can feel the deep emotional flow.
In several stages, Germany broke through his struggle against homosexuality, and he still remembered Europe, always guarding and helping Europe in the distance. I still remember the feeling of trying to touch but withdrawing his hand.
Several scenes in which Germany and Europe silently shed tears or burst into tears at the critical point of their feelings are all empathetic and profound.
The interpretation of love is actually very simple, and it is vividly expressed in the interaction between Germany and Europe.
The director also intends to use red and purple hibiscus flowers, coconut-related objects and smells as the central theme and direction of the play, so that the audience can inadvertently understand the emotional trend of Germany and Europe.
Those struggles
The most remarkable thing about this relationship is how Fred accepts that he is gay.
At first, Fred didn't know that he had the characteristics of homosexuality, and it gradually became clear until he fell in love with Europe.
Fred was born in a traditional single mother family. He has an excellent brother. Fred ran after his brother since he was a child, trying to make himself excellent and get praise from his mother. He did it.
At this time, he found himself in love with Europe, which will never be recognized by his family, which runs counter to his lofty ideal of going. He refused to face this relationship more for fear that his family would disagree.
Until Germany, who had been in love for a long time, lost in front of his brother, he admitted the fact that he fell in love with Europe with tears, but his brother did not accuse him. He said that if you walk hand in hand with boys in the street, I can accept it. Mom, give her some time to understand. It's not surprising that you just need to do something that will make you happy. You can have anyone you like.
Such a warm brother gave Fred great strength and pushed him to pursue his own happiness.
There are many races and colors in the world, and so is love. Don't restrict or restrain anyone's love because of the secular, whether it is opposite sex or same sex, the essence of love is the same.
In the matter of feelings, whether one person is making another laugh or two people are together to make two people laugh, it is good. The important thing is to be with the person you love, and everything can be beautiful.
And all other worldly things that contain themselves can be eclipsed by this love.