Why can't I send pumpkins:
Pumpkins in these places in Fujian are never gifts. Giving pumpkins is giving away the geomantic omen of one's own home to others, and always leaving a small piece of pumpkins before giving them away.
There are other meanings of sending pumpkins between men and women.
The English word for pumpkin is pumpkin, which means dear, baby. This title is not used casually. It is usually used by men to address their wives and daughters.
Boys send pumpkins to girls to show that they want to communicate and want to fall in love with you.
Will you accept pumpkins from others?
From the perspective of geomantic omen, accepting other people's pumpkins means accepting other people's blessings, which is good for you.
From the perspective of men and women, you should be careful. After all, there are other feelings in it. If you have no feelings for boys and don't want to associate, you might as well not accept them, which will give people no hope from the beginning.
This is all about giving away pumpkins. If you don't have special feelings for each other, don't accept other people's pumpkins, so as not to hurt each other in the end.