The problem of fake users in online dating is a common problem faced by almost all online dating platforms. 2RedBeans also pays special attention to such issues. From the backend screening technology of the online platform to the experience support of the offline advisory group, we strictly control every aspect and are committed to creating the best solution for our users. A safe and reliable online dating environment.
In order to allow our customers to identify online scammers more quickly and accurately in practice, 2RedBeans thoughtfully provides this online dating anti-fraud guide, hoping that our users will have more information. Pleasant online dating experience.
After collecting personal experiences reported by platform users and the main problems they face, we summarized the tactics of online scammers. If the other party is really a liar, you are likely to experience these three situations:
1. The other party is perfect: handsome appearance, high emotional intelligence, and shows me that he has fallen in love with me;
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2. After only knowing each other for 2 weeks, the other person said that he will come to see you soon, which makes you feel lucky;
3. The other person has not met you for a long time, and has never made a video call, but has chatted with you. A lot. He tells you all his information, detailed and enthusiastic, with photos. His experience may be rich and tortuous, making you feel that he is an experienced person who can resonate with your soul.
We will all be very vigilant when encountering the above situations. No matter what the man’s background information is, if you encounter something like this next, then he must be a liar:
1. This “perfect partner” starts inviting you to cancel the line after chatting with you for a week information on the website, or suggest that you register for another website, saying that there are more photos and better chat;
2. The person who claims to fly out to see you will tell you when the meeting is approaching. , he was unable to come due to various reasons;
3. The experienced man is likely to be widowed, have a military background, or have projects in the oil industry or Southeast Asia.
At this time, you are likely to have entered into a one-on-one communication state with him via email or WeChat. You may have completely lost your ability to judge. Your emotional perception may be this: This "perfect match" has fallen in love with you, and he sincerely wants to see you, but cannot come due to unavoidable reasons. The other person is depressed and depressed because of this, which makes you have all kinds of complicated emotions: liking, admiring and feeling distressed... So, you believe in him without thinking, believe in his difficulties, and even want to help. So, the other party starts to ask you for a sensitive thing...
This sensitive thing is money, Money!
Because the purpose of all online scammers is the same: to defraud money! In any case, if you have never met or had a deep understanding and mentioned money, transfers and other information, he is 200% a liar!
However, there are many different ways in which money is involved. For example, the other party may have lost his mobile phone on the eve of coming to see you, or even on the way, and needs your support; or the other party may have sent something that you need to sign for, but claimed that you have to pay the government a sum of money to get it; or , you talked a lot, involving work, business cooperation and even investment, which made you feel that it was normal to talk about money at this time, and you felt that the other person was very business-minded and wanted to help him invest, etc. At this time, you have often lost your rational judgment and fallen into the other party's logical trap. The normal situation is that for those who really need to make friends, finding their partner is the primary goal, and making money through cooperative investment will not be discussed on online dating platforms. Therefore, be wary of any unusual or bizarre stories that make you feel abnormal. As long as he asks you to transfer money, you should recognize his true face, give up contact as soon as possible, and report it on the platform.
So, what are the ways that online scammers cheat?
They tend to cast a wide net and filter quickly, with the following 14 characteristics:
1. The platform photos are very professional and the information looks perfect
2 , Soldiers serving in war-torn areas
3. Petroleum industry, no work details and photos, the content of the letter is empty
4. Preparing to go to or currently working in Southeast Asia, with industry/engineering /Good investment project
5. Contractor/Doctors Without Borders/has a very good career, now I want to find a new investment direction
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7. Widowed, raising children alone
8. Both parents died, leaving inheritance or company
9. Any life experience that sounds very bumpy and unusual
10. The content of the letter is very complete. One letter tells all the stories, down to the date of birth and height
11. Extremely enthusiastic and fast-paced, I have always called you dear, I wish I could fall in love with you immediately
12. Remove the platform information very quickly and tell you that it is for you
13. Invite you to chat on other dating platforms
14. Anyone who mentions financial information in the early stage of communication
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This situation is often a group operation. Some of them are psychological masters, and some are good-looking. They are worthy of their responsibilities, and some of them have outstanding literary talents... They perform their own duties, carefully manage their relationship with you, and communicate with you like your friends. This type is often harder to detect. They release a lot of information, interspersed with reasonable emotional interactions, the rhythm is step-by-step, and strive to be true to gain your high sense of trust, thereby defrauding you of large amounts of money.
Since they are registered with normal IPs and have a normal communication rhythm, they may not be immediately identifiable at the platform technical level. But 2RedBeans uses artificial intelligence to let the machine continue to learn, and it can still filter out some. Nonetheless, we realize that the most important thing is to help our users improve their own discernment skills. As long as everyone keeps three points in mind and is vigilant, you can detect clues as early as possible:
1. Money, any motive is problematic
2. Trust your sixth sense.
When you encounter a scammer, you will have a subtle feeling that something is wrong, but you often suppress your intuition and give yourself various reasons not to ask these "sensitive topics." In fact, your feelings are a strong signal that something isn't right.
3. Being too perfect is always a trap.
Whether it is a perfect partner or an investment project with a high rate of return, you should sound your alarm before making a move.
Now, let’s summarize the two types of online scammers. There are two main types of scammers. One is to cast a wide net and pursue short-term and quick scams, which are easier to detect; the other is to take a long-term approach to catch big fish, with a reasonable rhythm and normal emotional interaction, which is difficult to identify, but with the goal of obtaining a large amount of your money.
At the same time, after encountering an online dating scam, many people will have such concerns: If the other party knows my true information, will my own safety be a problem? Please don't worry about this. The main purpose of an online scammer is to obtain money, and when he fails to achieve his goal, he will not travel across the country to you. Because this is something that increases both cost and risk for them, please don't worry about your personal safety.
The technical team of 2RedBeans has been exploring various methods to identify and screen online scammers. In addition to the websites and apps that push dating safety tips, our backend technology also has settings such as system identification of IPs, suspicious behavior screening, and user report review. In addition, facial recognition technology, real-name authentication and other methods are also being considered and tried by us.
At the same time, if you want to get more experience support, you can also participate in our offline training camp or offline one-on-one consulting services.
We will provide more comprehensive information guidance to protect your network security in an all-round way. 2RedBeans
We will continue to work hard to create a purer and more pleasant online dating environment. We sincerely hope that you can reap happiness as soon as possible!