There is a kind of person who is a social bull when he is with friends and a social phobia when he is with strangers. He repeatedly jumps between two states, refuses to speak in public, resists unnecessary social interaction and enjoys a person's world. Do you conclude that he is an introvert? In fact, extroversion and introversion are not an either-or relationship, but a range in which you may be in any one. In the split personality, besides extroversion and introversion, there is also an extroversion and introversion. If you have the following signs, then you are a social bovine miscellaneous disease.

First, you are often quiet, but that doesn't mean you don't want to talk to people. You don't reject being in a crowd, but it doesn't mean you want to talk to people. You prefer two-person activities to group activities. In most cases, you play the role of a listener. You can choose to socialize. You can cope with the social environment, and at the same time you can find that time alone is very precious. You need to be alone, but you often feel lonely. It is difficult for you to go out, but after you go out, you will have a good time.

Second, you are willing to meet other friends. But if you want to meet new people, you must tell them in advance, so that you can be mentally prepared for socializing. It is not difficult for you to get married with your parents, friends, your friends, boyfriends, bosses, etc. But after the conversation, you will want to be quiet and really don't like chatting. Not necessarily the most talkative person in the team, but you can keep talking if the occasion requires. I hope others can pay attention to your efforts, and then you will be flustered because others pay attention to you for more than half a minute. You may be the happiest time in a coffee shop, but there are people around you who can get along alone and not be disturbed.

Third, you often have an inner struggle to control your introverted side. You can be charming, but you also know how to be confident and reflective. Because you can be cheerful, friendly and comprehensive at the same time, sometimes you will become a leader, but that doesn't mean you are eager to praise or want to discuss how good you are.