It is generally said that men look at faces more than women. However, on some specific occasions, women are more critical of face value than men. If you have used all kinds of dating apps or recruited friends online, you will agree with me. Three-point women think four-point male ugliness is very common. And many women are really looking for boyfriends according to the standard of loving beans. The emergence of this phenomenon is related to point 8. 1. There is nothing in China to isolate the city and the countryside, so that they have two different cultures. Therefore, generally speaking, it is hard to say that young rural women are more conservative, traditional, hardworking and gentle than young urban women. Moreover, the network poison chicken soup has a greater impact on rural women who go to work in big cities. In other words, if an honest man wants to find a gentle and traditional rural woman, he will have to work hard, maybe he will have to drop several dimensions. 2. Most women of the same age will deduct points for older virgins. They either worry that he has a virgin complex; Either he will have a first impression that he is unattractive or even has physical and mental problems, and the first impression is still a bit important. 3. Most women are disgusted with the virgin complex to varying degrees. When they say that "a virgin can find a virgin", many of them are forced to do so. Actually, they still look down on you. 4. Whether there is love experience is more valued by women. Some women will vote against men who have no love experience, and the older they are, the more such women will be. No love experience, for most women, at least it is a deduction. 5. In the scene of dating friends, it is much more common for the woman to blacken or express negative comments after the man sends photos than the opposite of gender; Women dare to make subtext remarks like "I am like this, do you like it or not" in dating posts and dating posts; There are fewer and fewer men who ask the woman to cook in the blind date information, and they can't be found basically, while the reverse situation of gender is more and more, and it is easy to find; There are many more women than men who have no substantive content in dating posts. The so-called lack of substantive content means that they don't talk about what they can bring to each other, but many are brave enough to express themselves. Judging from this information, men are much more restrained than women, and their desire to express themselves is suppressed. 6. Elite men and ordinary men see the gender market in two different ways. Ordinary men accost ten women online, and usually only two or three are willing to talk to you back and forth and say a few more informative words (that is, not perfunctory). Every day, at least ten women accosted the elite male dating posts, and some even reported their bust directly. Moreover, among the women who accost elite men, many social strata are at least two or three grades lower than elite men. Moreover, most of the personal information they send to elite men still doesn't talk about what is good about themselves and what they can bring to each other. 7. Some women hate the virgin complex to such an extent that they can insult the elite virgins who keep their virginity. The rhetoric is probably that elite men only have money, nothing but money, and they feel inferior and their spiritual world is barren. 8. Women also yearn for men, and the degree of longing is not lower than that of men, but the environment faced by men and women is different. A dating community account with a gender set to female will have many comments or private messages from men as long as it is dynamic and doesn't even need to take selfies. This intensive pursuit of the opposite sex can meet the psychological needs of women and eliminate loneliness, so women always look calmer and more energy-consuming. Don't neglect the psychological and spiritual needs when examining human nature. This intensive pursuit makes many women feel superior to men of the same class. 9. Elite men are often surrounded by women, and they often see women's undignified and exposed desires. So what do elite men think of women? 10. A woman who once had an ex-boyfriend who was good in bed, compared with her ex-boyfriend, most other men are frugal and extravagant. A woman once consulted me and said that her current boyfriend is a virgin and is very kind to her, but he is very unfamiliar and clumsy in bed. She still thinks it's cool to have sex with her ex-boyfriend, but her ex-boyfriend likes to hook up with three and build four, so they broke up. I don't know what happened back there. Douban also has many posts complaining about having bad sex with her boyfriend. If you are interested, you can read the comments below. So this is another problem that an old virgin needs to face.