If you are visiting the woman's parents or the man's parents for the first time, naturally you can't go empty-handed. So what kind of gifts should we buy? It's a good idea to ask your boyfriend/girlfriend what their parents like, and then ask them what they like. However, this "good" also need to pay attention to some issues, not all gifts are suitable to send the future father-in-law, mother-in-law or father-in-law, mother-in-law.

I. Do not send cigarettes

Many people like to smoke, so now on New Year's Day we go to a relative or friend or something like cigarettes as a gift, this is not a problem, but if you put in the first time to meet each other's parents in the case of cigarettes there are some risks.

Everyone knows that smoking is bad for your health. Smoking is not only bad for your health, but also for those around you.

In the family, many ladies object to their husbands' smoking and even break out in conflicts and contradictions. So don't give away this kind of "fuse" that can stir up trouble without fully understanding the atmosphere in the other person's home.

You send cigarettes to the other father, naturally happy, but the other mother may have just quarreled with her husband because of the smoking problem or she very much dislikes her husband's smoking. The first impression in her mind will be greatly diminished by the delivery of these cigarettes.

Additionally, cigarettes also represent a disease (there are many good platforms that do not push you Oh, want to get the latest information the first time friends, welcome to letter Huan Wei, the number see below in bold). In the era of everyone focusing on health care, sending something that can make people sick xhxjiaoyu is not a good idea either.

So, the other father if you like to smoke, the first gift you can choose a harmless class of cigarette products. For example: high-grade filters or electronic cigarettes. Of course, the best way is not to send cigarettes.

Two. Don't send health care products

There is no problem with friends and relatives giving each other health care products, but still, the first time to go to each other's parents' homes, because they don't know the specifics of their families, those who have the potential risk of gifts is best not to send, health care products is one of them.

First of all, health supplements conjure up images of medicine and disease. Not everyone thinks that way, though there's no way to be sure the other parent doesn't - after all, you're still strangers at the moment.

Secondly, health care products need to be taken over a long period of time in order to be effective, so if you send them this time, will you continue to send them on a regular basis when you visit each other in the future or will you refrain from sending them? In addition, perhaps the other parents are using some kind of health care products, this situation should not be mixed with the use of other health care products. In short, there are two words: awkward.

Three. Do not send rice dumplings and rice cakes

If you catch the festival, then you should bring some seasonal snacks. Dumplings and rice cakes seem to have a good meaning and there seems to be nothing wrong with them, but for the more sophisticated people, sending dumplings and rice cakes is cursing them with a death in the family this year.

Because of the ancient Chinese custom that after a death in the family and a funeral, you can't make your own rice cakes and dumplings for the year. Therefore, if someone sends rice dumplings and rice cakes to your house there is a hint that there is a funeral in your family.