What is natural punishment? That is to say, when a child occurs in a behavior or mistake, parents will not give too much criticism, but let the child be inactivated by the consequences of inactivation, and the child will feel unhappy and even painful psychological punishment, which will lead to painful psychological punishment for the child to repent and correct his mistakes. "Natural punishment" is the result that children feel after doing what they do. Punishment is self-sufficient for him. I can feel the pain of punishment for what you have done. And strengthen the painful experience, find the courses you should study and correct your mistakes.
Scallop effect is based on fixed time, peak value and low peak value of reward, and there are various countermeasures. Changing time reward forms spatial reward. American psychologist found in his mouse experiment that if mice were reinforced every 20 seconds, the reaction of mice would stop after reinforcement, and then the reaction rate would increase. The reaction rate before the next reinforcement reached the peak indicated that he had learned to react according to reinforcement. The behavior trend of mice is like scallops, so it is called "scallop effect".
Educating children is a very important thing, and promoting children's rights is also a difficult standard. If parents can learn to combine "natural punishment" with "scallop", it will be a reward for their children, and the punishment has certain standards. In order to master the child's psychology, you can motivate the child to move on.
Don't turn initiative into passivity. Perhaps many parents understand the scallop effect and think that children's rewards are encouragement to their children. In fact, this idea is wrong. Parents should not set rewards for what their children should do. For example, children have to participate in family work, and many parents like to change money for their children. The way to encourage. Talk about how many pockets are provided to children at a time. When you get used to this kind of behavior, when you let your child sweep, your child will make more demands.
I should cultivate the habit of raising children, but I have become something without reward. When applying, parents should gradually draw this time period according to the progress of things that can be completed. The "scallop effect" tells us that it is strengthened by continuous fixed time. Therefore, children who accept new things can complete new behaviors and achieve new study habits, which can be continuously and fixedly enhanced, and constantly eliminate time to give children some encouragement and rewards. When the child arrives, it may take time to strengthen the time and finally withdraw. If the method is used improperly, there will be resistance.