Nowadays, people's living standards are getting higher and higher, there are more and more entertainment projects for young people, and it is easier for the elderly to find their own hobbies. In the past, apart from doing housework and taking care of their grandchildren, the elderly basically spent the rest of their time at home watching TV series. But now it is different. Fashionable elderly people will continue to dance squares and practice boxing, and their elderly lives are gradually becoming more colorful. .

Nowadays, many housewives are keen on square dancing. I often see many elderly people gathering together to follow the music in the city square downstairs, and they are all filled with happy smiles. Square dancing is a good exercise method for middle-aged and elderly people, and its benefits are self-evident:

Dancing in the square can help you lose weight. Generally, dancing for two hours continuously can consume the body. Too much heat consumes unnecessary body fat.

Enables better sleep quality, gets more adequate rest, makes people more charming, energetic and outstanding, makes people more efficient in learning and work, helps relax the nervous system, and eliminates the need to study or work psychological pressure arising from.

Help improve stamina, exercise and hone your will, dare to face challenges, help increase confidence, and create a healthy self-image. Provide opportunities to enjoy fun with friends and promote everyone's emotions; provide opportunities to meet new friends and learn the spirit of cooperation in group activities.

Recreation and killing time will bring you happy, interesting, fun and exciting feelings, allowing you to learn more skills, which are more likely to be used throughout your life.

But the 62-year-old sister complained: Don’t indulge in square dancing, because our experience is very miserable. Let’s take a look at why this eldest sister said you should never indulge in square dancing? 62-year-old Aunt Chen:

Although many people do square dancing now, I no longer dance. It’s not that I don’t have time or that I don’t like it very much. It’s just that I don’t dare to do it anymore. Jumped. Why do you say that? Listen to me one by one. Last year I loved square dancing. But because of square dancing, I lost a little grandson. I was really scared. My son almost wanted to sever the father-son relationship with me. This incident caused a lot of discussion. If I hadn't cried and begged my son, and if the child hadn't been so hesitant, it's very likely that my son wouldn't be able to forgive me and I wouldn't even call me this mom.

At that time, I was so obsessed with square dancing that when I picked up my grandson after school, I asked him to wait for me in the square. I said that we would go home together after I finished dancing in the square. I have told my grandson not to run around, but how can the child listen?

There are so many fun things in the city square, so many interesting things, it is not easy for children to listen. Once no adults see them, they will wander around. On the other hand, because I was still dancing in the square, I had no idea whether my grandson was standing still and waiting for me. When we went home to look for him after dancing in the square, I found that my grandson had disappeared. .

Later I called the police. The loss of my grandson is indeed my problem. If I had not been obsessed with square dancing and just brought him home, this would never have happened. But there are no ifs in this world, because I was obsessed with square dancing and indirectly lost my grandson. Although I begged my son to forgive me, I could never get over that hurdle in my heart.

I will feel guilty for the rest of my life because I lost my grandson. It's been more than half a year now and I still haven't found it. It's all my fault. I want to cry every time I think about this. Therefore, I advise everyone not to indulge in square dancing, otherwise you will lose more things and lose things. They are all things you care about. Once some things are lost, they will no longer exist, and you will regret it for the rest of your life. Why do many people advise middle-aged women not to be obsessed with square dancing

Afraid of being gossiped by neighbors.

Many middle-aged women love to dance square dances with a male partner, not just with their sisters. Most middle-aged women will have a male partner. If they are in a relationship with a male partner, Too often and your neighbors will gossip.

Not interested in doing housework.

Some women are really obsessed with square dancing. They think about how to dance better every day and study dance at home. They are so obsessed with dancing that they have no time to do housework.

Causing extramarital affairs.

Why don’t many people like middle-aged women to dance square dances? Because square dancing leads to extramarital affairs, most families are torn apart by square dancing. Some women have male dance partners and are obsessed with square dancing. They often go dancing and develop feelings while dancing. Having an extramarital affair affects your original family.

Square dancing is very good in itself. It can exercise your body and make friends, but you need to have a certain temperament when dancing in the square. Whether it is square dancing or other hobbies, there must be a degree. Within this range, good things will happen. Once it exceeds this degree, it will be bad things, just like the square dancing danced by the three aunts above. If they seize this opportunity, square dancing is indeed a good thing. It can exercise, make friends, and relieve boredom.

But it was because they went beyond this control that so many bad things happened. Who can blame this? I can only blame myself for not controlling this degree well. So you must grasp this degree well, whether it is square dancing or other hobbies, otherwise good things will turn into bad things. You must grasp this degree well, and don't make one mistake and regret it forever. I'm a sea talker about emotions, reading other people's stories, and reflecting on my own life. Don't follow other people's paths.