As a wife, you should learn to tolerate and understand, and think about doing something more for him for the family.
As for his anger, he ignored you, but he was just angry and twisted, not petty. From this starting point, you should bow your head first, rather than waiting for him to admit fault to you.
Why else would so many men cheat on their wives, not that they are tired of working outside the home and not get the warmth of his wife's comfort, and over time the heart is tired, tired. Maybe I'm talking seriously, but the world is very realistic, I'm just making an analogy.
Since he is your other half, you should have to tolerate and understand him, do not throw this belongs to the wife's obligations to others by mistake.
I hope you can understand and tolerate each other and be happy.