A woman lives by finding a man and entrusts her life to this man. But men are timid and incompetent, and can't give the woman the life and happiness she wants, so the woman is suffering.
Whether a man has any promise depends on his three points. One thing shows that he is a worthless man. So, what are these three points?
First, laziness and pleasure-seeking.
Usually, the biggest source of a person's failure is laziness. Throughout the ages, those successful people, who are not active and diligent, will only wear away their minds and become exhausted without fighting spirit and courage, and it is impossible to overcome the difficulties on the road to success.
If you are lazy, you won't know that the city walls are made of bricks and stones, nor that those successful people start from doing small things well, nor that wealth is accumulated bit by bit. Without a good beginning, they naturally won't have a good ending. Moreover, such lazy people have no courage to overcome difficulties at all. On the contrary, they often seek pleasure. Some people are infatuated with Liu Yang Lane, while others lie prone on the wine field all day, living a life that is neither human nor ghost. Women can't get the happiness they deserve if they follow such people. They won't care about you, they will only make you their servant and serve them. Isn't this a kind of sadness?
Second, do nothing without doing anything.
Some people fool around with a bunch of people all day, do nothing, gamble and drink, have no money, just think about crooked ways and want to get some money as soon as possible. Such people cannot learn well, and some even engage in illegal activities. When one day they went to prison, it was too late to regret it. Even if such people come out, they will be notorious for breaking the law and can't be seen anywhere.
As his woman, you will be pointed at and gossiped by your neighbors. You can't live this life any longer. But what can we do? You married a worthless man.
People who do nothing but do nothing are people with big temper and small skills. At home, this kind of person will beat and scold his wife and children if he is slightly unhappy, get drunk all day, and vent his unhappiness in life and his anger outside on his wife and children. This kind of person is the most hateful. I don't have a skill. I beat and scold my wife and children all day.
Third, I like to complain and blame others.
There are also some men who have no skills, can't do great things, can't do small things, and are idle, but dream of living a luxurious and happy life. When the difference between reality and dreams is too great, their inner balance is out of balance, so all kinds of accusations and complaints come up. Others dare not blame, and get angry with the women in the house every day. If you are not satisfied, you will start to complain and accuse, saying that the food is salty and the soup is not good, and you will make much ado about nothing all day.
It's not obvious how hard it is for a woman to meet such a person. Is there nothing to be picky about? They know that they are venting their dissatisfaction with life, but they have no great skills and can only live such a poor life. Such people also have a complex of self-pity and self-sighing, thinking that their life is good, but they live such a life and sigh all day.
If a man has the above three characteristics, it means that he is a worthless person. Who won't meet something, he doesn't live a happy life from a poor life through his own efforts?
Strong people walk out of the predicament of life, while weak people always wander around this checkpoint, unable to walk out, not because they are not smart enough, but because they dare not face the reality, correct their shortcomings and deficiencies, and succeed through positive thinking and down-to-earth work.