Husband and wife is an old TV series, which was released eight years ago and triggered a wave of viewing frenzy. The play, starring Chen Shu, Huang Lei and Liang Jing, mainly tells the sufferings and tears of the Dink family.

Lin Jun, played by Chen Shu, and Tang Peng, played by Huang Lei, are a Dink couple. They have been married for many years and have a good relationship. They are both leaders of the company, earning a lot of money and enjoying a high social status.

Such an elite family is the envy of countless people. Without children's care and economic worries, * * * enjoys the world of two people, which is full of freedom and happiness. But these are all superficial.

In fact, their marriage is also a chicken feather. Lin Jun is an iron man, determined not to have children. In order to prevent pregnancy, we should not only take contraceptive measures, but also take birth control pills and double insurance, just in case.

Tang Peng loves Lin Jun very much and will always love her, but he wants children in his heart.

The pressure still comes from parents, who always advise them to have a child. They just promised to be born at the age of 35, but when they turned 35, they promised to be born at the age of 40.

In fact, these are all excuses for perfunctory parents. For Lin Jun, she wants a better career prospect and a younger appearance. She doesn't like children at all.

It's just that Tang Peng has begun to compromise with his parents, knowing that it's useless to persuade Lin Jun to have children, so he simply replaced the contraceptive with vitamins.

The mother-in-law, on the other hand, has a bigger opinion about Lin Jun's not having children. She asked people to buy "medicine for giving children" from the countryside, moved to their home and secretly put the medicine in Lin Jun's diet. As a result, both Tang Peng and her mother-in-law's tricks were discovered by Lin Jun, and a quarrel was inevitable.

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Lin Jun's best friend, Na Yi, played by Liang Jing, is also a dink. Her husband, Changshui Wang, is a civil servant, honest and obedient to Na Yi, but she has nothing to see in her career.

That in accordance with the Changshui Wang has a great opinion, although she knows that this man loves himself very much, but he can't make her worship.

Changshui Wang's lack of initiative made Naiyi more determined not to have children, and even talked about divorce.

On one occasion, Nai accidentally got pregnant, so she chose to go to the hospital to do it secretly, because Changshui Wang knew about it, and she must have been born.

Yes, Changshui Wang always wanted to have children, but she was so distressed that she obeyed her. It is another crisis between husband and wife to conceal the fact of pregnancy.

Lin Jun and Nai Yi are both Dink families, but it is still inevitable that chickens fly and dogs jump.

The biggest problem is that the wife is firm and the husband is shaken.

The husband and wife can't reach an agreement, and the pressure from their parents can't make the marriage precarious. Later, Tang Peng's father died, which also made Lin Jun want children.

Therefore, the husband and wife are committed to the "artificial plan." As a result, I couldn't get pregnant, and I didn't succeed in trying IVF. The doctor thought that Lin Jun had no ability to get pregnant.

Repeated failures have also put the relationship between husband and wife to the test. Coupled with the breeding of extramarital affairs, it finally came to the point of divorce.

It can't help but be embarrassing. The couple who were so loving still can't escape the test of their children.

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In recent years, the Dink family has risen. According to the survey, there are nearly 600,000 Dinks in China.

From my personal point of view, I think Dink has no problem at all. Whether to have children or not is a personal wish, and there is no need to rise to the moral level.

There's a question on Zhihu. What about double income no kids in 7080?

Gao Zan's answers are all in one direction: married for many years, happily married, economically free, very fortunate, no regrets.

Looking at their free life, it really makes people feel the urge of Dink.

But think about it carefully, what is the premise of their happiness?

Parental support+good economy+consensus between husband and wife+healthy body.

Without one of these factors, Dink and his wife will not be happy.

Lin Jun and Tang Peng Dink finally compromised, compromised and finally divorced. What is the fundamental problem?

One is the lack of support from the elders. Think about it. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult in itself. Your mother-in-law wants children, but you are still alive. Can you resolve the contradiction between you?

This is the case with Lin Jun's mother-in-law. She is doing Lin Jun's ideological work all the time, even at the expense of folk remedies. The only regret of the old man's death is that he can't have a grandson. Do you really have the heart?

Furthermore, Tang Peng loves Lin Jun very much, but he tolerates Lin Jun's Dink because of his love, but how long can this tolerance last?

Tang Peng is a dutiful son. Is it really okay for him to see his parents unable to enjoy their old age because of their children's problems?

Therefore, it is not difficult to understand why Lin Jun and Tang Peng have gone from loving each other to being strangers.

The same is true of Nai Yi and Changshui Wang. There are differences between them, which can be tolerated in a short time. After a long time, this rope will definitely break.

Others say that it is necessary to have children early, which is not unreasonable. Men are still fertile in their forties and fifties, but women are not. Even if you are pregnant, older women are not good for themselves and their children.

Dink is firm in front, and if you want to have children later, it will become the last straw to crush the camel.

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I have seen a TV series before, and the husband and wife are also determined to ask Dink. The wife is a company executive and is all-powerful in the workplace. Although the husband doesn't have a big career, he is a very romantic and caring person.

My wife once thought that her marriage was very happy, and she was glad that she was not kidnapped by her children in middle age. Until one day, I found out that my husband was cheating, and Xiaosan had his children.

Husband and wife, finally went to divorce.

At this time, the wife suddenly realized what a stupid choice she had made not to have children.

Although children should not be regarded as a bridge to maintain marriage, whether you admit it or not, the relationship between husband and wife will be closer with children. Children are the crystallization of love, which also means responsibility.

Many of my friends have said that although life is more difficult after having children, it also makes the family more full of vitality. China and his wife can't afford the price of the Dink family.

Because China people attach great importance to family, they think that marriage will be complete if they have children.

If you are a dink, you are bound to face a lot of pressure, which few people can bear. On the other hand, isn't it that people get married and have children just to find a support for the rest of their lives?

Many people's lives are like an old ox. Day after day, the fire in their hearts gradually goes out. But with a partner and a child, life has a head start again. If the heart loses its sustenance, it is meaningless to live.

I don't object to Dink, but the price of Dink is very high, and there is even no regret medicine.

Before making this decision, you must be careful. You should not only consider yourself, but also your partner and family.

Life is complicated and concrete, and there are not so many poems and distant places.