I'm not saying that a man with money and power is not good, but a man with this kind of economy and power will encounter many temptations. Many women hope that they can get the pursuit and favor of this man, so as to get what they want from this man. Maybe a man won't be tempted once or twice. What if the temptation one day is too great? What should I do if I can't resist? At this time, as his object, we must not accept it! Men who are honest and dutiful are different. Some of their own conditions determine the people around them. At least there will be no such thing as staying out for the night, talking about business, or going away on business and not even returning home! People who are honest and dutiful will care more about their families! Living with such people will feel more reliable.
These are all my views before I got married, but now I think differently after I get married.
Women should be careful when looking for a partner! No matter whether this man is rich, powerful or honest, first of all, it depends on whether this man is what he seems. Only a man with good character deserves a woman's trust and trust. Of course, it is good to have money. After all, money is needed in all aspects of life. In today's society, it is difficult to move without money! But money is not the only hard standard. Many times, some boys are potential stocks. People who are honest and dutiful will be more diligent. If he is enterprising, his life will become rich one day.
Tell a more inspiring story about ordinary people's love and marriage!
I also heard this from my mother. The protagonists in the story are my aunt and uncle. In the past, my aunt was a very independent person, but my grandmother has always been the head of the family. Everyone's marriage was arranged by her grandmother, including the candidate. My aunt could not escape my grandmother's forced marriage. At that time, my grandmother knew that my aunt was talking about a boy when she was working outside, and she was planning to marry my aunt at home in order to interrupt my aunt's idea of being with that boy. Who is my aunt? She was at the mercy of my grandmother, and resolutely rejected the Gao Fushuai that my grandmother gave her.
What kind of person is my grandmother, the head of the family, and what she says is a person who spits and nails! How can I let my aunt make her own decisions! Son of a bitch, you won't let me, I won't let you, and no one will bow. Mainly at that time, my little uncle's family was too poor to have a house, and all his brothers were married. Only he was still single. It happened that my aunt fell in love with him when she worked with him. Unless he didn't marry, my aunt felt that my little uncle was hardworking and could bear hardships. The most important thing is that it is difficult to buy her with money!
The problem is that my grandmother made up her mind not to agree, forced my aunt to marry a person with good family conditions, and dragged my aunt to get engaged. Aunt really moved for real, broke free from the shackles of relatives and friends, and ran to my little uncle's house to ask if my little uncle wanted to marry her and dared to marry her. My grandmother got wind of it and was furious. She said that if my aunt dared to marry her uncle, she would jump into the lake. Unexpectedly, my aunt didn't want to make do, so she ran to the woodshed and took out a bottle of pesticide, saying that she would take medicine if she was not allowed to marry her little uncle.
I can't help it, so my grandmother has to agree to their marriage. My aunt's family was one of the poorest in the past! Moreover, in those years, my aunt had several surgeries because she had a stone in her stomach, and when she had a little savings at home, she had a recurrence of the stone. But my little uncle never said anything. She took care of her before her bed, never complaining or abandoning her, but she came to comfort her and said that life would always get better.
Now my aunt's house is the best. I have built two houses and bought a car. I can go to work if I want to, but I don't want to go to work. I play cards and go shopping every day, or I can go out for dinner and sing K.
In fact, what a woman doesn't want much is to be single-minded. It would be better if the person she happens to meet is particularly kind to herself and rich and powerful, but it would be good if she is honest! The most important thing is not external, but whether the inner heart can be completely owned by only a woman.