1.

My girlfriend, Xiao Loli, is a beautiful housewife who loves cooking. Although she is occasionally lazy and orders a takeaway to make do, more often, she likes to explore all kinds of delicious food in the kitchen.

She likes delicious food, especially all kinds of homemade food. Every time I see her cooking delicious food on a delicate plate, just looking at it will greatly increase people's appetite, not to mention eating it.

Miss Lori loves to cook and can cook all kinds of delicious food. Her husband is also a man with a good appetite. Every time he comes back from a business trip, he looks at a big table of dishes prepared by his wife for himself, and his heart is filled with happiness.

I'm a very lazy person, and I don't like to spend too much effort on eating. But looking at Miss Lori, it's just a bowl of simple noodles, all cooked with bone soup, which still makes me feel deeply.

Every time I see this happy person, wearing a flower apron and busy in the kitchen, the scene is particularly warm.

2.

I sometimes wonder where Miss Lori's spirit came from. Later, after a long reflection, I found it was love.

She loves her husband and children, so she carefully prepares delicious food for them, and even spends the whole morning cooking a pot of soup for a simple noodle.

And her husband dotes on her very much. Although he is not often at home, he will certainly help her with housework and will take his wife and children around with distress.

The most important thing is that every time her husband treats his wife's carefully cooked foods, especially simple vegetables, he can also eat happiness.

Because of her husband's respect and care, Miss Lori is immersed in her uncle's love like a little Lori every day, and her food naturally contains the taste of happiness. That's why the food she cooked is delicious.

You see, it's such a simple, happy woman, and her happiness is also hidden in the taste of food.

3.

My little cousin has a godmother, who lives across the road from their home. When I was in high school and college, I went to my aunt's house frequently in winter and summer vacations, and I was also very familiar with this dopted mother.

For this reason, I followed my cousin to her house for dinner.

The first time I ate the food cooked by dopted mother, I felt amazing. Although I can't describe it, it was really delicious. Simple tofu, she can also do something different, that kind of feeling is soft and soft, more delicious than meat.

My aunt used to stay in a restaurant, and her cooking is the best in our family. This godmother is better than my aunt.

Since I went to my mother's house for a meal, I have always been attached to the taste of her house, and I have followed my cousin for several meals in the following holidays.

It's just that in the summer vacation of my junior year, I went to my aunt's house to have dinner again, and found that the food she cooked no longer had the taste I remembered. It was either too much salt or fried. The fragrant fried tofu that I used to like best is no longer soft and a little mushy. ?

I was just curious at that time, how can a person's cooking skills suddenly differ by a hundred thousand miles? Is there something wrong with aunt's taste?

4.

But I just thought about it and didn't ask. On the contrary, my young cousin came home after dinner and said to my aunt, Mom, why is the meal cooked by my godmother not delicious? That green vegetable was so salty that I took a bite and drank half a cup of water.

Aunt sighed and said, Your dopted mother has a bitter heart and can't talk about it, so she doesn't have the heart to cook.

I'm a little puzzled. I only know that this time I met, I found that this dopted mother has aged a lot, and she is not as fond of talking and laughing as before.

It turns out that in the past two years, the husband of dopted mother has rarely gone home with the growing business. When they used to run the canteen at home together, they loved each other and envied others.

Now that I'm married, I begin to understand that my aunt's cooking is a portrayal of her marriage.

Her marriage is full of sorrow, and her husband no longer cares for her and loves her. Although they are not divorced, they are no longer happy and sweet.

So the food she cooked, like her heart, is bitter, and there is no sweetness in the past.

5.

Reading Wu Zhihong's book the other day, he mentioned one thing, saying that there was a family in their hometown, and the men in this family were very violent and often beat their wives and children. And when he commits violence, it is better for them to cry out. Once the other person cries out, he will hit harder.

There are four brothers in this family. When they were young, they were beaten by their father. When they grew up, they copied their father and beat their wives and children.

They don't allow their wives to resist, but their wives still find a way to fight back, that is, slow, no matter what they do. The mothers of these men are also slow, and they think it's fate.

The wives of these four families are not only slow, but also do not pay attention to cooking. They are all very bad.

Among them, the wife of the second child is a teacher. She looks quiet and delicate, but she has not escaped her husband's beating.

Although this lady cooks relatively cleanly, she has a habit every time she makes pimples. A bowl of flour is enough for a family of four, but this lady needs a big basin of flour.

The dough soup made by them, their family, will have to eat for several days, and eventually it will turn sour.

The neighbors don't understand, obviously this wife is also a thrifty person. She can put less flour and eat fresh food every time.

6.

Why is this happening?

Wu Zhihong said: A wife who has been beaten all day, how can she cook well?

She was beaten by her husband, but she couldn't fight back, and this lady's meal was a kind of fight back against her husband.

Wu Zhihong said that a person who is often tortured must find her own way to fight back, otherwise her pent-up anger can only be directed at herself, and then she will commit suicide.

Although this is only a case, if we think about it carefully, we will find that those women who are unhappy in marriage don't have much mind to cook. Some people who have cooked the same food for decades have not improved, but are still regressing.

That's because their love is hopeless.

7.

Only a happy woman is willing to try to cook all kinds of delicious food. There are many dishes at their dinner table, and she will always think about innovation to comfort her husband and children.

And such a woman, the food they cook must be delicious, because they are willing to spend time and thought to do it with heart.

In other words, even if her cooking is not so delicious, her husband will think that her cooking is delicious because of the nourishment of love.

I don't know where I read a sentence: sometimes food can only make us full, but when the meaning other than body smell is amplified, it brings more than just the happiness of the mouth. The taste of home and love are all condensed into warm taste and rich in it. When cooking a loving dish with full heart, both the producer and the user enjoy it.

So those women who cook delicious food have a happy family life. A happy marriage and her husband's love are the motivation and source for them to make delicious food.

In the process of making food, they are not only making food, but also melting their love and mind into the food. This kind of food is the supreme human delicacy.

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