No One Will Despair Because of a Broken Heart is a paperback book written by Yingu and published by Wuhan Publishing House, priced at 36.80, with a page count of 256, article bar I have carefully organized some readers' after-thoughts, which I hope will be helpful to you.

"No one will despair because of a broken heart" read after (1): the memory of the lost beauty

Memory of the lost beauty

I believe that many readers, like me, because of the title of this book and chose to open the reading of the journey. The first sentence of the first chapter makes me feel **** and can not be calmed for a long time: to grow up is to meet the most sad things will not cry, meet a small good thing will be full of gratitude.

This book is a collection of 22 heartwarming and original stories. Every time I read a story, my mood is up and down, I understand that the warm heart is sweet, but the silver valley let me taste the sweet and sour. It makes me vaguely heart-broken but always makes the frozen heart instantly melt away.

Perhaps the author, Gingu, was once lost and confused in this world of heartbreak. I vaguely detected in his words the scene of his examination of himself, the self that wants to escape from the world, the self that just wants to close himself up alone and away from the world. The other self is struggling to break free, and the past is not something that disappears by feigning amnesia. It's your subconscious mind that's trying to seal it away, just to make you smile. I don't know where the blank memory can attach the happiness? So you start to remember the lost beauty and realize that you are the dinner I enjoyed last night.

Love should be an eternal topic. Some people spend their whole life in love, but never really have a love that is engraved in their hearts, while some meet the right person and feel that this life is enough.

Reading Yingu's words will make me think of a high school friend. His style of writing is very similar to that of Gingu, and seeing him sends a thousand ripples through my heart. In my 28 years of life, I have met two very literary boys. One was a high school classmate, as I mentioned earlier, and the other went back to elementary school. In elementary school, while I was still reading fairy tales with great interest, he had a thick copy of the Complete Works of Shakespeare to accompany him to sleep in the middle of the night. In my case, for their love of this kind of literati only seek to meet not to have, I will let the time to condense in that moment into my heart room.

Every time I see the news about someone's suicide scene, I will somehow remember a language teacher once gave us the admonition: reality is very cruel, but remember that it is better to die than to live. I admire those who have the courage to end their lives. Do they think it is better to die than to have their hearts broken? Death is the worst form of escape because the body is the vehicle, do you think that destroying the body is an eternal undoing of what has passed! When your soul realizes that a broken heart is not despair but only a budding one, and that it can blossom out of the darkness by taking a moment to remember the beauty that was lost, there is no going back to the world of attachment. I admit, every moment of life is not beautiful all want to let people to remember, but some painful past can inspire us to move forward. And those who never want to make the memory fragments let it draw a picture, compose a song or write a poignant paragraph, always let it in the dust to explore the head of the grass to accompany the flower of life.

The first time I read this article, I was very happy with it. Paradise

We are all afraid of being single, right? It's always the loneliness that lingers.

Gingu's book speaks to the joyful sadness of singles.

Each story, are very heartfelt, very grounded, are like once their own experience around you and me.

Those who have loved, cried and made trouble are the skeletal organization of our lives, and they make us strong.

Isn't it?

I think it's a good idea to look at Gingu's book and cry, but I think it's because it speaks to the heart.

Think of that year's so-and-so, think of yourself back then.

Once everything is vivid in my mind, so once I was so brave and strong, also so ignorant and absurd.

This is the youth, this is the life that should have.

Everyone has been, and there are times when the heart is broken, but after the good, really, after the good, can only make us stronger.

Being single has its benefits.

Recommend this book and you'll see yourself as you once were.

"No one will despair because of a broken heart" (3): Even if life gives us a big blow, we should face it positively

This book reminds me of Lian Yue's sentence "Life is a heartbreaking compromise". The first story, "No One Dies of a Broken Heart," has the same feeling. A down-on-his-luck man makes a living as a stand-up comedian in a nightclub, and his poor performance doesn't make the audience laugh; his wife and daughter are nowhere to be found. His wife and daughter are nowhere to be found. His life is heartbreaking, his work is heartbreaking, but he doesn't despair, and encourages the "I" who is a stranger to him.

For the author Gingu, before this, do not know, can be said to know nothing. Therefore, his style of writing, can only be a little known from this collection of novels.

This is a collection of 22 stories, some sad, some fantasy, some warm, some ...... but can not get rid of a word "literary". The "I" in the stories is either an author or a white-collar worker. Compared to the last collection I read, I Know Someone Is Waiting for Me Somewhere, it's a completely different style. I know someone is waiting for me somewhere" is much closer to life, while "No one will despair because of heartbreak" is a lot more like a kind of life that urban men and women are pursuing, but this kind of life, once it becomes the reality of what they have, will again give people a feeling of exhaustion.

What's remarkable is that although the stories in this collection are of different types, they all have a positive ending, even the loser of the love triangle "Dance of the Three" is able to encourage his love interest to be brave enough to fight against his illness when he is terminally ill. This is the kind of positive energy that a writer should pass on to his readers, as I once said, "Be a positive person, no matter how many bad things you experience, you still have to believe in the good and choose the good. That's the only way to experience the good and have the good."

Oh yes, the Internet said that this style of writing is called "healing", I think, should be the city of men and women in the work, life, emotional frustration after the hope of accepting the positive energy of the text it. That's why this book has such a high rating on Douban. But, sorry, this is not my favorite text, exactly, should not be now at this age I like the style of writing, perhaps in a younger time to meet it, I will also give a high score.

What makes me feel good about this book is that it opens with a table of contents, no preface, no recommendations, no postscript for the content, through the table of contents is already clear, without the need to bear those emotions of the author's creation. This is now many books can not do.

This book is suitable for people who are currently in a period of low life to see, because they need such words to encourage, need to be told that the fictional world, no one will be because of the heartbreak and despair; real life, even if life gives us a big blow, we should be positive to face, as long as the face of the life has been the strongest.

"No one will despair because of a broken heart" read (4): some people are heartbroken but not desperate

Some people are heartbroken but not desperate

"No one will despair because of a broken heart" This is a very sensible book, but also very inspirational and good book. It is the heartfelt work of Gingu, the super popular author of Douban.

"No one will despair because of a broken heart" book a **** 22 masterpieces, with Yin Gu's unique delicate and gentle writing style, you and I around or touched or precious memories engraved on paper, so that people embrace the love between the words, to obtain the warmth, get touched. Those he has a story he has wine life, the end is no match for his lover to accompany him to walk the tenderness, you have to believe that there is always a person, waiting for you in the distance, and you read all the spring flowers and summer rain, taste the autumn sun and winter tea. This is dedicated to your literary life encyclopedia, accompany you into the warm time! Every sentence, every person, every moment that Gingko shares with you has your shadow. Turning this book over, you turn over your past, present and future.

In this world, there is always loneliness, confusion, unwillingness, regret, hurt, tears, sorrow; there are always those spring warm sun, summer flowers, autumn leaves and winter silver. What you have experienced, what you miss, what you want, what you have forgotten, here, you can find. Senior warm-hearted Yin Gu, with his delicate pen, writes a warm song for you; all those beauty, sweetness and pain are in this story, in every moment that touches you. Those he has a story he has wine life, the end is no match for the tenderness of his lover to walk with him, you have to believe that there is always someone, waiting for you in the distance, and you read all the spring flowers and summer rain, taste the autumn sun and winter tea.

"No one will despair because of heartbreak" is the first collection of warm healing novels of senior warmer Yin Gu. The book exclusively includes "No one will die of a broken heart", "Paradise for singles", "My bursting and dark youth", "Crazy possessive", "Almost confession success", and other super hot articles, 22 stories, written in all the beauty of life, will be everyone's life, depicted one by one in a delicate brushstroke. There are no pretentious words in the book, no cockamamie incentives, all that is here are heart-warming moments and those beautiful or hazy or glamorous dreams that we have all had. The book is a great opportunity to explore the past and the future of your life.

No One Despairs Because of a Broken Heart(5): Someday I'll Forget You

I don't think I'll ever despair because of a broken heart.

At the time of heartbreak, seeing this book, seeing the story of the characters in this book, is like grabbing a life-saving straw.

Before that, I think I hated you, hated a person to leave.

After reading this, I think, I'm dealing with my emotions and I think I'll be better soon.

I'm not going to despair, and you're a good person.

It's probably fate.

And thank you for taking me on that journey through life.

I'm lucky to be able to read Gingu's story in this moment, with his delicate and soft characters, and I'm lucky to be able to have someone to give me a hand in every heartbreaking moment of my life.

I hope this book reaches more people, and more people are able to give themselves a reminder of the important moments in their lives.

So go for it, teenager, you deserve the best in life.

No One Despairs Because of a Broken Heart (6): The best life is nothing but the best life by you and by me

After reading Ginga's book, I feel that the life I am living at the moment is the best life I can live.

Once so many stories, which have you, thank you for being by my side.

Many of the stories inside the book remind people of those beautiful once.

Those years, those people, fortunately, there are you around, looking at the fog outside, I think the feeling of having you around, as, a lazy afternoon, lying next to the fireplace, drinking coffee, looking at the book. Warm.

I have also experienced heartbreak, sadness and acidity, but also into the heartbroken, fortunately, those have been in the past.

I think life is like this, everything will end, everything will start. The good ones will, the bad ones will. This is life.

It's like touching a card

The card in your hand is good enough, but you have to touch the next card, and you panic, always afraid of touching a bad card;

The card in your hand isn't good enough, and you're tempted to hurry up and touch the next card, and you get nervous and excited, wanting to touch the one that can take a turn;

That's what life is like.

Gingu's books are not pretentious, they are not contrived, they are all very straightforward about those characters, those emotions.

The best life is nothing but having you and me

"No one will despair because of a broken heart" read (7): a private paradise created by a perfectionist

At the end of 2014, my work entered a new stage, or a new bottleneck. I started looking at various types of texts and then trying to determine with a commercial eye whether they could be printed on paper and subsequently placed in bookstores for readers to take away. The process was agonizing. In order not to let the work become so boring, I tried to find a balance between business and fun, and it was at that time that I was lucky enough to come across an article by Gingu, which is similar to the title of the current book, "No One Dies of a Broken Heart".

"Unexpectedly, the moment the door opened, there was still no sign of his daughter. Just a clear vision of me in the dim light, buried in a room with moldy walls on all sides, writing and creating self-healing dreams."

After reading this last paragraph, I was almost blown away. So read more of his writing, and then became quite convinced that this was the kind of writing I (and presumably many editors) were looking for. The first thing I did was to send out an appointment email, and I quickly received a reply from Silverdale, which had unexpectedly already been signed away by another company. But it's also so one way or another, made friends with Gingu, is a blessing in 2015.

So as the year progressed, I looked forward to the book, as did many readers. Finally, near the end of the year, I received a new book from Gingu himself, with warm words written on the title page, making the whole book as warm as a steaming hot meat loaf in a late-winter morning market, with endless warmth.

When I get a book, I always look at the binding, the copyright page, and the front and back slugs before I look at the text. All the editors in the office agreed that the cover of this book is very well done, not only the color is bright and vivid, but also the back of the cover, so that many people automatically brought into the dashing forward Ginga himself - choose to be single for life, and then married 100 times in the book and the movie.

It took me a long time to get through this book, and although many of the pieces in it had already been read, I still deadpanned through it word by word. Ginga's diction is very well-crafted, and much of the main character's dialog has words and tones that are less likely to be found in real life, a contrast that carries a personal aesthetic of a small stage play.

"'Yes, there are so few things in life like this that can save us.'"

"Because those good times that used to happen can hang you up for these years first and not let you fall too far."

These two quotes from Sleepless in the Night of the Elopement were marked down for me. It's an absurd yet very funny story, funny enough to make you want to believe that the bizarre things in the text actually happened. It also explains the meaning of the writing that Gingu wanted to illustrate with his words (of course, this is a personal understanding): to counteract the vast tedium and dullness of life, day after day.

All people live in the same world, so what one person has in the way of bitterness, irritation, and boredom, another person will have more or less in the same way, and it's up to everyone to find the right outlet and do something that makes them feel interesting. Gingko builds a near-perfect world - a world that is beautiful, with alien meow, a big boy who protects girls through dark tunnels, and a foodie girlfriend who helps you overcome your fears; but a world that is also dangerous, where there may be a watcher across the residential building who is always observing your behavior; and where a grieving lover who is suffering from an illness may simmer Not to begonias bloom season, your crush on the girl may be completely different from what you imagined, and then the sturdy movie theater may one day collapse ...... compared to real life every day crowded subway, breathless cubicle, do not finish the PPT, that rich world is what we want, is not it?

Yingu's posture in constructing this world can be described as cool - the best masons don't tell people about their architectural ideas frequently, but directly take the bricks on the tiles and start work immediately. So there is no preface or postscript to this book, the first page of the opening begins to tell the story, the story is finished, and also to the last page, without superfluous explanation of their creative ideas, as the story says: "A story is the living evidence of an idea, complete the conversion of thought to action ...... and never employ any explanatory words."

The good thing is that the whole book is neatly categorized in chapters, dream, beauty, wonder, and warmth are like the four neighborhoods of the world, accommodating four types of stories, of which "no one will die of a broken heart", "that little thing on the way home", "elopement sleepless night" are three of my personal favorites.

There are a lot of people who write words, but not many creators who can take the trouble to construct a whole world, because the work requires a great deal of patience and talent. Rarely does Gingu do it well, and hopefully this paradise he created will grow stronger and more complete down the road. After all, we, as readers, share the same ****ing desire as he does-

"If a butterfly can cause a hurricane in the rainforest, and if a strawberry can save a dreary rainy day, then this adventure we're dedicating our hearts to might actually smash the world into pieces and turn the world into a rigid one. The rigid world, over the present, folding the future, in the cracks of time to capture the sweet reflection of the dream appeared a million times, and in this way to make our own hands belong to the paradise."

"No one will despair because of a broken heart" read (8): the magic box full of stories

The name at first glance, thought it was a soul-soothing books, read the introduction, and thought it was a variety of urban silly white sweet warm stories, read the content, only to realize that warmth, self-healing is not all what I thought of the silly white sweet. Gingu's story has a kind of indescribable magic, maybe like his opening story about the Pandora's Box full of absurd stories, maybe like a magic hand, in short, can let you read one by one, can't stop. Those stories are like a unique elf, even if you read the beginning, you often can't guess the end, that will not be finished is the real end, or is it a respite in life?

The twenty-two warm stories mentioned above have very different temperaments and shades. Some of the stories are flooded with big bubbles of dreamy pink, happily flaunting the portrayal of a love affair, such as "Like a Man", where Hao Hao and Hui Hui's fairytale love is bland and warm, rescuing the heart that is gradually falling into the mundane. Can the conventional standards of looks, height, personality, family, ability, and ...... really guarantee the happiness of the two people who hold hands? Such as Hao Hao and Hui Hui like diametrically opposed people, complement each other can be surprisingly compatible, the end of their story, Gingko wrote "put a person forever in the heart in the end what kind of feeling?" It's probably like blossoming flowers on a spring day, hugging on a snowy night, covering your ears at the sound of thunder, and kissing lightly when you're asleep. Love is always magical, so it's better to look at love first when looking at standards.

There are stories that are less warmly stylized, like defeated cities that blossom out of the darkness between the stones. My Bursting and Dark Youth is one such story, where family factors have left a teenager displaced, but fortunately not indulged. The teenager meets Uncle Toothpick at the movie theater, and the two lonely, forgotten souls draw a little warmth together. The teenager brings some joy to Uncle Toothpick to make up for the loneliness of his lost son, and Uncle Toothpick gives the teenager a place to stay, and a meager, yet sincere, amount of love and care. The teenager has a bright future and life of his own, and Uncle Toothpick ends his life. The girl that the teenager fell in love with and the toothpick uncle who lost the movie theater are the same, no support, a fall to defeat, a choice to take the initiative to end. The people rely on the survival, not the fresh food and gorgeous clothes, the demand is just a little warmth or dependence, even a little, can support the humble life.

Some stories have a strong style of magical realism, like the "crazy possessive"; some stories are as light as a splash of green in early spring, and want to winter a lifetime of sighs, that is, "Let's miss"; some stories are overflowing with the aroma of freshly baked desserts, filling the entire heart and stomach, "Eat the Great War" is simply sweet from beginning to end, the right people, the right food, the right love, to see the end of the The feeling is similar to just eating a piece of tiramisu; some stories are like fine ice cubes, rambling conversations to the end, so that all the dryness and heat return to calm, such as "How a man breaks up with another man", memory is like a mischievous child, hiding the beauty and touching, magnifying the shortcomings and troubles, friendship and love encountered a snag, it may be worthwhile to communicate with each other openly and honestly, and together they escaped from the memory of the mischievousness.

This is a colorful book, a thousand flavors, by the individual to chew out a different state of mind, to make up for the cracks or holes in the heart, fully deserve the title of the story of the magic box, the only shortcoming is that the story is too little, has not been addicted to see, really look forward to the next magic box open.

"No one will despair because of a broken heart" read (9): stand up to be a top person

son's monthly exam is not very satisfactory, I asked why I always feel that there is not enough time? My son said that now just learn the knowledge to understand, but the test will have to test the previous knowledge, and the previous knowledge has long been forgotten almost, my son is a little frustrated. I also looked at the child's examination paper, now the question paper is simply perverted, out of the question is not only esoteric, and the expansion of a very wide, which requires students to have a large amount of knowledge to do reserves, but read a decade of children are already a little exhausted, and now have to continue to increase the amount of information, naturally, some children will make some of the children lose confidence. I said to the children, in fact, everyone's pressure is very great, I give the children an example, you are in elementary school is not also feel the pressure of learning, but in junior high school will feel that the knowledge learned in elementary school is too simple, high school will feel that the knowledge learned in junior high school is too simple, and so on and so on, until after the work, will feel that the knowledge learned in the past is actually the basis of the large classroom of the community is the most test of human intelligence. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get the best out of it.

Silver Valley's "No one will despair because of heartbreak" is also a chicken soup book. First gossip about the author Gingu, he chose to be single all his life, married 100 times in books and movies, which makes me a little bit impressed with this 1.8 meters big boy, and then read his articles, I think he should be a thoughtful boy, because he writes stories are very delicate, not a little rough lines. Call this book a collection of novels or a collection of stories, but in short, Gingu tells us 22 heartwarming stories. In fact, earlier I have some prejudice against children nowadays, I always think that children nowadays are not sunny enough, and even lonely in their inner world, some children have poor self-reliance and self-care ability, and become mentally retarded once they leave their parents. But the reality is not so, most of the children are very opinionated, and the ability to do things far beyond the imagination of adults, which makes people wonder, why in front of their parents they seem so weak, and out of the parents' line of sight they are so strong, is it possible that they have a strong psychological self-healing ability, but I clearly see that a lot of children because of a little bit of small things on the light, and it is because of this, so that the adults will be It is because of this that adults are facing their only child in fear. In fact, as an adult, I wish that children could realize that no one can despair because of a broken heart, and that there will be a way through, and that there will be a way through.

I think people who can write stories must have a lot of experience. I think Gingko should be a person with rich experience, and he is also very good at thinking and even summarizing, and only this kind of person will continue to write stories with content. Of course, these stories may not all be his own personal experience, or what he saw, or what he heard, or what he thought of, in any case, a certain point touches him, he will be able to write a touching story. To take another simple example, if you have been in the hospital for a long time, you will certainly hear a lot of stories about life and death, and after your processing, you will naturally write a lot of stories about life. In fact, it is not easy for people to live in the world, when you study you feel the pressure, after work you feel the pressure, even after retirement you will still be under pressure, everyone comes to this world is just a few decades, but most of the time is spent under great pressure, everyone is so, in that case, why should we despair because of heartbreak.

The reality is that some people are pessimistic because their careers are not as good as they would like to be, some people are disillusioned because of their love affairs, and others are suffering because of the loss of a loved one, and every family has a hard time reading the scriptures. If you want to face your life with a smile, you have to choose to be strong. Life is not as good as nine out of ten, but many people can live in style, that is because they dare to face the miserable life, dare to hit their own misfortune, such as the CCTV "Challenging the Impossible" that the feet of the uncle without feet, when he was young, because of impulsive to give his sleeping bag to someone else, which led to his feet in the night about to climb Mount Everest was frozen off. However, forty years later, when those who climbed Mount Everest were in peaceful old age, he was actively training with a strong will, and he wanted to climb Mount Everest again. Looking back he should also have had his heart broken, but he did not despair, but was strong enough to face it, which is why he stood up again, and stood up he was a top man!

"No one will despair because of a broken heart" read (10): I will eventually meet you

It turns out that a mute in the meet a let him heart of the person, those hidden for many years of enthusiasm, those waiting for the momentum of the romantic will be a volcano like a volcanic eruption of all at once out of the whole. It turns out that his usual low-profile, just do not want to let unrelated strangers unauthorized peep into his deep love.

- It is so-called, in love, there is no man with low emotional intelligence.

This summary, not my original, but around the sisters and those emotional experts summarized, when you feel that the man enthusiasm is not enough to have a problem, be sure to believe in your own sixth sense, things are like this,. Even if you want a banana he gave you a car full of pears, he may not give what you want, but it is in the give in the shed is not it?

A lot of stories in the book are related to love, adult, love is a very important aspect of our lives, but, after the adult we, whether it is ourselves or we will meet each other, are not so simple, no one will die because of a broken heart, no one will be in love and go all out, so not in love so much hurt, but also so the tear point is more and more high, so as the book said, "I don't know what to do, I don't know what to do. So as the book says, to grow up is to meet again sad things will not cry, but to meet a small good thing will be full of gratitude.

Of course, we still need to believe in love, believe that we may still meet love, do not believe that we may never meet. The book says, probably all the most unique love in the world is a chance encounter between a psychopath and a psychopath who see eye to eye. In the book, there is a boy named A Lei who can't fall in love and has been single for five years, addicted to a habitual over-protection of himself and his obtuseness to the love that is just out of his reach. However, after meeting that simple, rough and funny girl, such a seemingly obtuse person still explodes with the initial motivation of a man, a special love, which simply and roughly overturns his inherent rigid life and injects infinite vitality into it.

The final chapter of the book, perhaps in keeping with the title, the author abandons the brainstorming that preceded it, and gives up what he says about choosing to be single for the rest of his life, and turns around and literally marries 100 times in the book and the movie, with happy endings in every chapter, and just as the title says, no one will ever be in despair because of a broken heart.

There are many kinds of people in the world, there are many kinds of life, there is a tragedy there will certainly be comedy, maybe just a blind date when a very wonderful conversation, two neurotics met. Maybe it really only needs to turn a corner in life, true love just appeared. When that person appears, I believe you must be aware of it.

So, because there is no despair in the previous heartbreak, we still believe in love, so, one day, we will meet the amount.