First, learn from mistakes and reflect on the past.
Relatives look down on you, there must be a reason, perhaps because of poor family conditions, perhaps because the work is not done well. Therefore, we should reflect.
Second, straighten your mind and face the reality.
There are rich and poor at any time in the world, so don't care too much. More than enough. Poverty is not terrible, just because you have no ambition, afraid that you will look down on yourself. If we want to change the status quo, we must work hard, so as to reverse the face of poverty.
Third, look at it rationally and think about the future.
Because you are poor, your relatives and friends look down on you. That's what they think of you. This is a sign of snobbery. Don't make friends with such relatives and friends. Poverty does not take root, and wealth does not help generations. You know, poverty is only temporary, and only through hard work can we change the status quo and have a better future.
Fourth, work hard and earn money to support the family.
A man must be ambitious and not afraid of poverty. The key is to work hard and be diligent. Even the poor like to help you, because they dare not borrow money when they see hope, because you are responsible. It's not that others look down on you, but that you don't work hard enough.
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Matters needing attention in hard work:
1, a sense of crisis every day.
After entering the society, as young people, we should keep a sense of crisis every day, because only by constantly telling ourselves can we keep working hard.
2. Have a wolf attitude.
In such a competitive world, only by making yourself "tough" can you make progress faster than your peers.
3. Give full play to your advantages.
There are no perfect people in this world. You must find your own advantages, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and fully expand your own advantages, so that you can go further.