1. Understand that even if you fall, you will still choose to stand up, if you fail, you will still choose to start over, and if you are injured, you will still choose to be strong; understand that even if you are hurt, you will still choose to be tolerant, and if you are misunderstood, you will still choose to be tolerant. You will choose to forgive, and you will still choose to understand when you are hated; understand that you will still not lose your way in the dark, you will still not lose your bearings at the moment of life and death, and you will still smile and move forward when surrounded by disasters.
2. Only through experience can you understand life, and only by understanding can you cherish it. There will always be someone in your life who makes you laugh the sweetest, and there will always be someone who makes you feel the deepest pain. Forgetting everything is the best way to be kind to yourself. Many things are better to be taken lightly. The process of life is nothing but losses and gains. If you take it lightly, it will be easier. After everything is taken lightly, I don’t know what I should value? No one is a saint, who can Can you make no mistakes and look down on everything? Everything will be fleeting. If you really can't forget it, just treasure it silently in the deepest part of your heart, hiding it where the smoke and dust of the years can't reach?
3. Yesterday The beauty will eventually be condensed into today's memories. No matter how helpless we are, we can't stop the hurried pace of time; no matter how wonderful today is, it will be pieced together into tomorrow's history. No matter how persistent we are, we can't refuse the traces of the erosion of time. We miss yesterday because it melts all the beautiful yearnings. However, the past has been fixed, so let’s dust it off. Only by working hard to write today can the memories of tomorrow be beautiful and regretless.
4. Life is not bitter at first, but it is suffering from too much desire; the soul is not tired at all, but it is tired from grabbing too much. Life is a road, a landscape that changes one step at a time. God will not favor anyone. Only if you have the courage to give up will you have a chance to get it. A gorgeous fall is better than meaningless wandering; even if you are completely defeated, you will be treated as catching up with another feast of fate.
5. Life is a station, you come in and go out; yesterday is a scenery, you see it, it becomes blurred; time is a passerby, you remember it, you forget it; life is a funnel, you get it , lost; friendship is a banquet, hot or cold; confusion is an attitude, indulged or restrained; life is a kind of calmness, cried and laughed; but the heart is a glass, Throw away your worries, and you will be filled with happiness!
6. Be sincerely grateful to the person who has been waiting for you all your life, because he is the harbor of your life; smile to the person you once hated, because he made you happy. You are stronger; sincerely thank the person you once loved, because he made you understand love; thank the person who betrayed you, without him, you would not understand the world; and sincerely wish him the best to the person you once secretly liked. Happiness, because when you like him, you also want him to be happy; for a trustworthy person, you should get along well with him. You will never meet a few sincere friends or true confidants in your life.
7. Men don’t like to be controlled emotionally by women, especially by scheming women. This not only loses self-esteem, but also distorts the soul. They need peaceful heart-to-heart communication. Emotions are neither high nor low, nor do they need to be controlled or mastered. Emotions flow naturally and freely. Deliberate control and pursuit will not lead to true feelings and true meaning. Sincere emotions in this world require tacit understanding of the soul, and even natural spiritual communication.
8. Things in the world are both complex and simple. If you are simple, the world will be simple. To live a free and brilliant life, you have to endure pain. Everything has two sides or many sides. Sometimes it is hard to tell what is right and what is wrong. What you like may be what others hate and despise. The world and nature do not develop or destroy according to your own wishes. Only after forty did I understand: the happiness index depends entirely on the mentality.
Years of eating delicacies and feasting together may not necessarily bring peace of mind. Between coping and hypocrisy, what may eventually result is an increasingly empty soul. Complacency and despair are both tragedies of life, which are far inferior to being as plain as water and wanton and carefree.
9. The past can only become the past. It may affect the future but cannot control it. I can't keep my youth, but I can keep a young heart; I can't keep my relatives who are leaving, but I can keep every bit of her love for me; I can't keep time, but I can keep it. Every moment of happy memories; I can’t keep people who don’t love me, but I can keep people who cherish and understand me. People cannot stay in the past forever. The past cannot represent a person's life. Yesterday is today's past, and today will become tomorrow's past. So what I can do is to grasp every moment of the present and make as few mistakes as possible. , when you know you made a mistake, try your best to avoid the mistake from happening again. The most terrifying thing about people is not making mistakes, but continuing to make mistakes even though they know they are wrong. Some people don’t even know where they went wrong throughout their lives.
10. A hundred years of life are just a snap of the fingers. The ebb and flow of the tide is a day, the flowers bloom and fade is a season, the full moon is a year, life is enlightened while moving forward, and years are born through accumulation. fragrant. After tasting the richness of colors, you will feel fresh and pleasant; after seeing the prosperity of the world, you will feel that plainness is the most true. A quiet room can also cultivate the mind; a cup of tea can also bring tranquility and fragrance; a roll in hand can make you feel at ease. There is a sense of poetry in the fleeting years, smelling the freshness of the sun, hearing the lingering drizzle, watching the vicissitudes of life with the free and easy smile of the wind; passing by with the elegance and lightness of the clouds; sitting in the sunshine with the attitude of a flower, expressing life with indifference, and using Peaceful and lush time, let the days rise in the materials, rice, oil and salt; let life be poetic in the simple meals, through the time between your fingers, watch the passing fireworks indifferently, savor the quietness of the years, the scenery in your heart is the landscape that will never change in life. .