This kind of book that tells you how to succeed is actually the so-called success theory and poisoned chicken soup. First of all, there is no unified standard for the development of life, and what is success and what is failure has different interpretations and standards for everyone. Secondly, everyone's path is different, and the problems they face will be different, such as environment, people, social system and so on, so a person who has not walked your path can't help you.
Carnegie's "Success Theory"
Didn't Han Han say, "After listening to a lot of sermons, I still can't live my own life". This is the greatest irony of the so-called inspirational book and successful learning. Everyone knows the truth and it is nothing more than hard work. But the actual situation is much more complicated, which is related to many factors such as luck and fate. It's hard to say how a successful path taken by others will help you.
Success opened the arc de Triomphe for the winners, but it didn't even leave a casket for the losers. This has greatly expanded people's self-confidence and simplified the way to success. People began to yearn for success, and even the concept of success has been distorted. People gradually lost their diversified values, and success has gradually become a digital game. Money, power, fame, status and material needs have become the only concepts that people flaunt for success, and people have become dissatisfied and unhappy because of excessive pursuit of success. Successful slaves have fallen on the road to success.
Common success books on the market
People's personality, talent and genes are high and low, and people's origins, living environment and family conditions are also good and bad. Yao Ming's parents are both basketball players. When he was still in his mother's belly, he was probably doomed to have an indissoluble bond with basketball in the future. Of course, Yao Ming now has children, and this basketball family will continue. It is said that Yao Ming's daughter grew to 1.2 meters at the age of 8, even without Yao Ming's position and influence in the basketball world, but,
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Therefore, I think that the development of life still needs to hit a nail, take a detour, and then find a way that you can make sense. It is impossible for you not to hit the south wall just because you read a book.