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Among the boys I interact with, many of them can talk and chat endlessly, but only when they see the girl they like, their minds go blank. , I don’t know what topic to talk about. In fact, in the initial stage of getting to know girls, there are still many rules to follow when chatting about topics. I will teach you these rules below.

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First of all, before chatting with girls, we must first understand some basic principles of WeChat chat. This will allow you to better communicate with girls. The first point is about the way of chatting. Do not use continuous questioning style, which is what we often call household registration checking (when chatting, avoid household registration checking).

If this is the case, it will be difficult to continue the chat, the atmosphere of the chat will also be dull, and girls will slowly Ignore you.

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The second point is to learn to take the initiative to start chat topics. Don’t expect girls to always cause the topic, so your words and my words are not a good communication. You must learn to initiative.

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The third point is to learn to be simple and don’t use complicated methods to get girls to talk. Some people like to talk a lot to girls on WeChat and start many topics at once. , this will make the girl uncomfortable, and it will be difficult for her to answer, so it is also very important to keep the chat simple.

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Now that we know the most basic chatting methods, I will teach you which topics are better to chat with girls on WeChat (choose appropriate topics during chatting) ), the chat topics are divided into stages. The topics you talk about when you first get acquainted are different from the topics you talk about after you get acquainted. The topics also need to be advanced and upgraded, so that you will become more and more familiar with each other, so I will do it first. Introducing the topics that are suitable to talk about when we first met

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Third-party topics are very easy for girls to open up the conversation in the early stage. So what? Is it a third-party topic? They are topics that have nothing to do with you or her, such as what movies have been released recently, the weather, celebrity scandals, concerts, etc. These are all third-party topics, such as:

Boy: Watched recently A great movie, XXX is well acted?

Girl: What movie is it?

Boy: It’s XXX, have you heard of it?

Girl : Well, I know, I’ve been talking about going to see it with my best friend, how about it

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Boy: It’s the beginning of autumn today and I feel like the hot summer is finally over

Boy: I like to drive on a self-driving trip in autumn and bring a bunch of snacks?

Girl: It sounds interesting to me, too. Like to go out and play~ ?

Boy: Where have you been to play around?

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A conversation like this is very suitable for you to communicate in the early stage. Girls are very It’s easy to pick up, and you can also use third-party topics to lead to more topics.

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Talking about hobbies is a topic that can quickly expand your communication and familiarity in the early stage (increasing familiarity by talking about hobbies), such as You can ask the other person what they usually like to do, such as whether they like cooking or traveling. This is a good chat topic. Everyone has their own interests and hobbies, and basically most people's interests and hobbies are relatively broad. You don't have to worry about your interests and hobbies having no intersection with the other person's, resulting in a cold match. So how do you start your interest? As for the topic of hobbies, it can be as simple as "What do you usually like to do":

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Boys: What do you usually like to do?

Girl: I like to go to shopping malls, watch movies and travel with my best friends! ?

Boy: It seems to be the same channel ~

Girl: Really, what do you like to do? ?

Boy: I like traveling and food the most. I have always wanted to go to Japan recently.

Girl: I have been to Japan~ Foodie Kingdom

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After the girl answers, you can choose to continue the topic or talk about yourself. For example, after the girl talks about her hobbies, you can talk about what she usually likes to do. I believe you will get to know each other better when talking about your hobbies. other side.

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There was a poll for women: But 63.4% of women said they like to chat with men about horoscopes (most girls are interested in horoscopes) topic of interest), so astrology is a very good topic for girls.

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Although horoscopes and fortune telling are not very accurate, they can indeed bring guidance to people. Instead of treating horoscopes as "superstition", it is better to regard zodiac signs as "entertainment" and as an interesting, safe, never-ending topic that everyone can talk about in the relationship between men and women. I suggest that you first spend an hour reading the introduction of the 12 zodiac signs, find out what zodiac sign you are, and then observe other zodiac signs. When chatting with girls, you can start talking about zodiac signs.

Boy: I think your profile should be Scorpio?

Girl: Yes, what about you? ?

Boy: Our zodiac sign is relatively compatible. Can you guess?

Girl: Pisces? ?

Boy: You guessed it right in one guess?

Boy: I know Scorpio better?

Boy: Scorpio girls are kinder and more motivated. , I usually don’t lose my temper, but when I lose my temper, it’s a big deal?

Girl: You’re right, I don’t usually lose my temper. . .

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Talking about food with girls is definitely a good topic. Nowadays, few girls can resist the temptation of food. . Talking about food with a girl is not only a good topic to talk about, but also a way to pave the way for the next date (talking about food can create opportunities for invitations). If you look through a few girls' Moments, you will find that food is definitely the highlight.

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Boy: (food picture) ?

Girl: Wow, it looks delicious?

Girl: Hate it. You sent me this in the middle of the night?

Boy: Hahaha, I just came back from eating with my friends. It tastes great! ?

Boy: Do you like spicy food like this? ?

Girl: I like spicy food very much (sexy) ?

Boy: You are obviously a girl from Nanjing, okay, so your love for spicy food has suddenly changed? ?

Girls: I just love to eat, and hot pot is my favorite

WeChat chat can start with food topics, ask girls what they like to eat, talk about Cantonese food, and Talk about nearby restaurants, what are they special about, and whether they have any discounts or other activities. If girls like spicy food, then Sichuan cuisine and Hunan cuisine are topics you can talk about. Japanese and Western food are also what most girls like, so starting the topic from food is also a very good choice.

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It is human nature to like to travel, especially girls. It seems that everything in life can be related to travel. For example, when you are in a good mood, go out to play. When you are in a bad mood, go out and relax. Only when you are traveling can you feel the thousands of new and changing things in the world and inspire new inspiration. Therefore, it is definitely a good topic to talk about travel with girls in the early stage of WeChat chat (talking about travel can interact well with girls). For example, you can first look through the girl’s circle of friends to see where she has been. There is one After a basic understanding, start the topic of travel:

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Boy: I see you have been to Urumqi?

Girl: Yes

Boy : The pig's trotters on the eighth floor are pretty good (bad smile)?

Girl: Hahaha, have you been there too?

Boy: I came here to eat haha?

Boy: I found that we all like to eat the same thing (laughing)

Then each of us will share which city is the best? Fun food and some particularly romantic places can open up your conversation, and preparing some travel photos to send to each other can also make girls feel that you are a person who loves life and is willing to share.

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When you don’t know what topic to talk to a girl, you are actually a good topic (learn to find topics from yourself), because you are a person who can relate to the topic. A wide range of topics, such as your usual hobbies, interesting things about your family, including your work, childhood stories, your friends at school, your favorite song, etc. The key point is that you must dare to talk about yourself. Some boys are It’s not good if you don’t dare to talk about yourself. Learning to find topics from yourself will make you more confident, and it can also generate a steady stream of topics.

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Boy: I find that I am less and less like a Pisces?

Girl: Why do you say that?

Boy : Pisces are more romantic, a little introverted, and love to fantasize?

Girl: What has become now?

Boy: I feel like I talk a lot now. I used to fantasize.

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Everyone likes to talk about themselves, whether they are boys or girls, so we have to Learn to find topics from the other person, but finding topics from the other person is not about checking the household registration. You can start by expressing your feelings, such as hairstyle, clothes, accessories, etc. Remember not to praise the girls for their beauty, but learn to comment on the details (learn to start with the details) Compliment a girl), for example, you can comment on the other person’s profile picture, coolness, exquisite earrings, etc. Girls are very willing to take up such topics, including your feelings for her, for example, you think she is lively and like the girl next door. Little sister, in short, finding topics from the other party is a good choice in the early stage, and it can quickly make you feel familiar.

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Boy: Your dress is quite exquisite, and the bag is the finishing touch?

Girl: It’s okay, just match it casually, I’m telling you Are you embarrassed?

Boy: No matter how you match it, it is so effective. I guess you often read fashion magazines?

Girl: It’s okay. I paid more attention to this before. I think you do too. Are you good at dressing?

Boys: I wear formal clothes more often, and my friends have complained about me (bad smile)

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Many boys think that in WeChat Talking about sexual topics with girls online will make them think it is obscene and may even lead to them being blocked. In fact, this is not the case. I know many girls who are very open and optimistic about sex, and their receptiveness is very high. In fact, it is okay to talk about sexual topics. Directly arouse the girl's sexual awareness, thereby increasing the possibility of having sex with her. When talking about sexual topics, your attitude must be positive (when talking about sexual topics, your attitude must be positive) and think that sex is normal. If you can't let go, girls will also find it unnatural.

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Boy: I think you are a bit plump in your photos?

Girl: It’s okay, I’m still more fleshy?

Boys: Girls are better with a bit of meat, and love is more sensitive (shy)?

Girls: Do you like girls with meat (shy)?

Boys: Of course , you are fine like this

Before starting the topic of sex, I suggest that you start from two aspects. One is to send some fun and erotic expressions, such as a little penis holding up a V-shaped finger. It's a good example. You can watch the girls' reactions later. Some girls who are more receptive may respond to you with a similar expression. In this way, you can naturally raise the topic of sex. Another way is to share your views and attitudes about sex, just like the case just now, introduce sexual topics from photos in your circle of friends, but don’t talk about sexual topics in the early stages (don’t talk about sexual topics with girls in the early stages of chatting). When you have sex with girls There must be a sense of familiarity.

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Emotional status is also a good topic. If you want to become more familiar with girls and bring your relationship closer, You can talk about your respective emotional states, but directly asking you how many times you have been in love will make the other party uncomfortable. It is better to start with how long your longest relationship was. Some girls may say 1 year or half a year, etc. , you can continue this topic of starting a relationship and talk about each other and yourself. I believe that you can understand each other better by talking about feelings.

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Boy: I feel like you have a lot of love experience?

Girl: No, only two relationships?

Boy: Which one impressed you the most? ?

Girl: The second one, when we talked about the first one, I was still young and didn’t understand anything. ?

Boy: The second one is your classmate? ?

Girl: Yes, but we are not in the same department and we met at an event

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In addition to the topics I introduced above, you can also contact the girl through her friends Select the topic through the girl’s circle of friends (select the topic through the girl’s circle of friends) and see which photos in her circle of friends are more common. This is also a good starting point.

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Understand her hobbies: Everyone has more or less hobbies. There are often clues in the circle of friends. For example, the girl you like has been to many places. If you travel to places, it means that maybe she likes traveling. If the girl you like shares a lot of chicken soup for the soul, then it means that she should like reading.

What do you do on weekends: When looking at Moments, pay attention to the photos you look at and the corresponding periods. Find out where the girls you like go on weekends and what they like to do, so that you can When you ask her out, don’t worry about where to take her, just follow her usual route.

Is there any relationship history: Sometimes there are interactions with others in the circle of friends, not only with friends, but also with (former) lovers. We can know her in these dynamics What kind of boys do you like, the time of your last relationship, and the reason for the termination.

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Learn to use clichés: Observing Moments is more about passive understanding. If the girl you like doesn’t like posting on Moments, don’t be too sad. In daily chats, learn to use clichés and ask for more things you want to know.

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