1. When you were growing up, which three people did you admire the most?

(not including parents) What qualities do you admire?

*Brother? Traits: Forward-looking, decisive, thoughtful and meticulous in dealing with others.

*Colleague Mary: Trust, thinking, agility, open-mindedness, and perspective.

*President Shi of Ideal Book Club: wise, generous and calm.

1. What are the characteristics of these three people?

Wise, capable, decisive and calm.

2. How are you similar to these three people?

Calm and generous 3. How are you different from these three people?

Caring, willing to share, happy-go-lucky, and willing to accept new things.

4. Is this the kind of person you expect to be?

Expect and try to follow.

2. What are your favorite magazines, TV shows, online media, etc.?

What do you like about them?

You can see quality and beautiful articles in the magazine "Reader".

"Special Attention" likes the magazine's observations and thoughts on certain things.

The variety show "Longing for Life" likes their state of free life.

What I like most is that after dinner, family and friends sit together and talk freely.

"Sisters Over Flowers" went to various parts of the world to broaden their horizons and experience different folk customs, including visiting the Louvre, blowing the sea breeze in Santorini, and experiencing a hot air balloon overlooking the earth.

"Little Red Book" can learn a lot of food recipes, and you can also see the interesting lives of different people and various decoration styles.

3. What is your favorite book or movie?

Tell me about the 1-3 stories that impressed you the most.

* Jin Yunrong, the author of "Love Makes Growing Up Free of Worry," tells the part in the movie "Black Swan" where a mother with a promising future in painting gave up her career and concentrated on educating her daughter to become the principal dancer of the ballet company. She controlled her daughter in every way.

, causing my daughter to be so anxious that she tore her fingernails and scratched her back.

She cannot close the door when she goes to bed at night because her mother kisses her every day before going to bed.

My daughter wanted to play the leading role in the ballet "Black Swan". The director said that her daughter had the purity and beauty of the White Swan, but she could not perform the unruly and charm of the Black Swan. She locked herself in a room and practiced day and night. At the same time, she

He couldn't help but tear off his nails and scratch his back until it was bloody.

My mother never noticed all this.

On the day of the premiere, her daughter performed the role of "Black Swan" brilliantly. Everyone stood up and applauded her, but unexpectedly she was found dead on the stage.

It was later learned that her daughter stabbed herself in the heart with scissors before going on stage in order to experience the uninhibitedness and charm of Black Swan.

The mother who loved her daughter deeply ended up burying her daughter with her own hands!

* "The Day After Tomorrow" is a disaster movie. It describes a certain area in the United States that was swallowed up by sea water one day. Extremely cold air hit, and a certain place was frozen into a big ice lump.

During this process, the father traveled retrograde in order to find his son, and finally overcame all difficulties and found his son who was trying to survive with his companions. He waited until the helicopter came to rescue and was finally rescued together with his son.

*The Korean film "The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World". The heroine devotes herself to the family, and the whole family is busy with their own affairs. Later, the heroine is diagnosed with terminal cancer, and then arranges things after leaving to relieve the family's worries.

Finally left calmly and quietly.

It was very heart-warming to reminisce about the past with my husband in the last moments.

After he left, he transformed into a tree to accompany his family. They felt that he had never left.

*Why did this story impress you?

The first story shocked me!

What I thought was love turned out to be harm. Everyone is a living person, not a chair.

No one has the right to control other people's lives, even mothers in the name of love!

"The Day After Tomorrow" is about the father's persistence in overcoming all difficulties to rescue his son. In the end, the son was rescued by his own and his father's abilities.

"The Most Beautiful Farewell in the World" is because after the heroine discovered that she had terminal cancer, her family stayed with her to express their love.

The heroine did not stay in bed due to illness and wait to die, or undergo horrific chemotherapy, etc., but lived the remaining days according to her own wishes with the people who loved him.

*How does this story relate to your career?

Unrelated.

But it has something to do with my life. I started learning mind mapping a few years ago, then visual mapping, and then writing and time management.

I started practicing yoga two years ago, joined 007 a year and a half ago to start writing, and became a member of Fan Deng Reading Club a year ago and read more than 100 books.

In the past month, I participated in the "Nonviolent Communication 21-Day Training Camp" to learn NVC in depth.

The original intention of learning is to find ways to change and educate children.

Because my child’s grades in middle school are not good, it is difficult to pass the entrance examination for key high schools.

I once felt that I was the most failed mother, but slowly along the way, I discovered that I have indeed influenced my children. We do yoga with me, make daily plans together, and read and clock in together.

Although he still stumbles sometimes, we can see more and more changes in him.