At five o'clock in the evening, Teacher Yu Jie sent a message in the group to register for Yu Jie's salon tonight.

I have always wanted to participate in Yu Jie’s salon, and I have read about the salon in articles. It is good for teachers to learn and gain from the salon. I want to try it. The last time the People’s Teachers official account called for daily submissions, I mistakenly thought it was a salon and signed up decisively, only to realize that I had made an mistake.

Should I participate or not? I hesitated, but the words "register" could not be sent out. I'm waiting to see if any teacher sends the word "register" first. After waiting for two full minutes, still nothing. With a sudden thought, I sent my "registration". I am still worried in my heart, but people have to try. How can there be so much to be afraid of in this world?

Teacher Yu invited me into the salon group and released the salon process. Taking a class, what would you do if you encountered the following three problems? Choose one of the questions, think about it, analyze it, and think about what you want to do next. It is required to formulate a complete and actionable answer, and be sure not to answer in vain. Roll call in the group at eight o'clock, deadline at nine twenty, and then presentation and discussion in the group.

None of the three questions were easy to answer, so I chose question one that gave me more ideas.

Question 1: On Monday, the second week of school, the girl Xiao Xi walked up to you and said to you: "Teacher, can I talk to you alone?" Very pretty, with average grades, short hair, and neat hair. You admire her very much. You think girls who engage in sports and have good grades are very valuable and must be particularly sunny. The only thing that was a bit confusing about her was that she was wearing sports shorts and a thick jacket on her upper body, which was very confusing in the September sunshine. You thought about it carefully, maybe it's because the air conditioner is on in the classroom and you are afraid of the cold. What you didn't expect was that after walking out of the classroom, Xiao Xi told you very straightforwardly: "Teacher, I am gay. I don't like men, I like women." You were stunned...

It is reasonable to believe that it exists. Xiao Xi's situation is not unique. There are many lesbians or gay men in society, but Xiao Xi already knew that he was gay at this age. Therefore, when I heard what Xiao Xi said, I had to calm down first, believe that this kind of thing is normal, and treat it like a heterosexual. Teachers must respect and understand students, and true respect is believing that she can live her own life well. The future is very long and everything is unknown. You must not judge her casually, set a framework for her life, and think that she has no hope. At the same time, this should never be told to parents. Xiao Xi was able to tell the teacher about this, perhaps because he had the courage. If she is not ready, she must not tell her parents privately. Most of our parents are more traditional. They don't understand such things, which may lead to more dire consequences. Therefore, this matter is best resolved privately.

How to do it?

Listen to what Xiao Xi has to say. How did she find out that she was a lesbian? When did she know that she didn't like boys, only girls? And whether anything significant happened related to this. Xiaoxi is willing to talk to the teacher, and maybe he has a lot to express in his heart. Teachers should not rush to conclusions, speak less and listen more to learn more information.

Show respect and understanding. Just like there are people with three skins in this world, homosexuality is also an integral part of the world. This is normal, and its existence is reasonable. Regardless of your sexual orientation, I believe you can live your life. Teachers should stand on the same front as children. Teachers’ understanding will help students not be alone and have hope in life.

Check the information, learn about homosexuality, and write a letter to the students based on your own understanding. Regarding emotional matters, sometimes we are shy about expressing them verbally, but writing letters can express what we want to say. Teachers not only give students psychological understanding and comfort, but also convey more knowledge about homosexuality to students and broaden their horizons. As a result, students have emotional sustenance and can express their inner distress in the form of letters.

Encourage learning and express expectations. The future is very long, and for Xiao Xi now, everything is still early. At this stage, it is right to read more and study hard. Regardless of her sexual orientation, she needs to study hard and improve herself. Learning is to have more choices in the future and to be able to live the life you want in the future.

Recommend some books suitable for middle school students to Xiao Xi. Encourage Xiao Xi to read more, learn about different lives from books, and understand that life has many possibilities, so as to build confidence in life.

The above are the questions I chose and my thoughts and practices.

After that, I held a vote in the group and another group, and wrote down the answers to the questions that I liked the most. During this process, Teacher Yu has organized everyone's answers into the same document, and everyone must complete the voting before nine-fifty. So, take the time to read what others think and do. During the reading process, I sincerely felt that the teachers were excellent and down-to-earth.

After the voting ended, I actually got two votes, which is incredible! I didn't even expect it, but I was so excited when I saw the vote statistics. It was an unexpected surprise. Teacher Yu Jie praised everyone: “They are all great.

The time is short and the task is difficult, both are good. "Teacher Yu Jie's reward encouraged me even more.

After that, Teacher Yu Jie asked us to briefly talk about our feelings in today's salon.

My feelings in the salon: the first time When I attended the salon, I was confused by these three questions, but I had never encountered such problems before. To be honest, I also felt that it was difficult to answer them. My experience is still very insufficient. I have also experienced Yu Jie Salon. The answers from many teachers have given me a lot of gains. The important thing is to think carefully and accumulate experience.

At that time, she asked for my address and phone number in the group, and even the specific house number. I sent it to her in a daze. Unexpectedly, she apologized to me and said that she wanted to order takeout for me, but my home was too far away. I couldn't deliver it. Only then did I realize what she meant when she posted "The salon ends tonight, food photos will come later." It didn't take long for her to post photos of delicious food, pan-fried buns, and small wontons. , red bean soup, iced yellow peaches, fried wontons, my mouth watered. Although I couldn’t eat Teacher Yu Jie’s takeout, Teacher Yu Jie’s warmth warmed my heart tonight. The theme of the local salon is to be fearless and study online. Teacher Yu Jie’s three questions are all problems she encountered in the last class she just took. She put such problems in front of us. We think and inspire us. Yes, as a teacher, we can never predict what kind of students we will face, but no matter what kind of students we face, don’t be afraid and look at it with a research mentality. This is Yu Jie. The way of thinking that the teacher taught me is also my biggest gain today.

What I have on hand is "I Want to Be a Class Teacher" by Teacher Yu Jie. I am so lucky to participate in it today. Jie Salon, close contact with Teacher Yu Jie. The unity of knowledge and action is like a spring breeze. Thank you for taking this step and letting me gain something.

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