When I saw this problem, I felt particularly ridiculous. This sister has a terrible idea. Is she afraid of chaos?

I love my mother dearly, but I haven't seen her mention my brother. Brother earns so much money, is he too busy to help his mother? Still too lazy to cook?

If you really feel bad about not getting married, help your mother do something, and then severely criticize your spoiled brother who is "four-body and not diligent" and doesn't know how to take care of his mother; If you get married, bring your old mother home quickly, and she will be well raised. Don't let her suffer with the "unfilial son" she raised.

Shouldn't she take care of her brother before blaming her sister-in-law After all, my sister-in-law is an "outsider" and should not treat others as her own when she is not working. Usually, when she is the head of the family, her sister and mother should be the hostess of this family, and then come out to "show the way".

If it is really my sister-in-law who doesn't do it, it is more a problem that my brother didn't teach well.

A friend of mine, when she first entered her husband's house, couldn't do anything, but she took the initiative to learn and wash the dishes. At first, her husband was modest, but later he simply threw it to her friends and elder sister, who were not married and didn't do it.

Look at her husband. He doesn't even move in bed and never helps his parents-in-law. On holidays, he also sleeps late, plays mobile phones and watches computers, and then his parents are exhausted and don't help.

Later, my friend got pregnant and finally threw away the work of washing dishes and didn't rob me of cooking.

Sister-in-law shakes her face, gossips behind her back, and her friends are tired from work. When she came back to lie on the sofa and play with her mobile phone, she was walking on thin ice. When the couple quarreled, her husband even accused her of fucking work! I'm fucking tired

After getting married, my sister-in-law knows who washes the dishes and cooks today. Every time her grandmother comes back from seeing her sister-in-law, she looks like a different person with a long face.

Later, a friend said directly to her husband, "My mother doesn't care about herself. Why should I be filial for you?"

It's ridiculous to say that my husband and son regard my grandmother as an old maid. They don't feel bad about cooking and don't help. However, after having a daughter-in-law and a table of rice, I began to complain and feel distressed.

When you confide and complain, think about what your brother is like first, and don't let yourself take responsibility and throw it to others.

At this time, I don't use my daughter-in-law, but treat her sincerely when the old man can help; Not when she is old. Treat her sincerely.

Be more patient and tolerant of your daughter-in-law and sister-in-law. After all, your brother and his parents have been raising them for 30 years, but he hasn't learned to cook and has no love for his parents. Don't criticize the sister-in-law who has just entered the door and has no parenting or blood relationship with her parents.

Give up if you don't get it, enjoy success, or leave it to someone else's parents.

Sister-in-law didn't go home to wait on your mother for your brother. Take care of her brother first. She didn't earn much money, so she wanted to find a daughter-in-law, a free nanny for nothing, and then she was pointed at.