"Did you take the money I put in the drawer?" This is the most hurtful thing I have ever heard.

One day when I came home, I found that my mother looked different from usual, but I still chose to eat calmly.

It didn't take long for my mother to ask, "Did you take the money I put in the drawer?" I have never taken anything from myself without borrowing it in my life, and I hate theft from the bottom of my heart.

Her question made me feel a little annoyed, but I tried to stay calm and denied it.

Unexpectedly, in the next ten minutes, my mother asked me three times in a row, and I denied it one after another as my anger escalated.

Seeing that she couldn't find the result, she asked: "I remember that the money was clearly placed here, but now it is gone. The only one in the house is you. I must not have touched it. If you took it, hand over the money."

I don’t care.” I suddenly felt insulted.

Not to mention, about half a month ago, my mother claimed that I had taken her bus pass and asked me to hand over my own card. However, later, she found her own card and returned my card.

Give me.

We have been together for many years, and things like "lost axes and suspicious neighbors" have happened many times at home. I feel that today I have reached the limit of my tolerance.

I suppressed my anger and denied it righteously.

This matter just went away. I was really angry, so in order to prove my innocence, I installed a camera in my house.

Feeling upset, I told my friend about it.

Some people think that I have taken the above measures in one fell swoop, which is even a bit ridiculous.

But in my opinion, its existence can at least avoid countless potential quarrels in the future, which is very worthwhile.

Some people think that my mother is kind and that her behavior was just driven by urgency and should be forgiven.

Yes, I have never doubted my mother's kindness, and I dare not forget my mother's kindness in raising me.

However, I also think that sometimes those who hurt others unintentionally are more hateful than those who hurt others intentionally.

Because facing the latter, we will not have any fetters in our hearts, we only need to take legitimate and reasonable measures to punish them.

But in the face of the former, there is often nothing we can do.

It is precisely because these people think they have "legitimate" reasons that they speak unscrupulously and harm others unscrupulously.

Evaluations from third parties such as "no malice" and "inadvertent mistake" have become a talisman for the parties involved when facing public opinion.

If the victim expresses dissatisfaction, he will be considered to be making a fuss out of a molehill and cannot be treated leniently; if the victim does not take any measures, what awaits him is either an explosion or death.

Since this problem is difficult to solve, it should be the right thing to adopt an attitude of prevention and nip the problem in the bud.

Although the specific measures seemed ridiculous and bizarre, I had no other choice, so I came up with this strategy.

My motivation is simple: it hurts so much to be hurt by someone close to me, and I don’t want to bear it anymore.