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I was a little surprised when you said you dropped your hand. How did it happen? I feel really sad for you. Is it heavy? Which finger or wrist? Are they all hospitalized? If you are close, I can take care of your life no matter what, and more importantly, comfort your lonely mood at this time. It's a pity that we are far away, so we can only say greetings: I hope you recover soon and be happy!

If the heart cannot be pure, where is the peach garden? Sister, you can talk about seclusion, but you must not take it seriously. That kind of loneliness cannot be endured just by thinking about it, so think deeply and act carefully.

People are fragile when they are sick and need the most care. Especially if you are a girl and you are alone, how strong can you be? I am not a sensationalist, nor do I think you are so great that I have to look up at you. I just think that you are such a watery girl. Putting aside your talents, your understanding of others makes people happy. How much love! It's a pity that fate is not perfect either. Everyone is imperfect, no matter what your origin, your appearance, your level, or your taste. God is always fair and will never give you nothing or everything. He will always leave you with some imperfections, and it happens that these imperfections can make most people stronger. "Is suffering in vain? It should make us strong." May my sister be a little more strong. No matter how many friends you have, no matter how good your friends are, how can you take care of them all the time? You have to rely on yourself. You have to be in a really good mood.

People, no matter how strong they are, have weaknesses, especially when they are sick. What's more, you have no parents and no marriage, which makes you even more pitiable. At this time, I thought, my parents are far away, but a marriage that understands pain and warmth is still within reach, right? But the younger sister refuses to give in to her heart, fearing that the girl's family's concept of love being the most important will always influence others. What should we do? Who can guarantee that this life will no longer be bumpy? There must be someone who can at least take care of you in life. Is there really no one who is worthy of a girl? Is it true that the girl has ever been in a difficult situation? How detached this must be. I always hope that my sister's heart will be connected and her love will be returned to her. I also know that everyone says it’s all nonsense, but let’s leave this matter to fate. When fate comes, nothing can stop it. May the fate of my sister come soon!

I just came up at this moment. Women in marriage are not as clean as you girls. Alas, there are too many difficulties, but they are not known to outsiders. There are difficulties both in and outside the "city", but there are also some benefits in this "city". For example, if you are sick, you will always have a family to take care of you. Of course, it must be a serious illness, but if it is a minor illness, the family will Those who were indifferent didn't take it seriously at all. But for me, I would rather ignore it and hope not to get seriously ill (I have never had minor illnesses, and I have been sick since I was a child). However, this is just a wish. Who can guarantee whether I will survive or not. However, compared with the hassle of daily necessities of daily necessities such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, seams and water, I would rather not have this benefit. Look at this Sunday, I have been busy since early in the morning, everything is going smoothly inside and outside. All day long, and only in the evening did I have time to get on the computer. Then I saw your situation and gave you this reply. I don't know how many times I have been angry this morning while I was answering this question. I was so angry at that terrible child that I shed a small bowl of tears this morning. When she finished class, she called you three times. She had already forgotten about the "waking up anger" she mentioned in the morning. There is no such thing as a cure. Once you get used to it, you become numb and don't take it seriously. Life is so real, sometimes it really makes you dumbfounded. Did my sister laugh? Are you laughing at people like me who deserve to be "crowded" because they can't control themselves and take the initiative to enter the "city"? Sometimes I want to escape from the city, but is it clean outside the city? It's windy outside the city, so it's safer in the city. hehe.

My sister is a smart person. I don’t need to advise you. I’m just a little distressed. I hope my sister can feel at ease in everything. She is already worried when she is sick, but there is nothing you can do about it, right? Who wants it, and who can avoid it. Once it comes, make peace with it, treat it actively, and relax your mind.

Sister, good night, have a good night!

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I know your hand is like that, so there is no need to turn back.

I should be much older than you. Although I don’t have the accumulation of knowledge and ability from childhood and the icy intelligence of nature, I still have some suffering experiences. Although I can’t let go of many things, I can already look away from them. So you don’t have to be too thoughtful. I understand. There are so many things to say. Don’t you have a hand problem?

I would like to say by the way, you are just too worried, maybe out of concern for my feelings, you have transferred my inner thoughts to you. This is something I did not expect. I wrote it at the time and replied to it at that time. Okay, I didn’t think much about it. Is it a burden to you? If so, I would like to express my sincere apologies. But because of this, I feel the care and enthusiasm of your good friends, which is an unexpected gain for me. As you said, your "only virtue makes a neighbor", I understand. Thank you sister, and thank you friends. .

I don’t dare to say it, for fear of hurting you. In fact, breaking my hand is not a big deal in normal times. It’s okay to just take care of it. But for you, that’s not the case. Ordinary hands are a pair of hands that master art. How can such a pair of hands be available to everyone? That is God's gift to you! What kind of "refining" it has gone through before it can become familiar with music, only you can understand it better. So when it fell out, it not only hurt my hands, but also made my heart hurt. You seemed to have said something in the space: "I can't play the piano anymore..." I was shocked at the moment, but I didn't breathe out, for fear of hurting your heart even more. I can have some experience of what kind of blow this is to a person who loves music, and how helpless it is, and I feel sorry for you because of this change. If you say it now, you should be much calmer.

However, sister, there are too many things changing in life, and many things do not go according to our plans. Ordinarily, you have already lost a lot, and you should not lose anything more, but God wants to use that "banana peel" to save you. You fall and break the hand that plays the beautiful music. God robs you of your love. What can man do? How could you have predicted this? Just like an earthquake, you won't know until it happens. Without prevention, there is no way to prevent it. You can't always tense up and worry about what will happen next moment, so it's better to escape in advance. We still have to move forward, but no matter what we encounter, the most important thing is to adjust our mentality and treat it correctly. Whether you can be active or passive, you have gained a lot. It will at least make you stronger and more tenacious in the days to come.

Is there anyone who can persuade people like me? It seems to be exposing people’s scars. I am so self-righteous in comforting you, but I don’t know whether it comforts you or hurts you. I hope you don't mind. The words may not be appropriate, but the heart is true. I wish you a speedy recovery and enjoy your life with a smile.

After replying, I pasted it into the space again and made some slight modifications as a souvenir. At a certain time in the future, look back and see if you feel differently, and how you have changed for the better at that time. Leave the future to the future.

If you tell me again, you don’t need to reply to me or repost it. There is a connection between the hearts.

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Sister, I seem to have found the answer to the reason for your "remote hiding" in this article that I just read today. Is that really where your soul belongs? How much understanding do you have of Buddhism? Is it "quietness" that attracts your mind, or does Buddhism attract your people through "quietness"? Can you really let go? Yes, the parents you miss the most in this world are gone, the love you yearn for the most is far away from you, and the violin you love the most can no longer fully express your heart because of the broken hand... But Ruobing, when God closes a door for you, he will always open a window for you.

Without parents, we can be your relatives; without love, we can be your friends; without being able to play the violin, you can speak with your mouth and write with your heart... How can you shield yourself into Buddhism? Jingkong, is she really "quiet" and "empty"? Her beautiful photos are still included in the book, which shows that after three years of practice, she has been unable to let go. Letting go is not easy! Was it something she had to do out of necessity, something she yearned for, something she yearned for? The hardships involved cannot be explained in just one or two days of interviews, right? Have you thought about it? Don’t let it go just by going to a few interviews with Buddhists and reading some books on life, death, and enlightenment. It’s not easy. How long have your parents and your love been gone? Have you really let it go so far? ?

Sister, the weather outside is excellent today, and the bright sunshine is shining directly into my eyes, but the weather inside me is full of haze, which has not dissipated all day long. Your word "yuanyin" was mentioned again, and it really shook my heart like an earthquake. Throughout the day, a pain hit my heart from time to time... Yes, we have never met, and we have not had much contact. Conversation is just a mysterious fate that makes me pity you and cherish you. I hurt you and feel your pain. I can't pick it up and I can't let it go! Such a smart person, such a talented person, such a kind person as good as water, such a graceful person... How can he "remain far away" from the mortal world, how can his heart be as calm as water! If the mind is quiet, there is no way to practice! Why borrow a peach garden to sit and watch the clouds and water? Listen to my sister, wait for everything to be settled. Once you feel at peace, it is not too late to make plans. When people are disappointed, it is easy to compromise their ability to judge things correctly. And once a decision is made, for a girl, there are some things that are difficult to look back on, so you have to leave some room for error.

Because of your words of "Yuanyin", the kind-hearted Qingxiao Luomei thought that she could persuade you, but how could I use my strength? In desperation, I took the liberty of adding your teacher as a friend. He actually agreed to my request and said that he was in Beijing and was discussing a lawsuit that he seemed to hate. He said he didn't know your current situation, but promised me to get news about you. Come back to me later, my kind-hearted teacher, and thank him for you. Kind hearts are always connected, right? Chengfeng's years are also worried about you, and I didn't sleep well all night. Then I don’t know how many of your friends have trouble sleeping because of you, and how many people really miss you, without any utilitarianism or hypocrisy. This is the result of your being a human being, and maybe this is also part of your tiredness. From now on, I will remember to talk less, disturb you less, and do what you like. If something happens, if I can use my sister, just say something. Northeastern people are very happy. If you don't help me, it will be 90/90. Remember, keep my sister ready, just in case it is of little use? Remember that you must be kind to yourself, which is equivalent to being kind to everyone who loves you. We will always love you as long as your heart never gives up.

It is now 23:30. I am waiting for news from you, but I am afraid of hearing the news that you are really "far away". I think I will know the truth tomorrow? I hope you can change your original intention and continue to return to our mortal world with a smile as beautiful as a flower.

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I lay up late last night and couldn’t fall asleep due to tossing and turning. I finally fell asleep, and then fell asleep again. I don’t know how long it took. I was confused for only two or three hours. When I woke up, I couldn’t go back to sleep. I knew it was your things that occupied my heart, and I knew that I was of no use. If If it is God's will, I advise you to change your mind. I should thank God, thank God!

Is it really God’s will that moves you? You replied to me this afternoon and said: "I'm crying. Listen to my sister and don't leave for now. We'll talk about it later." Thank God, your good intentions have been fulfilled. What could be more satisfying than truly helping someone? But maybe you used these words to make me happy. No matter what, you finally "changed your mind." After this period of hardship, maybe you will have a bright future again. How do you know what God's will is? How do you know that such setbacks are not a precursor to your blessings. Then it is a blessing in disguise. How can you know that it is not a blessing? Isn't it true that we have suffered? of someone else? May you have a good life and good health, and may your heart be at peace. I think this is also the wish of all of us who love and care about you.

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Sister, these are the first few real turning points in my life. Because I was too young, I have no memory or recollection of the bumps and bruises and narrow escapes at that time. Not much, other than feeling sorry for my mother, it was nothing compared to all the setbacks I experienced later. As a daughter's family, we know what the greatest happiness and misfortune are. Looking back at where we came from, there are too many tears shed in secret. But now, as I am close to my destiny, I can no longer refuse to accept it, and my heart has generally calmed down, because no matter how hard you go, I can't do without preset life trajectory for you. You can't throw away what you deserve, and you can't keep what you deserve. I can face it calmly. If you don’t believe it, look back at the road you have traveled; if you don’t believe it, savor the next experience with your heart... Mom said: Accept your fate. I didn't accept it, but my experience made me admit it. It was my mother's experience. After experiencing it, I realized that this sentence is not "catching on the wind".

In terms of external style and achievements, internal nobility, intelligence, character and talent, there is no comparison between you and me. We are not on the same line. This is the truth that cannot and cannot be discounted. I am by no means pretending to be modest. It’s not a high-altitude festival, it’s just a meeting in the dark. It makes me pity you and feel a little sorry for you. I read your Jinxin Xiuyu’s articles and see where you spread your kindness. I appreciate your "only" things. "Decheng Neighbor" I was originally a better friend because of you, which makes me sincerely admire you. Some of them have become rare and precious friends of mine because of you. Thank you for allowing me to meet them too. When I think of the ups and downs you have experienced in your intellectual splendor, I think of Park Jin-hye, whose life experience is even better than yours. It is true that she is a politician with power at the highest level. Who can compete with her for glory? But in terms of personal feelings and family ties, she also has a huge gap. She is not as good as an ordinary family. And although you are also a woman, you still have some shortcomings. But who can say that this won’t help you achieve other benefits? I don’t know the future.

If possible, and it was my early wish, would I have the courage to write about all the bitterness in my later life? I have no idea. It's just that I don't want to touch it, and I don't want to "force myself to express my sorrow in order to compose new words." Who is not a storyteller? Who doesn’t have ups and downs? According to wishes and hopes, how can there be any bitterness that one is willing to taste? But it’s not up to you whether you want to taste it or not. But if it can mean something to you and others, if I still have enthusiasm, if I can squeeze in the time, let me jump out and read it from the perspective of a third party. It will be much calmer. I would like you to be my motivation to write it in advance, I don't know.

It’s been a long time, it’s been a long time, and I don’t know where to start or where to start. Let’s take a look. I can’t say. I hope you can read from the noble people like Park Jin Hye and the poor people like you Sister Hui that it is not easy for them to be high or low, just let nature take its course, no matter the pain or joy, smile and accept the challenges. Write when you want, talk when you want, along the way, laugh and sing, suffer and enjoy, this is life... Sister Hui, I have been too indifferent, but the passion for life has not weakened too much with age. No matter what, care for life and live calmly.

Actually, you are much stronger than I thought. Why should I talk nonsense, because I have no brain, haha. If you don't like to hear it, just think of me talking to myself for my own entertainment. I remember Teacher Sun said, "Talking to oneself is also a way of expression." I have stepped down, haha.

Find a different way of thinking about "where you came from, where you are going", but don't use your brain too much. Thinking, it is not just the cost of sacrificing sleep. I am a mixed person, and I can’t explain everything. But along the way, I have lacked a lot of things. If you think about it carefully, the most lacking thing among many things is sleep. I owe it. Haha, I grow old quickly, so it’s not worth it. , but I can’t control it.