No matter how busy working parents are at work during the day, what things should they do with their children at night?

There are many working parents around me, and different parents have different views on the balance between children and work, just like the two stories I am about to describe below. First, let’s take a look at Chengcheng’s family: Chengcheng’s parents are busy with work every day and have no time to take care of their children, so they left them to the elderly at home. Even at night, there are very few good opportunities for children to see their parents. Sometimes their parents have to work overtime, and sometimes they want to socialize. Every time they come home, most of what they see is their children sleeping. .

Children can count the number of times they see their parents when they wake up in the daytime. As time goes by, the child becomes less and less close to his parents, and the parents understand the child less and less, to the point where they feel that they are not a father and son or have a father-son relationship.

One day, a parent-child activity was to be held in the kindergarten. Chengcheng’s parents always felt ashamed of their children, so they deliberately took time off to participate in the parent-child activity. However, at the scene, there seemed to be a gap between Chengcheng and his parents that could not be crossed. The students' parent-child activities did not cooperate with each other at all. In the quick question and answer step, the parents' answers and the children's answers are not in the same tune at all, and neither answer is the same. Because of this parent-child activity, Chengcheng was severely hit. The child never wanted to talk about his parents at school, let alone things at home, and often hid in corners alone.

Let’s take a look at Sisi’s family: Sisi’s parents are both working-class people. They are busy with things every day and don’t have much time to devote to their children, so they both leave their children to the elderly. The difference is that Sisi's parents have made an overall plan. They can make full use of time for their children every day, giving Sisi an hour before going to work and an hour before going to bed.

That’s it. The child has a very good moral concept. He understands that his parents’ work is important, but he also understands that his parents love him because his parents say good morning and good night to him every day. Therefore, children especially like their parents. When it is time before going to bed, they use fairy tale books, let their parents tell stories, or chat with their parents. They communicate in a relaxed and happy way every night, and then fall asleep.

Under the influence of her parents, Sisi has become very independent, optimistic and confident. She must manage the method committee in the class. Girls will actively reach out and say that I want to run for election; there are lectures in the class. In the story competition, no one was willing to stand up and speak, but she was the first to speak; when encountering difficult things or small setbacks, she was not afraid of difficulties, remembered what her parents told her before going to bed every day, and often encouraged herself. Sisi has made rapid progress in all aspects, her test scores are constantly improving, her popularity and character are also very good, she is often surrounded by children, and she has made many very good friends.

From the above two examples, everyone must be able to know the significant changes: Chengcheng’s parents put their energy into their work and not much to their children, and the children’s development was not satisfactory; Sisi's parents, although they also devote their energy to work, understand that by allocating some of their energy to their children, their children will be more proactive and happy. It is not difficult to see that when new working parents do something with their children every night, the actual effect is quite surprising.

Therefore, parents, why not spend the night with your children enjoying the following things: