Probably too many girls were attracted by the story that the prince fell in love with Cinderella and the overbearing president fell in love with the silly day in the film and television drama, and fell into crazy love and didn't want to wake up.
But in fact, it is really too difficult for an ordinary girl to achieve class leap. Do you think God can arrange a chance meeting, or a hero can save a beautiful woman on the highway ..... Stop dreaming, the chances are not too low.
Anyway, I have never met or dreamed of flying to the branches to be a phoenix one day, because I don't have the ability and luck.
What's more, real rich people think differently from you in love.
A friend of mine really married a rich man. At that time, she was only 2 1 year old and had just entered the society.
My friend is beautiful, but she has one advantage that many people can't compare with, especially emotional intelligence. She and the overbearing president's husband are also in love at work. Now they have been married for five or six years, and the days are still very happy.
Speaking of rich people's love, a friend said that her husband was busy at work and didn't have time to spend a month in love. The most contact time between two people is usually at dinner, and he will be concerned about whether he has encountered any problems recently.
As for the scenes arranged on TV, such as sending flowers and gifts to propose marriage, there is no such thing at all. After nearly half a year of contact, the two announced their marriage, which was almost romantic. Her husband took a bunch of materials for her to sign.
My friend knows this very well. Rich people will insure their property before marriage. She knows that she is willing to marry her husband because she really appreciates him.
Although my friend's husband is more than ten years older than her, because my friend's parents divorced when he was a child, he was extremely lacking in fatherly love. So she is also very realistic in the face of love, and she agrees with her husband's simple and neat behavior.
Friends say that men should not spend too much time on their feelings, because life itself is too tired, and both sides try their best to understand tolerance, and life is generally not too bad.
It's not unreasonable to think about what she said, not to mention money. Even ordinary people think that love can be really tiring sometimes. For example, myself and my boyfriend torture each other when they encounter contradictions.
When I first fell in love, I expected the other person to coax me, but the longer I spent together, the more I found I was really tired. More often, I learned to be generous, because I know that it is impossible to be separated from each other.
I think this is the real life.
It's not how long people love each other, but whether they can finally get married is another matter.
Rich people are rarely willing to drag their feet on this matter, and once they decide to get married, they are flat and agile.
For example, the marriage between giants, in which interests are intertwined, such as the need for stars or artists to save face, such as falling in love with ordinary people. ......
This is the relationship between Gu Xiaoling and his family in the hit drama Dear Yourself.
Xiaoling wants to marry a rich man with money and talent at home. His feelings for Gu Xiaoling can't be completely counted as love, because she just meets his criteria for a future partner.
When talking about marriage, Home showed Gu Xiaoling his graduation certificate, business license and tax record certificate, even genetic test report, physical examination report, household registration book and various honorary certificates.
After he introduced himself, let Gu Xiaoling introduce himself. Home's approach is obvious. First, it is to save time and let the other party know each other in the shortest time. The second is to let Gu Xiaoling know that her purpose is to marry her.
Although this kind of blind date is beautiful, Jia is a very picky and self-disciplined person. He asked about Gu Xiaoling's family situation. Because he pursues a high-quality life, he has high requirements for the other half and yearns for the quality of marriage.
Many people see the relationship between Home and Gu Xiaoling, and think that he is more like AI. They think that love is not programming, and it always needs some romantic pictures to be perfect. But there are many such examples in real life.
From a family point of view, he cherishes time like gold, because every point is counted.
Although love can't be carried out by calculation, he is rational, and he also saw the difference in Gu Xiaoling's heart at the critical moment. This is actually the reality.
Just like our ancestors went back, a few people were seriously in love and then entered a happy marriage as described in the script.
Most people get married through the words of the matchmaker, even if they have never met, it is a lifetime.
With the opening of modern society and ideas, love has become colorful in our lives. But its essence has not changed, even in a certain circle.
The door is right and the pearl is perfect.
In our eyes, those romantic love and marriage that seem like fairy tales are all packaged and advertised. In fact, marriage is as warm as drinking water, and only you know it.
Never envy Cinderella being loved by the prince. Of course, this is also a real problem, but in fact, Cinderella wouldn't even get a ticket to the dance if she wasn't the count's father.
Not to mention that she will be seen by the prince and branded in his heart.
Marrying a rich man is a good wish, but the most basic condition is to improve your basic skills and give yourself the opportunity to stand on the stage and be seen by the prince.
And can Cinderella really live a happy life after marrying the prince? Can you marry a rich man like a duck to water?
The specific result still depends on whether your own value can control the marriage with the rich.
If you don't have these, do yourself well, improve your practical ability, and pursue happiness with the money you earn. I believe this is the most fragrant.
Otherwise, unrealistic fantasies will only drag down your life.