What is the best quality of a girl? Is filial piety. "All virtues and filial piety come first". If a person is not filial to his parents who gave birth to him and raised him, how can he believe that this person's heart is kind?

On the contrary, a filial person often behaves well in other ways.

Children don't think their mothers are ugly, and dogs don't think their families are poor. Crows are still feeding back, so how can people leave their parents behind?

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I met my girlfriend Xiao Gan in college. When I was in college, Xiao Gan had long hair and was an excellent student, lively and kind. Xiao Gan and I are classmates, and they are in the same club.

The club often holds activities, so we will go to the activities together. Once, Xiao Gan took part in a competition and asked to design a website. Xiao Gan had some trouble designing the website, and she felt very depressed.

Later, I happened to find her distress, so I took the initiative to help her check the information and explained it to her all afternoon.

When the results of the competition came out, she successfully won the second place. Later, she invited me to dinner. I asked him at the dinner table, and she said, "Why are you so obsessed with that game?" Xiao Gan replied, "Because the top three players in that game had a bonus, I think I must get it." Thank you for helping me so much. "

I waved and said with a smile that it doesn't matter. Since then, our relationship has become closer. We are all students, and my family is strict, so we don't have much pocket money.

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We often go out to eat the same bowl of mala Tang in the evening. She always smiles contentedly. I think she is simple and lovely. After graduating from college, we all chose to enter the society to find jobs.

With his outstanding achievements and performance during his college years, Xiao Gan successfully entered a listed company. I also found a job, the salary is not as high as her, but it's ok.

After work, Xiao Gan and I have been getting along very well, so we began to think about getting married. I am a native of Shanghai, and my parents have formal jobs. My family bought me a house before graduation, and I will buy a car when I get married.

I know Xiao Gan is from the countryside, and her parents are farmers. My parents were very opposed when they found out. They think Xiao Gan and I can't get along after marriage.

At this time, Xiao Gan's monthly salary is already 30,000. Usually, we are generous when we go out, and give and take to me, not as stingy as ordinary girls.

I think Xiao Gan is a very motivated girl, earning 30,000 yuan a month through her own efforts. I took Xiao Gan to meet her parents. On the day she met her parents, she dressed up beautifully and brought presents to both my parents.

My parents' impression of her has also improved. After Xiao Gan left, my mother said to me, "If you insist on marrying her, I won't stop her. This girl seems to be very motivated. " With the consent of my parents, I asked Xiao Gan to meet her parents.

On the eve of my wedding, when I meet my parents, I hope to leave a good impression and show my best.

Sometimes it's good to be true, don't be too artificial, it will be counterproductive.

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I bought a lot of things the day I went back to her house. I was a little nervous on the way and asked Xiao Gan about her parents from time to time.

Xiao Gan doesn't seem to want to say much, just telling me that her parents are easy to get along with. Xiao Gan's home is very difficult to walk. There are dirt roads everywhere, and it is particularly bumpy.

Finally, Xiao Gan and I got off the bus and walked a long way to get to her house. As soon as I entered her yard, I saw a shabby house, and even the doors were tied with wood.

Xiao Gan's mother greeted me and smiled awkwardly when she saw me: "Qian Qian's boyfriend is here? Come in, don't stand. " Xiao Gan and I entered the door and saw a heatable adobe sleeping platform. The house is small and there are many things piled on the ground. Although there are many things, they are not messy. It can be seen that Xiao Gan's parents are very clean people.

Xiao Gan's father sat on the kang and saw me talking to me with a smile. He told me to sit down quickly. I saw a dish of pickles with some steamed buns on it in front of him.

I put everything on the ground and chatted with Xiao Gan's parents for a while. After coming out of Xiao Gan's house, I lit a cigarette. Girlfriend's monthly salary is 30 thousand Usually, all kinds of famous brands package brand-name clothes and luxury goods. You can't even see this at home.

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After smoking a cigarette, I calmly said to my girlfriend, "Let's break up." Xiao gan is a little flustered. She grabbed my hand and asked why. I said, "Your monthly salary is 30,000, and you are usually glamorous. You can pay for a meal of 2000 yuan without blinking.

I know your family is in the countryside, and I don't dislike it. But what I didn't expect was that you didn't care about your parents at all. What are your parents eating when you are having a big meal? I didn't think you were such a person. "

After I sent Xiao Gan back to the city, I went home. Don't say that my parents can't accept this kind of Xiaoqian, even I can't accept Xiaoqian's disregard for her parents' gentleness and kindness.

Parents have been working hard all their lives, bringing up their children from childhood to college. When you are able to repay your parents after work, you only care about yourself and ignore your parents.

Such a person can be said to have no heart. He basks in food and bags in a circle of friends, but his parents eat pickles and steamed bread at home. Such a person can't even do filial piety, how can he expect anything else?